How long will it take for netizens who haven t met to talk like friends?

As long as you communicate with your heart, you will soon become friends。It is precisely because they are strangers that they will open their hearts to each other and tell some secrets hidden in their hearts. Because you know that you don't have a mutual friend with him, he won't tell anyone about you anymore, and no third person will know your secrets.

Sometimes when I have troubles, I will confide in netizens, who will listen carefully and comfort you. If you talk to a friend, sometimes the friend will be impatient, and after a long time, you won't want to talk to your friend. Because you tell the other person the truth, the other person will also treat you as a friend, and it won't take too long at all.

If you treat the other person as a friend, the other party will also treat you as a friend.

Strangers are more likely to be friends, people who are very familiar with each other tend to become distant because of something. For example, although the two of you are good friends, but in an exam, you take the first test and she takes the tenth test, she will definitely be unconvinced. Although they are friends, they are nothing on the surface, but they will treat you as an enemy in their hearts.

After all, everyone will be jealous, friends are better than themselves, and they will be a little unhappy in their hearts, just don't show it, but as a friend, they will definitely be aware of it. And strangers don't know anything about you, and they don't have any other conflicts with you, and this precondition determines that you and strangers will soon become friends.

Not good at words, it can take a long time to become friends. Everyone's personality will be different, some can speak well, no matter with strangers or anyone, as long as they talk to each other, they will keep talking, without a little shyness, such people must be very confident in making friends, and they can become friends with each other without even saying a few words. And some people don't like to talk, and their temperament also belongs to the slow-burning kind, so when they get along with others, they will spend a long time getting to know a person.

Sometimes stranger friends are more intimate than their friends.

I think if you have similar interests, you can talk like friends in three to five days, and the Internet is easier to bring two people closer than reality.

Depending on the situation, if you have a common topic with someone and have a good conversation, you will feel like friends who have known each other for a long time. On the other hand, if you have nothing to talk to someone about, you won't feel like a friend even if you talk for a long time.

As long as the personalities are not much different, most of the hobbies are the same or the three views are the same, basically three or two sentences can be talked together.

Netizens talk like friends, and they can only be a kind of spiritual friend, there are troubles, there is a person to talk to, after all, it is not in real life, you can't understand his real person, it is impossible to be like a real friend, so powerful.

I had a good chat with some friends online, but I didn't seem to have anything to talk about when I met. Mainly because of chatting on the Internet, I don't know each other, I can't help the topic, I want to ask what I want to talk about without scruples, but it is not certain that I will be cold when I meet, I don't know each other on the Internet, but I really want to meet, I will get familiar with each other after both parties, and understand each other first, if it is not for mutual needs or special things, I believe that netizens will not meet easily.

Chatting on the Internet, you can say irresponsibly, right and wrong, no one will treat you well, and the past will pass. But face-to-face is not so natural, you are not only dealing with the expression of words, but also contains all aspects of the person that can be accepted and recognized by the other person.

The first impression of this is that you are more introverted and shy. Although this is due to character, it is not a good performance, and it should be overcome as much as possible. Then it's good to get used to it!

There is also a situation where the light is dead, and the hot online chat is because at least one party will set the other party as the perfect person in their hearts, and it also contains curiosity about the other party, and the words spoken in the online chat must be good, in addition to thinking about you, I just want to see you, it seems that there is a common language, but in fact, it is along with you, when you meet, it may be different, the image of the other party you keep in your heart will be greatly reduced, and even destroyed, and you will also compare the words and deeds of the meeting, Looking at it, maybe after a few hours, you will be completely disappointed, and you will not feel anything at all, which is also very normal.

As the saying goes,"It's better to see the scenery than to listen to the scenery"。Listening to others talk about one thing or a scene, integrating other people's cultural accomplishments and feelings, and going through others' subjective tailoring and selection. And when you see it for yourself, you can see it at a glance, and all the good and bad are displayed in front of your eyes, and you will feel that what you see is not as beautiful as what others say.

This is similar to the situation for online chats and meet-and-greets. The content of the online chat is in a selected language, of course, as much as possible. If the other party is an ugly monster, as long as he (she) has a certain level of cultural cultivation, he (she) can describe himself as lofty, beautiful, and touching.

If he or she is a person with high emotional intelligence and rich life experience, he or she can do what he or she likes, coax the other person into obedience, and have a kind of"I hate to see each other late"feelings.

It's too dangerous to make a promise just by chatting. Because in order to fully identify a person, it is extremely unreliable to just listen to his or her words, it is necessary to observe his or her deeds, investigate his or her experience, and personally examine his or her attitude towards the world, his (her) economic status in society and his or her achievements, his (her) external image, etc.

The relationship between people is essentially an exchange of values. A person's worth is measured by his or her comprehensive value, specifically by his external appearance, his economic status in society, and his inner qualities. If a person is not fully developed, his value will be greatly reduced.

For example, online chat"See the light to die", it is because the image of the other party is discounted. It was a good imaginary object, but when I met, it was a person I hated very much, so I felt that the relationship was over.

Especially in the relationship between men and women, appearance is the first level. If you can't pass this hurdle, you don't need to talk about anything else. No one wants to live with someone they hate for the rest of their lives, and the same is true of making friends.

So online chat, online chat, without full confidence, it's best not to meet, stay in a virtual state forever, and let the beautiful imagination run wild in the brains of the two!

Chatting on the Internet, there are pictures, men's pictures for women, women's pictures, and men's sweet words. A beautiful woman on the side is concerned by a lot of the opposite sex in a small reality, so there is no need to look for any emotional comfort on the Internet. Those who look a little uncomfortable with the audience, and there is a little bit of bumpiness in real life without appreciation of the opposite sex, but they are not lonely, so they go to the Internet to find the opposite sex.

