Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin s marriage is rumored to be red light , is it destined to be difficult f

Hehe, it's hard to say about this question.

Men are strong and women are weak, and women are destined to be miserable; Women are strong and men are weak, and they will be concerned by all kinds of people.

Sometimes, too much attention can be painful, and the slightest triviality can be magnified by a factor of 100,000.

I remember that Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin's pair were still in an uproar at that time, after all, the relationship between Hong Xin and Mo Shaocong, as well as their age difference, these are enough for the audience to eat melons and watch the play.

In fact, I have also read a lot of micro-businesses written: the best love looks like.

Basically, you are well-maintained, you live well, you can choose someone younger than you, and you still love you deeply and pamper you.

Of course, there will be people right away: greedy for fame, greedy for fame, greedy for money.

In 1997, Hong Xin had a relationship with Mo Shaocong, and the two eventually broke up and had a son, Mo Haolian (Mo Haolian is now renamed Zhang Haofeng).

In 2009, Hong Xin married Zhang Danfeng.

In February 2014, their daughter Zhang Xitong was born.

And the family of four is very happy, and they take sweet photos from time to time.

Therefore, Hong Xin and Zhang Danfeng, the sister and brother who are ten years apart, have also been blessed by many netizens. ‍‍

But why is it still often rumored to be "red light"?

When Hong Xin married Zhang Danfeng, he was still a newcomer in the mainland who had no fame and no money. And at that time, he had no money, no one was looking for him to film, and Hong Xin was much more famous than him.

Later, because he fell in love with Hong Xin quickly and got married, with Hong Xin's introduction and his own efforts, he had today's achievements.

If this good man's character collapses again, it is estimated that everyone will deepen the rhetoric of "strong women and weak men are difficult to last for a long time". But I think marriage always requires the efforts of both parties, after all, Zhang Danfeng can run out because of his own efforts, but a man can do his best, and he can't do without a woman who helps you take care of everything at home.

Not necessarily, whether the marriage is long or not depends on many factors, not on which party is strong or weak, but on the way both parties get along.

Under the influence of traditional Chinese thought, the marriage of strong women and weak men has always been not favored, because the tradition is that the man is the male protagonist and the female protagonist is the mainstay, and the man is the pillar of the family.

In fact, the commonly said "strong" or "weak" generally refers to the gap in social status, income, fame, etc., and in a family, the division of labor between men and women does not necessarily have to be as male as in mainstream society, because of factors such as the nature of work or personality, some men return to the family to take care of their children and be full-time dads, while their wives work outside, as long as both parties can accept it, it will not lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

There is a friend, both husband and wife are working in a foreign company, after the birth of the child, because the old man can not help, can only choose one person to give up the job, the two people take the way of catching the castration, as a result, the husband caught at home, and then the husband resigned, has been at home to take care of the children and the family, until the two children are in primary school before going out to work.

Actor Zhang Danfeng is not as famous as Hong Xin, the two are sisters and brothers, Hong Xin is ten years older than Zhang Danfeng, Hong Xin and actor Mo Shaocong once had a son, and after marrying Zhang Danfeng, the two gave birth to a daughter, and the family of four is very happy. Recently, there was a scandal between Zhang Danfeng and his agent, and it was also on the hot search.

However, Hong Xin has come forward to refute the rumors, saying that her husband and the agent are only in a working relationship.

Marriage is like a fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, outsiders' judgment, not necessarily objective and true, whether the marriage continues or not, but also depends on the choice of two people, strong and weak is not the key.

Not necessarily. First of all, Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin are free to love and get married.

Let's make sure first, no matter who is strong or weak, they are all willing to get married. Before making the decision to get married, they know what each other's personality is, how they talk, and how they do things.

If one partner is too strong and makes the other uncomfortable, can two people get married? <>

Or, if one party is too strong, and the other party is also accepting and willing to tolerate, isn't this true love?

The person who chooses to tolerate is mentally prepared: I love you, and I am willing to show weakness. This kind of life is simply sweet and sweet, okay, you touch your conscience and say, will other people's marriages be difficult to last?

Second, rumors should not be believed.

There is no conclusive conclusion on the matter of "turning on the red light", and there is no conclusive evidence. The various claims circulating on the Internet are just speculations of netizens. <>

Now, Hong Xin has come out to refute the rumors in person, and the agent is also angry with netizens and will never admit it.

Then, this matter is likely to be a rumor after dinner, and it will be dispersed in a few days, and the two of them should live and make money.

Third, are Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin really strong women and weak men?

Zhang Danfeng once said that Hong Xin has a violent temper, and he is responsible for tolerating her. In interpersonal relationships, people who can tolerate others are truly strong. Usually such people are more mature, more rational, and more confident. <>

The reason why some people say that they are strong women and weak men is because when they got married, Zhang Danfeng was not famous. The woman is more famous and will make more money, which of course does not conform to the public's aesthetics.

Well, even if it was like this at the time, now that Zhang Danfeng is already popular, he can make his wife responsible for being beautiful like a flower, and he is responsible for making money to support his family, where are the strong women and weak men?

As a young man who is marriageable and preparing to get married at the same time, I have read a lot of case materials about golden weddings and divorces, and I am confident that I have my own understanding of marriage.

In my opinion, when men and women who enter the marriage hall begin to emphasize who is strong and who is weak, the marriage relationship is already in crisis.

If the husband and wife think that marriage is a community of destiny for two people, it is a loss for both sides, then both parties will do their best to maintain this marriage relationship, so that this marriage relationship will last for a long time.

Once the husband and wife have a tendency to compare, and the idea of who is stronger than whom and who relies on whom appears, the marriage relationship has already begun to light up the red light - it should be a grasshopper on a rope, but it begins to compare and fight, can the hearts of two people still go together? Can you still raise your eyebrows? Can we still get along?

