Tell us about the process of getting out of love.

It just feels, it doesn't feel it. Got out of lovelorn and did not feel the so-called sea and sky and self-redemption. That feeling is not the sudden opening of a window, but the completion of the process of experiencing the bitterness and digesting the bitterness, which is long and fragmented.

The process of coming out of a broken love is the process of growing out of the missing leg. It's painful and panicked, but as long as it grows, you will find that you can not only stand firmly, but also run.

There is a lyric that is well interpreted, the sea and the sky, after the storm. When you come out of lovelorn, you really have to be yourself again.

You will find that you are a frog at the bottom of a well, the world is so big, and then your horizons will be broader, and your mind will be broader.

Relief, because the person in your heart is slowly forgetting, will understand that what is yours is yours, learn from the experience of failed love, and do and cherish it in a beautiful love.

Slowly, every night is no longer a lonely night, because the process is slowly forgetting the person in my heart, like I am transforming, like the feeling that the silkworm chrysalis is about to break its shell.

It's just that you have a serious illness and then slowly **, you can slowly get out of bed and go to the toilet to walk around, and then slowly get out of the hospital and recuperate at home, everything is getting better.

Eat a trench and grow a wisdom, slowly think about it, this is your own experience, you will not make such a mistake in the future, this feeling is like another catastrophe, you will understand a lot when you come out, and you will be trapped in it if you can't get out.

It's like having the motivation to re-understand yourself, and the motivation to work harder and better. Even if I deny myself a hundred times a day, I have the courage to work hard to live.

When you fall out of love at the age of 18, you can hide in the toilet and cry, you can drink and sing all night at KTV, you can cry darkly, you can swear that you will never get along with him in the future, and then start again, as if you had not been injured.

At the age of 22, you fell out of love, stayed awake all night, wandered all night, and the next day you had to pretend to be okay, because you still had to work and live, your face was expressionless, but you knew that your heart had collapsed.

At the age of 25, you have thought countless times, or simply go back to the age of seventeen and love vigorously again, but you clearly know that you are too old to fall out of love again.

You know the moment when he finds the object before you do.

In fact, the saddest thing is not the breakup, but after the breakup, you find that he is still doing well, and soon has a new girlfriend and a new life.

Still living in the past, with him in his dreams. The feeling of loss after waking up, and suddenly feeling very sorry for myself, not only did I not move forward, but I also made a mess of myself.

No one cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one cares how many autumns you have to stay up tossing and turning. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process by themselves. When we all understand this truth, we will no longer be hypocritical in front of others and go around talking about it for comfort.

Every time I think about it, it's his good, but what he does is quite bad, but I still keep thinking about his good.

I feel that all the love in this life has been given to him, and I will never meet the next person who can be tempted.

Delete me.,Within a few days, I posted the official announcement with another girl.,When you're with me, you didn't post anything.。

The road I have traveled with her, the window of the restaurant together, and the things she loves to eat, every time I recall, I think of her good, but I know that I can't go back, and I can only wish her happiness for the rest of her life.

The sixth sense says he likes you, but his details are everywhere saying I don't like you.

I guess I think of you when I look at everything, and everything I watch is about you, but I still got through it, and now you are irrelevant to me.

The most heart-wrenching thing about the relationship is: it was you who entered my world first, but in the end, I couldn't get out, I was the one who said cruel things, I was the one who was sad, I was the one who wanted to go first, and I was the one who turned back frequently.

This needs to be faced rationally, since two people are not suitable for being together, then breaking up is the best choice, after all, you can't decide the outcome of a thing, especially feelings This kind of thing, we have to be a little more casual.

There are always a few times in life that you have to go through a few breakups.

In the first few times, I would feel like the end of the world, as if I was going to die in the next second, and I would feel painful when I thought about that person, or when I thought about all the things we had been together before. Physiologically, I feel that my heart is tightening one after another, and every time I contract, the blood will flow against the flow, and even the tips of my fingers will be numb and painful. You used to fight with your friends until late at night, you used to overeat and want to forget the unhappy things, you used to cry in the middle of the night, and even cried alone on the crowded streets, feeling that the tears would never end your life, and you felt that you would never get better again.

However, as you get older, the number of broken lovers increases, or in other words, as there are more and more things in your life that you need to think, care about, and grasp, and as you become more and more mature, when you fall out of love again, you will no longer be so desperately sad.

You know you're going to come out, you know you're going to recover after a while, you know that one day you're going to recover from falling out of love and move on to the next sweet relationship. At this time, falling out of love is no longer as painful as the end of the world.

However, this is another difficult stage - you know that you will come out of the breakup at some point, but you don't know how long it will take. You know you're going to have to go through a hard time to forget, to recover. It's like watching an abusive movie where you're tempted to fast-forward or skip some of the clips and go straight to the happy finale.

Helpless life this product, there is no fast-forward button.

At this time, yours may not be really interested in anything. I don't want to talk to my friends, because you know that no matter how much you say, you will only complain and complain; I don't want to get drunk in the middle of the night or cry in the wind like in a movie, because you know you have to go to work tomorrow and there are still a lot of things to get done. Don't want to overeat or go on a shopping spree, because you know that the consequences of such an immature behavior can be twice as much as a workout at the gym or a sadder feeling when you pay off your credit card next month.

You know you're going to come out, you know you're going to have to stay sane, you know you're going to try to get life off track, you know you're going to have to endure this for a while.

But you don't know how long it will be.

This is the most difficult time to grow up and mature, and after falling out of love.

Maybe at this time, doing anything will not help much, you can only wait for time to go slowly, the plot of life will be staged step by step, and one day you finally feel interested in something in a real sense, this difficult day will be over.