The purpose of meeting men and female netizens, both men and women tacitly, feel good and can see a few more times, generally feel bad after the procedure is pulled down, and a woman who is not very satisfied with the long does not want to have any entanglement, but the woman moved her heart after meeting, thinking day and night, entanglement, some men see women like this and enjoy the free feelings without delaying the family to be a good husband.

See the light to dieThe network is virtual. The moisture content is larger. People show the good side, intentionally or not. Because of the chat, they all do what they like, and the happiness can continue, plus the current technology, the photos have beautiful faces, so they leave a good impression on both sides.

In a word, the Internet is a virtual world. When two people talk face to face, what affects your conversation is the person's movements, expressions, and environment. You're supposed to be a girl, and you're going to be a little shy with him, aren't you?

And when talking online, the brain spends more time thinking about whether a sentence will be said for a longer time. Of course, the words spoken are more incisive, and sometimes they are ridiculed, and they feel that the other party is more humorous. The conversation box opened.

In fact, it's the same in reality, let go a little, since you can have a good chat online, then you must know very well what topics he is interested in. In the next meeting, you can introduce such a topic, and you should be generous yourself to make everyone's atmosphere lively.

Two people who have never met can like each other through online chat, and such a situation is the more common "online dating" at present. Love built through the Internet has both advantages and disadvantages; The advantage is that it can increase the probability of finding the object, but the disadvantage is that the love is unstable and it is easy to be deceived by the other party.

As the Internet has become more developed, the new term "online dating" has also come into being. If you don't know each other, you can establish a preliminary contact through the Internet with a mobile phone. When it comes to web chat, I personally have the following two views.

The Internet makes it impossible for two people to see each other, which is both a disadvantage and a big plus. The disadvantage is that the two are friends and can't see each other from time to time, which adds a sense of mystery to both parties and doubles their mutual affection.

The opposite sex met from the Internet left a sense of mystery on both sides psychologically. If both parties have a common language, it is easier to bring each other closer together, so that both parties can build trust and deeper connections.

You can only listen to the sound and can't meet each other, so that the good feeling in the heart will increase day by day. Even if there is occasional ** exchange, it will bring a feeling of not enough for both parties because of the short time. There are also examples of failures in the existing success cases of online dating.

The Internet has brought us both convenience and hidden dangers. Some people get rid of singles through online dating and successfully enter the marriage hall. There are also people who are deceived into bankruptcy in online dating; It is precisely because of this that we need to be cautious and not deceived by the other party in the process of online dating.

Convenient and developed network, let us meet friends from all over the world; Some of these friends are genuine, and some of them have virtual identities. The goodwill established by online chat is likely to disappear at the moment of Ben Xian, which was ridiculed by netizens as "seeing the light and dying".

Therefore, through online chat, we can like each other, but this kind of love is not strong. When choosing online dating, we also need to be cautious and try to avoid financial exchanges.

OK. It's just that the odds are relatively small.

I think everybody should have more face-to-face communication. Because face-to-face communication is more efficient.

I think it's okay, because chatting can also talk about feelings, and my husband and I were like that at the beginning.

The two sides must be able to talk better, the two sides can have a common word, and they can also be said to be each other's soul mates.

Two people can know each other's inner thoughts, and two people can seek better psychological comfort through chatting, especially if there are happy or unhappy things, they will share them with each other for the first time.

The reason why they don't meet is mainly because the two people feel that meeting is not particularly realistic, or there are many times when it is difficult to hide, such as the possibility of appearance and figure in all aspects.

Different people may have different ideas, although two people did not know each other before, but after they met on the Internet, chatted with each other, and then got to know each other, they may become bosom friends, maybe each of them has their own family, so they don't want to break their original family, and they don't want to move their relationship with each other forward, so they don't need to meet, the current relationship is very good, although they are not lovers or lovers, But they are true friends with each other.

I've been chatting online for decades, but I haven't met in person. It can only be said that each other has unspeakable secrets, so they can't meet. It doesn't make much sense to meet.

So I always maintained this lukewarm attitude. We can talk very well, talk to each other about work, talk about family. But I don't want to affect your life.

Chatting online is generally a group of people who have no emotional home, or who are single. They chat online, more to find a spiritual sustenance, a real emotional partner who can walk in real life. So their starting point is to find companionship.

If two people have been talking for a long time, they have never thought about meeting each other. There must be one or two people in two people, and at the same time, both of them have their own emotional destinations, or have families. Therefore, there is no need to give each other some misunderstandings, in order to meet, they must become a trigger point for each other's emotions.

So I'm not going to bother you. I also did not interfere with your family and emotional home. We only talk about life, and we only be a friend who can chat.

It's that simple.

I've been chatting online for nearly ten years, and I've never seen what kind of mentality the two sides have? If you talk about speculation or not, if you talk about speculation, there must be a very depressing feeling, I want to see each other, if it is not speculation, of course, it is better not to meet, so as not to pinch up when you meet, like this case, the trust in the other party is still not high, just using each other, after all, online chat is like punching in the air, saying a lot of words, if you want to be angry, you also feel like you don't want to be angry, that thing seems to be someone answering for you, Because these things are touched through mobile phones and computers, if I don't want to contact, I can put my phone and computer aside, I can not enter the system, so if I don't meet, I won't meet, this mentality will be natural, I'm like this anyway, even if I lie on my phone all day to play, but I have something, I'm busy, I don't look at my phone, I don't look at the Internet, so I feel that this thing has a little ethereal feeling, mentality, that is, I can help people, and I can't help people. With so many users on the Internet, there are so many more people who can help.