It's hard. So, if you want a long-lasting marriage, forget who is strong and who is weak! Who is strong and who is weak? In the end, isn't it the common strength or weakness of two people?

Of course, if you really can't forget who is strong and who is weak, then simply, before getting married, open your eyes wide, just look for an object that is equal to you in all aspects to marry, and then in marriage, also stare at each other, if the other party improves, you also work hard to improve, if the other party regresses, you stop working hard, wait for him, or also take a few steps back, back to the same position as him, just this kind of marriage, do you think it is interesting? I don't think it's interesting anyway.

Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin are a model couple in the entertainment industry.

When Zhang Danfeng was still unknown in the entertainment industry, he fell in love with Hong Kong actress Hong Xin, who was much more popular than him at that time. The most important thing is that Hong Xin is ten years older than Zhang Danfeng, and Hong Xin is married, her ex-husband is Mo Shaocong, and she has a son.

The two later got married without hesitation, Zhang Danfeng protected Hong Xin very well, and from time to time posted a loving photo on Weibo, envying many fans. Later, Zhang Danfeng played "Flower Thousand Bone" Dongfang Yuqing, this role made him popular. The two are still very affectionate.

Today, there is gossip news about Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin's marriage "lighting up the red light", so some people say that strong women and weak men are destined to be difficult to last long. There are many cases of strong women and weak men breaking up in the entertainment industry.

The most famous is the couple Faye Wong and Li Yapeng.

Needless to say, Faye Wong's status in the entertainment industry basically bid farewell to the showbiz after marrying Li Yapeng, and the two also have the crystallization of love, the lovely little girl Li Yan.

But in the end, it ended in divorce. Li Yapeng said to Faye Wong on Weibo: You are destined to be a legend, my high school girl.

In fact, whether a man is strong or a woman is weak, or a woman is strong and a man is weak, the most important thing in marriage is not to compare the high and low, to compare the winners and losers, but whether the three views of the two people are the same. Whether the two people's attitudes, principles, children's education, views on love, and life planning are in the same direction.

If you are consistent, you can have the patience to tolerate each other;

If it is completely inconsistent, after a long time, one day you will look at each other and hate each other.

Cai Shaofen and Zhang Jin in the entertainment industry were also strong women and weak men when they were together, and now they are still happy like flowers!

In Chinese-style marriage, it is often believed that the woman is the relatively weak party, and the ideal marriage model is that the man is a little stronger than the woman in all aspects, so that the marriage model can make people feel more stable and long-lasting. But with the development of the times, it is not difficult to see that women are getting better and better, and they are becoming more and more independent.

Whether in the workplace or in the family, women's advantages are slowly highlighted, and there is a trend of surpassing men. This gives people the misconception that the stronger the woman, the more unstable the marriage, but is that really the case?

First, a woman who is strong on the outside and soft on the inside can have a good married life. Whether it is Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, or He Jie and her husband Hao Ziming, everyone feels that in these celebrity families, women are stronger. Therefore, people attribute their divorce to the strength of women and the weakness of men, but this is not necessarily the case.

Because a really strong woman will still have her own weak side in marriage. <>

Second, a truly happy marriage is one in which both husband and wife grow together, not one side and go far ahead. We often say that husbands sing with their wives, but in real life, many male husbands are slowly retiring under the development of the times.

They did not update their knowledge system in time with the needs of development, and they did not see where they should go in the reality that their wives are slowly becoming stronger. And a truly physically and mentally mature man must grow up with his lover, so that two people can work together in the world of marriage.

Third, there are more and more examples that prove that women are not synonymous with weakness. In ancient times, women did not go out of the door, taught their husbands and children at home, and took care of housework, but with the progress of society, women slowly broke away from the family, went to society, and ushered in the first period of their careers. Therefore, in marriage, it doesn't matter whether the woman is strong or the man is weak, the man is strong and the woman is weak, but the two people raise their eyebrows together, and they know each other.

I don't know if a marriage between a strong woman and a weak man is difficult to last, because I haven't experienced it myself. But in Xiaozhuo's view, in a marital relationship, the important thing is not the way the two parties get along, but how they feel about each other, whether they put themselves in a comfortable state is the most important thing, it doesn't matter if the other men are strong or women are weak or women are strong and men are weak, just look at each other's feelings.

Our goal is not marriage, but love. I've seen a TED talk before, and you can also take a look, "A good life is based on good relationships." That is to say, in a "good life", the important thing is not that you have a lot of friends or that you are in a marriage, but that you have a good intimate relationship and the quality of the marriage.

Life is short, so instead of spending time on suspicion, blame and conflict, we should create good intimate relationships and get along with each other, so that such relationships can help us to be physically and mentally healthy and feel happy.

The above shows that good intimacy can be created, but there are also many people who have their backs to each other. There are many people who get married because they are on the same frequency, and they like each other, thinking that they can go together for a long time. But life is inherently impermanent, and people's hearts are also changeable.

The two sides of the same frequency may drift apart due to interference from other factors.

Looking at the back of TA far away, you may be hysterical, or you may be silent, you don't understand, how did the person who said a good life and a couple become what it is now, in fact, it is not anyone's fault, the good times together are real, and TA is also true to your heart, but life is impermanent, and anything can change.

Therefore, life is impermanent, we must accept its existence, but most importantly, live in the moment.

Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin have divorced, after all, their relationship has come to an end, and they will only become enemies if they get along again, so they are divorced. Friends divorce peacefully in the way.

I think yes, the personalities of the two people are relatively inappropriate, and both of them are very busy, and they don't have time to stay together, and they don't have time to communicate each other's thoughts, so they will finally go to divorce, which I think is a very embarrassing thing.