When do you find life hard?

When I just graduated, my parents' salary was not high, and at this time, my salary was very small, and I wanted to give my parents some good gifts, but I had no money, and I felt that my life was difficult at this time.

When I feel that life is difficult, it is basically when I have no money, and when I just graduated, my salary is low, my consumption is high, and I feel that it is the most difficult time when I can't support my life. When you get married and have a baby without anyone to help take care of the baby, you wear many hats, and you don't get understanding, support and help. In short, there is no financial support, and if the economy allows, there will be someone to help, and it will not be so difficult.

After just buying a house, I have no money in my hand, I bought an off-plan house, and I have to face decoration after the house comes down, my children are still in school, and I repay the loan every month.

Hello landlord, if you find life particularly difficult, then it must be after you just bought a house. Because I have just bought a house now, basically all the money has been spent, and I owe hundreds of thousands of dollars to the bank. In this case, I am under a lot of pressure, I feel that life is very difficult, and it is very difficult to make money.

Whenever I watch news programs, I always report on some poor families and poor people in society. I just find life difficult. The difficulty with this kind of life is that no matter how hard you try, you can't change it, and you can't even find the direction of your efforts.

No one tells you what to do, and no one comes to help you.

Since I got married and had children, I feel that life has been difficult. After living with children, the living expenses and education expenses of children are a big expense. As time goes by, the child grows up, and the cost of living and education will become more and more; The elderly in the family are also getting older day by day, and the cost of supporting the elderly is also increasing year by year; The mortgage is repaid every month.

The salary income is not long, but the expenses are increasing, and it is difficult for people to live in middle age.

I think it was when I first went out to work, and I left my parents at that time. I feel that life is very difficult. Away from your parents, you have to learn to be independent.

You have to take care of your own, uh, expense management and life. It's very difficult to do everything by yourself. Especially on days when there is no money.

Feel. I came out to work by myself, and I was embarrassed to talk to my parents, and it was really difficult to live that day. I think there was a time when I went to the supermarket to buy the dead fish at a discount because I wanted to eat the fish, and the kind of fish I bought and cooked and ate it.

The result is that there is no refrigerator in the summer, and the next day I can't eat it, and I pour it all down, and that is even the heart to die.

When the people around you keep urging you to do what you don't want to do, but you can't escape, you suddenly feel that life is difficult.

I think it was when I first entered society. I don't want to accept help from my family. Don't want to worry about them.

There are no true friends. There was no one around to speak. When you encounter difficulties, you can only resist them by yourself.

I don't want to be known. Only I cried silently in the night. When I wake up in the morning, I have to pretend that nothing happened to work.

When you can't do it, for example, the family has to rely on your children's salary to pay off the loan, which is basically not enough to spend, and it is difficult to find other ways to make money but to save money;

Also, when I lose faith, I feel very confused, I don't know what to do next, the days are repeated mechanically every day, there is no meaning, I feel that I am wasting time in life, so I feel that every day is very difficult.

When do I think life is very difficult to finish this question is very simple, life is difficult all the time, but as long as you are happy, you will not feel difficult. That's why I think that when I'm in trouble and when I'm screaming every day, I feel that life is hard, and when I'm lonely and helpless, I feel that life is hard. But, if you turn over, just like a salted fish, you won't feel that life is difficult, this is mine, I hope it can help you, come on, hope!

I often feel that life is difficult when I encounter difficulties or setbacks. People encounter problems of one kind or another every day, and life itself is actually a difficult thing. But as long as you are full of hope for life and have a goal to strive for, no matter how difficult it is, you will face it and find ways to overcome it.

Although life is hard, it is also full of hope and joy!

I feel that the most difficult time in life is when I go to high school, I can't pay the make-up fee, the make-up fee is a free white slip for application, and I can't pay the school fee, in order not to pay the school fee, I cut out the checkbox of the school with a knife, and the living expenses are borrowed.

Even if life is really hard, don't go back, don't look back. Since you didn't choose that path in the first place, it shows that there was a reason why you didn't take that path in the first place; Since you chose this path in the first place, it means that there is something you want on this path. Then, give yourself a little time, a little longer, and slowly see some problems and think things clearly.

Maybe life always catches you off guard, so you don't have time to think about it, and you are pushed forward.

However, what you want may never change, but there are too many thorns on the road, which may make you lose your way all of a sudden, only care about the hustle and bustle in front of you, and forget your original intention.

However, as long as you persevere, you will definitely be able to find a way out of the thorns. At that time, you must be a stronger you, a more comforting you. At that time, when you close your eyes, you will feel that you have truly lived this life for yourself.

Many times, it is not the facts themselves that make you feel unbearable, but a series of emotions that arise in your heart, or emotions that you have over-amplified. Therefore, what you have to do is learn to relax, and you have to keep learning to relax.

It's not that the road is too difficult, it's not that it's too difficult to persevere, it's your own heart that is holding you back. Mindset determines behavior, and behavior determines life. Maintain a good mindset and let all suffering become a thing of the past in your self-regulation.

Therefore, no matter how difficult life is, you should not look back, do not go back. Because there's no way back.

When all kinds of unsatisfactory things in life hit together, and I didn't have the ability to do it well. That kind of helplessness, self-blame, remorse, and all kinds of complex emotions surround. It feels like every step is so hard.

I think the hardest time in life is when you don't have a penny in your pocket, you don't have relatives and friends, you don't have ideals, you don't have goals, and you don't get understood. Life is the hardest.

