Why can t I find a way not to cry when I cry ?

Hmph, it turns out that we are in the same pain. Cry, be sad and don't cry. Painful hope.

Weep! This is something that everyone will have, and everyone will cry! No matter how strong a person is, he will cry!

It's human instinct, and we can't stop it! Can't stop it! Yes, we will persuade others, but when we encounter the same or different difficulties or feelings, we often can't persuade ourselves!

This is a paradox, in fact, there is nothing wrong with crying, just in moderation! It's good to have a degree for everything!

Quote: When someone is sad, you comfort him. When others cry, they will soothe her.

When others ......, they will ......She. When I'm having trouble or feeling bad, I don't know who to tell. Because I know I might cause trouble or annoyance to others.

So I buried everything in my heart deepest. Take care of everything yourself. But it's really painful!

But I still suffer silently, because I just want to bring happiness to others instead of trouble! I think you're such a person.

"Tears" is actually "detoxification" "Tears are to the soul what soap is to the body". No matter how you cry, tears wash away people's long-suppressed emotions. "We always try to force ourselves to be happy.

But this compulsion is painful, and this crying rally is a method of correction. ”

A lot of the time it's the same. Asylene has always played this role. And it was only at the end that I found out.

When she cried, no one paid attention to her. The heart hurts. It's hurting.

I can't stop the tears! Cry. Just vent your pain!

When you think that tears are the one who hurts you and brings you the greatest shame, you don't want to cry anymore, it's all hatred!

Since you're sad, why don't you cry out, it's better to cry, and everything will be fine after crying.

Actually, there's a way to do it, and as you said, you can't find it, but it's not that you don't have it.

First of all, crying is a kind of emotional outpouring, crying has howling when you are sad, tears of excitement when you are happy, there is also the kind of unreasonable crying when you are wronged, and the cry of remorse when you are reformed, and there is a kind of fragile tears, and you will cry without reason when you see the plot touching. In short, crying is not to solve the problem, but just a kind of emotional release, an outpouring of emotion. Joy, anger, sorrow, joy and sorrow may cry.

Second, there is also a physical condition that causes uncontrollable tears and is easy to cry, which is spleen deficiency and weak lung qi. Spleen deficiency cannot transport water and dampness in the body, and tearing is also a way to remove dampness. Lung qi deficiency, unable to fix the surface, easy to sweat and tears. At the same time, crying for a long time hurts the lungs.

Third, crying is also a kind of emotional venting, shouting out the negative emotions accumulated in the body with crying, rinsing them with tears, and the human body has also completed a process of spitting out the old and accepting the new, and the burden is relieved after crying. Why does the old saying often say, "Don't press it in your heart if you have something to do, if you want to cry, you will come out happily, and if you press it in your heart for a long time, people will get sick." “

Therefore, crying is also a way for people to naturally prevent diseases.

Since crying is caused by many reasons, there is no need to artificially characterize it, it is to solve the problem that is why we cry.