My personal advice is, don't let yourself be idle, go to work if you can, go to work if you can, go to work out if you can keep fitting, read when you can read a book, learn something if you can learn it, and at least tidy up your room when you can't do anything.

That way, the day you find yourself feeling refreshed, you won't regret that you wasted this time.

I think the month or so after falling out of love is the most difficult, of course, this time varies from person to person, mainly depends on the person's personality, if you are more introverted and closed yourself, it is possible to immerse yourself in this failed relationship for half a year. If it's an extrovert who will relieve himself, maybe a week or two will be fine.

One, the broken love I experienced.

I once fell in love once when I was in college, we met online, we were separated from each other, it was the first time I fell in love, and I was full of unconfidence. We had a good chat online, and then he came to my school. At that time, it was only half a year before we graduated.

Later he graduated, came to my city, got a not-so-good job, and just hoped we could be together. But the reality was cruel, and the family wanted him to go back and invited me to come and live with me. I was tormented because I was a very traditional person at heart and I didn't want to be too far from home.

Once I take that step, I may only come back once in six months or a year. The problem of distance corroded me again and again, and I was miserable. Until one day, he told me that he went on a blind date.

Suddenly I felt abandoned and told my friend at the time, who said that no one would always wait for anyone.

Second, get out of lovelorn.

Later, my relatives also introduced me to a few blind dates, but at that time, I still did not withdraw from the previous relationship, and I was in a state of escape from others, and I did not open my heart to accept others. During that time, I usually locked myself in my room and burst into tears just thinking about it. It wasn't until later, when I met my current husband, that things got better.

Therefore, falling out of love is something that many people will experience, whether it is an objective factor or a subjective factor that causes a broken love, we should adjust ourselves as soon as possible, and we should meet the happiness that truly belongs to you with the best self.

on 1 Oct 2021

This is not easy to say, because everyone deals with things in different ways, we can't generalize, some people see more openly, and may be able to get out of this bad state after a few days, but if you meet the kind of people who think things more extremely, they may not be able to get out for a long time, and even for a lifetime.

I have to say that if you want to get out of the pain of falling out of love, then you should bury this relationship deep in your heart and don't touch it.

Generally speaking, the first month of the breakup is the most uncomfortable, and he will frantically flip through his Weibo to understand his dynamics through the people around him. I suppressed the idea of adding him back all the time. Hold back.

This thing is like detoxification, you become more and more resistant every time you get through it. Reading, exercising, even eating and buying like crazy, be sure to fill all your time with other things so that you don't occupy your brain very often. It's okay to complain, but don't tell your friends every day.

Everyone is having a hard time, and who hasn't fallen out of love these years. Secretly crying in the bed or watching a movie alone for a day, this matter can't be rushed, it's not that you don't sleep all night and meditate or at some point suddenly hit by something Tianling Gai is enlightened. You have to take it slowly, accept this state of decadence, madness, and give yourself the utmost tolerance and understanding.

You're just not used to being alone all of a sudden, you just need time. In the second month, you calmed down a lot, started to have a normal life, and slept well, but you still missed him a lot of the day. You spend a lot of time with friends you have ignored for a long time, to participate in all kinds of interesting activities with them, there are more people, there is not so lonely, sometimes a group of people talk and laugh and you find that time flies quickly, such days are also very good.

There are always recurring emotions, and after a few days, you don't want to go out and sit alone in the room, unloading the pretending to be strong for so long, and the mood suddenly collapses, and the liver and intestines are broken from crying. Forgetting a person to forget a relationship, it takes time, and it takes time for you to forget.

It's very bitter, and if you want to get out of the pain of falling out of love, you have to spend all your time at work, so that you don't have time to think about things outside of work.

It's very sad. Especially for couples who have been together for a longer time, breaking up will feel like life is empty. But I met new friends. Go out and play. Work hard. Pay more attention to yourself.

Very sad and sad, I feel like my heart is torn, I want to go out for a walk, talk to friends, listen to happy **, eat some delicious food, if possible, you can also find psychological counseling.

1. If you can't see hope, give up completely.

I once had an unforgettable love when I was still studying, maybe everyone thinks that high school students don't know what love is, but at that time, pure love is really love from the bottom of my heart, simple love. However, I didn't go to the end with that boy, he gave up on me, and for a long time I was immersed in pain, and every time I thought of him, I would unconsciously cry, even if I told myself to give up, if I didn't give up, I would be in pain. But in the end, I really let go of this person, in fact, because he completely hurt my heart, and his irresponsible and playful mentality of this relationship made me completely dead to him, so if a relationship really disappoints you, you will choose to let go.

2. Appear to be someone else who loves you.

In TV dramas, you usually see an old-fashioned scene, the second female likes the first male, and the first male and the first female are the standard, and in the end, the second female is sad, and then the second male is obsessed with his daughter and wins the heart of the second female. This shows that when a woman or a man is sad when he is out of love, if someone cares for her at this time, then his fragile psychological defense will definitely collapse again. And at this time, it is easier for him to accept another person.

So if you want to forget someone, you have to start a new journey, so many people choose to let go of the previous unforgettable relationship after meeting a more suitable person.

3. Learn to let go, the only way to grow.

People will face a lot of choices in their lives, and falling out of love and choosing to let go is also a necessary way to grow, only if you learn to let go, then you can grow, just like love, you are destined to not be able to fall in love for the first time will be able to enter marriage, you may face separation, only when a person learns to let go can you get real happiness.

In fact, I feel as if I haven't met someone I love very much, and the one I love the most should be myself!