When you have no money, when you are penniless, you feel that life is the most difficult to buy a car or a house with all your money, eat pickles and steamed buns in a rental house, because the salary is so much, and there is nothing left after paying off the mortgage. And keep going. You can only find a way to improve your ability, and only by improving your ability can you improve the situation and earn more money.

When I feel that life is difficult, when I need help from others, I feel that life is difficult when I don't have anyone to rely on. After graduating from university, when faced with the question of finding a job or taking the civil service exam, I struggled to survive every day. For the sake of his family, he still chose to take the exam while working, but he didn't take the exam for two years, and the career editor also took the exam more than ten times without results.

The boyfriend who has been together for four years also broke up after graduation. I was riding the train alone, and when no one accompanied me and no one cared, I cried many times at night. I survived the hardest time by myself, and every day I was in a vicious circle of collapse and self-healing...

When I first got married, I felt really difficult, I just bought a house, I paid the loan every month, the children still needed to drink milk powder, and the money I earned every month was not enough to spend, and I thought about how to make money every day!

I feel like life is hard when I don't have a house, I don't even have the ability to pay off my mortgage, and my life is very difficult and no one lends me money.

The wife ran away, the children ignored you, the parents were sick in front of the bed, and the epidemic came, the job was gone, and the house was leaking.

When you're stressed, you feel like life is hard. If you don't live the life you want to live, you will find life difficult. When you encounter difficulties that you can't overcome, you can also feel that life is difficult. When something unfortunate happens, it makes people feel that life is really too hard.

Business failure, penniless, in order to pay off the debt, I lived a difficult life for eight years, tasted the feeling of taking a car for no money, walking dozens of miles back and forth, grinding blisters on my feet, experienced the taste of not buying vegetables in order to save money, eating white rice, and not getting oil for about a month. This is when I feel like life is the hardest.

When you're having a hard time, you feel like life is hard. Such difficulties include material difficulties to include: Other mental difficulties.

In short, you won't find life difficult when it's going well. When you encounter hardship, you feel that life is so hard.

When a man reaches thirty, he is self-reliant. It is the year to shoulder the burden of family and life, to have children, to support the elderly, to start a business, etc., is the time of affairs.

Children need to be nurtured and educated, and they need to be carefully nurtured and raised, and they have to pay hardships; Parents are old and sick, unable to take care of themselves, and must be meticulous and careful; At this time, I still have to run for entrepreneurship. Fight for the cause.

A family needs to work hard and struggle. If you need to support your family, you need how to make money. Life is stressful. At this time, I feel that life is very tiring, difficult, and not easy. When people reach middle age, they find life difficult. It's a hard life.

As a child, I reached out to dress, opened my mouth to eat, and lived a carefree life, happy, healthy, and happy. Gone and never to come back.

After being deceived by a friend, I felt very sad, I was called for debts, and the house was withdrawn. Life is hard and passive. But after all, it was still that time.

On the very practical side, that is when there is no money, and when there is no money, when there is nothing to do, it is the most difficult.

Or in other aspects, such as feelings, if you are frustrated emotionally, you will also feel that it is difficult ......

I often feel that life is difficult, and I don't feel easy, especially when I encounter difficulties and are helpless. It's tough.

Life can be difficult when you don't have money, especially when you've just finished buying a big item. The money available in hand is basically gone, and some even have foreign debts, which makes life difficult at this time.

First of all, I want to tell you: all this is normal.

There are moments in everyone's life when they feel depressed and feel as if the whole world is against them. Although many things are just small things after the fact from the perspective of a long life, in the moment, it will make us immersed in it, stuck in it, difficult to extricate ourselves, difficult to struggle.

It's the same for everyone. No matter how rational a person is, he will fall into the quagmire of emotions. You are so, others are so, and so am I.

Different people, at different stages of life, will have anxiety, stress, emptiness, hopelessness and ...... that only they can understandThe joys and sorrows of the world are not connected, so it is not that they do not exist, but everyone has to bear them independently.

So, when you're struggling, think about it: there is no such thing as "why me", and what you are experiencing is the universal plight that the world has imposed on the entire human race.

Everyone, in a way, is actually our partner and comrade-in-arms.

We may not be able to understand each other's pain, but we can understand the dilemma.

Why, then, is this a universal predicament that the world has imposed on mankind?

I would like to ask you a question: What is the meaning of life?

As you may know, life has no meaning. Existence precedes essence. We first have existence, and then we search for meaning, and give meaning to existence – this is the existential view.

But knowing this doesn't mean you can really accept it.

What does it mean to accept that existence is meaningless? It means that our whole life is purposeless. We come by chance, and we leave by chance.

And in this process, there is no one person, one law, no set of rules that will guide you in what you must do.

In other words, the world has given us absolute freedom – but is absolute freedom necessarily a good thing? Probably not. Sometimes, absolute freedom may mean disorder, i.e., infinite possibilities.

But life, as an ordered body of reduced entropy, is essentially opposed to each other.

Another consequence of absolute freedom is the relativity of value. Everything we do is just following the rules of the game that we have set. It's like kids building castles on the beach – we feel it's valuable, just because in our eyes, it's valuable.

There is no such thing as a subject that transcends all objects to judge the value of its (and our) existence.

Combined, these two constitute an existential crisis.

It points to the absurdity of existence. That is:

If there is no point in existing, then why do we exist?

If existence has no value, then where can we go?