I don t know when I let the people who leave go without contact

Forgive me for being poor in words and unable to write what you want.

Competitive and competitive, the two individuals are destined not to survive in love.

Don't be afraid, don't be stupid, don't cut off your long hair easily.

The more smug the girl, the more she cares about those promise-like words.

Those past sufferings are clear when I look back.

You can't forget the road I walked with you.

Don't let go, it's ugly.

Don't be too disappointed, I don't have many sensational words.

How can separated people be reunited without strangers.

Children who listen to ** as soon as they turn on the computer are really lonely.

Those who haven't come yet may be on their way.

We're not estranged, just a lot less to say.

I want people who see this to be very happy in their lives.

I don't know when I let the people who leave go without contact

I know it from the look in your eyes.

The Jinghu system of the Southern Song Dynasty made Meng Hui increase the repair of the Confucius Temple, and the great thinker and master of science Zhu Xi came here to give lectures, preach and teach, answer questions and solve doubts, and inscribe poems to give Confucius Temple to study. Shiyun: "Cangyan is not ten years ago, looking back at the mirror is stunned.

There is little forgiveness for the rest of the day, and the rest of the days will be paid for the remnants. ”

Roughly speaking, I don't have a few days left on thin ice, so I'll spend the rest of my life on those scraps.

The remnants are the books of Confucius.

The original sentence is: "If the water is clear, there will be no fish, if you are observed, there will be no disciples, and if you are cheap, you will be invincible". From "The Great Dai Li Ji Zizhang Asks to Enter the Palace".

Meaning: If the water is too clear, there will be no fish, and if people are too demanding, they will have no companions. This sentence shows that when dealing with others, we must have a tolerant attitude.

If you are too demanding, it will be difficult to find the good in others, and you will not be able to cooperate with others, which will eventually lead to self-isolation. If a person is cheap, he is invincible: if he is not self-respecting, the world cannot do anything about him.

The content of the saying "the water is clear, there is no fish, and the person is observed, there is no disciple", originated from the "Da Dai Li Ji Zi Zhang asked to enter the official", "Hanshu Dongfang Shuo Biography" also has the same usage, later generations use this to warn people not to be too harsh, not to look at the problem too harshly, otherwise, it is easy to make everyone unwilling to deal with it because of fear, just like the water is too clear to raise fish. However, nowadays there are always some people who like to deviate from the original meaning of this proverb, so as to persuade people not to be serious in everything, to be forgiving and forgiving, and even to see people or things that harm the interests of the people, they will turn a blind eye and close one eye, and they will not be lenient or lenient. This is where it becomes necessary to discuss it.

It should be admitted that the main reason why this proverb has survived to this day is that it has the positive meaning of exhorting people to be less demanding and more tolerant. At present, some comrades, especially some leading cadres, do not correctly understand the positive significance of this proverb, but regard it as a philosophy of life with "compassion" in mind, and blindly tolerate and accommodate when they are "observing." Especially when faced with some problems and contradictions, they turn a blind eye to it, let it go freely, and become "good old people." As everyone knows, this kind of "compassion" not only cannot win the favor of the majority of people, but in exchange for the so-called "popularity", it is easy for everyone to be disgusted.

If you are cheap, you are invincible, I think the words are different, and the meaning is not difficult to understand. The cheap here is not what we call cheap in our daily life, that is, he is enthusiastic about people, and if he is too enthusiastic in real life, he is called cheap, in fact, it means that if he is enthusiastic about everyone to death, good to people, and meticulous, then it is easy to do things. What the people want.

No one wants to go against such a person.

When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives. That's all I've heard before! This sentence means that the water is too clear for fish to survive, which is a metaphor for the real society, where people are too shrewd and too scrutiny, and they cannot tolerate people.

Disciple, which means one kindred or partner, is translated as "friend" in the present word. People are too shrewd to have no partners and no friends, because the shrewd person often can't tolerate others to have small faults or small differences in character, he excessively demands the same with himself or requires everyone to meet or meet their own standards in every move, but people always have a variety of different personalities and ways of dealing with others, unless they are clones, they can never achieve the consistency of everything, so friction and even contradictions, conflicts are the inevitable results, if you can't reconcile them in a tolerant spirit, The situation will be out of control, and the end will be that the people's hearts are not attached to it, and the people will rebel and leave. )

From the water to the clear, there is no fish ......

There are three types of men who can make you tired.

1. I don't love you.

Second, immature.

3. Bad temper.

If it's not suitable, let it go!

Feelings are not enough to support you for a lifetime!

A phrase comes to mind.

Feelings are like flowers, and conduct is like mountains; Flowers are fleeting, mountains are hard to move!

I didn't mean to say his character, just how fragile the feelings were!

No matter how deep your feelings are, you will be exhausted, and then you will leave him easily and naturally. So it's only a matter of time before he leaves, and there's no need for any laissez-faire at all.

Do whatever you want, if you're too tired, it's better to let go.

Of course you have to give up! It's really hard to be happy without fun!

Put a balance in your mentality, don't think so much, there is a saying that if you relax your heart, you won't die.

Clean self-love, live in the world, do not fight, do not show.

It's better to fix your body!