Lovers after a breakup, whether there is a simple friendship between them

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

    On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart, let it go when it's time to let go...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I know... They can still be friends in the future,,, but they don't feel like they used to ... Only sadness in the heart ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, although it may be a little embarrassing for each other at first, after a long time, everyone will naturally face each other. And will bless each other to be happy, after the breakup of the lover most want to get the blessing from the other party, so after the breakup must give her (him) blessings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you break up, you won't have friends and friendship, and you won't feel it, I don't believe that you are still friends after a breakup!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Some, like me, broke up so closely, but the title changed 、、、

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Definitely not, there is no close friendship between men and women.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, because they hurt each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I have never loved deeply. Gather and scatter with fate, each is well, maybe loved, but it doesn't matter if you lose. Still in love.

    I can't bear to let the person I once loved disappear into my life, and pay attention to and watch over each other in another way. It's just that they really don't love each other anymore, and they already regard each other as relatives. Therefore, it is normal to be friends after a breakup, and at the same time, both of them must be the kind of people who are more reasonable and open-minded, and ordinary people cannot achieve this artistic conception.

    I really love to break up later, but I am reluctant to be separated and can't be together, so I pretend to be good friends and continue to break the connection. At least it can be a seemingly casual greeting. There is also the fact that both parties dare not like it so much, so it doesn't matter if they can be friends.

    Once broke up once, they loved each other desperately, but because some of the problems of the three views were not suitable to continue, they mentioned that after the breakup, there was a serious and calm talk between the two people, whether they could stay by each other's side as friends. There are no more than two reasons why two people who love each other can be friends after breaking up, one is that they are not loving enough, and the other is that the circle of two people is very close, and it is difficult to completely break off each other.

    If you can still be friends, I think these two people must have good character, and there are many people who don't get along with each other after divorce, just to bring the pain of marriage to life, and want to desperately escape from this life. There are differences in people's personalities, three views, thoughts, receptivity, etc., my ex is the kind of person who broke up and is still a friend, to anyone, no matter what the reason for breaking up, as long as it is not too much in principle. My personal thought is that there is no need to contact each other after the breakup.

    .The most terrifying thing is this, two people still like each other, find a suitable way to maintain the relationship, but this situation should be rare. As long as two people who have loved each other deeply, it is absolutely impossible to be friends.

    Even if you don't become lovers, you want to be friends because it's a good memory. Reluctantly put it down. But can you really let go of the past in your heart?

    I think it's better not to get in touch as well!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a breakup, it actually takes a lot of determination to be friends again, which does not mean that they don't really love each other at all, they may just want to keep in touch with each other in another way, hoping to be friends with each other, so that the relationship will not deteriorate completely.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Couples who can be friends again after a breakup do not mean that they have not really loved, only those who have truly loved and relieved can be true friends again.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This situation is not necessarily, once two people break up, few can be friends again, because it will be very awkward to meet each other together, and they will also find a partner in the future, and they will mind if they let the object know.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After breaking up a group, the average couple belongs to the kind of couple who quarrels, breaks up and breaks up peacefully, and can basically be friends again, but it doesn't mean that they haven't loved with their hearts, they must have loved with their hearts, but it's been too long, so they're separated.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is very likely that you have not really loved, so you can be friends again, real love is to hope that the other party will always belong to you, and you can accompany you for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not that they haven't been in love. This is the opposite, this is because they can't let go of each other's feelings, so they get along together as a friend for the time being. Then look for the right opportunity to get back together.

    The purpose and original intention of them to be friends now is this, it is just a way to make a reunion and choose in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Couples who can really be friends after a breakup, so they don't fall into a deep relationship They didn't invest much, and they didn't tear each other apart after the breakup, so they were able to become friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's definitely not like this, it means that the feeling between two people is gone, or the relationship between two people as friends is also very important, so they will directly choose this relationship as friends, maybe two people are because they have really loved, so they will directly choose this relationship as friends as a relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If after the breakup, the couple who can be friends again is because before that time, they must not have invested in each other's true feelings. If they are invested in real feelings, they will not be friends after they break up.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Couples who can be friends again after a breakup can mean that they don't really want to love, and I can also mean that they can't let go. Therefore, this situation can only be analyzed in detail.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It doesn't mean that they haven't really loved each other.

    Because most couples who can be friends again after a breakup want to love each other as friends.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Couples who can be friends after a breakup, I think they may be in love, but they also really love each other and break up, and when they choose to be friends in the future, they may be relieved of each other, and then the knot in their hearts is also released.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This couple who can still be friends after a breakup does not mean that they have not really loved each other, because the more they have loved, the more they don't want each other to have a bad time, and they want to know if the other party is doing well, and if they are not doing well, they can help, and being friends is the best way.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, it may be because of the nostalgia for this kind of relationship that you can be friends again, and if you haven't loved each other, maybe the two of you will become strangers.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This phenomenon can also show that they used to be truly in love with each other, but now they have another way to protect the relationship between two people, or as friends, they can also take better care of each other, such a choice is also very good.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    can be friends again, in fact, this kind of friend just means that their mutual respect cannot be a real friend who can still communicate, this has to be divided into situations If two people have this feeling in love, they will definitely not be friends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It does not mean that it is very likely that the two people broke up peacefully at that time. And I don't think there's any need to make a particularly ugly fuss, so I become friends.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It can only be said that neither of them has given much in this relationship, so they can get out of the shadow of this relationship as soon as possible, start their new life, and be friends, after all, neither of them has hurt each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After a breakup, you can still be friends again, making up for the fact that they have had real love between them, and both of them are relatively mature in their thinking.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Explain two possibilities.

    1. You two didn't really love each other in the first place.

    2. One of the two of you has been silently giving for the other.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This is certainly not a proof of this, they just say that they say yes to each other, there are feelings, and then that's it, there is no place where they hate each other.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A couple who can be friends after a breakup does not completely mean that they have never loved at all. Let's just say that everyone has their own way of getting along. If two people are in pain and don't want to disappear in front of each other, it's good to be friends.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Some couples who can still be friends after breaking up shows that they really love each other and work hard to understand some of each other's living habits, so that they are willing to be friends again after the breakup.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If a couple who can be friends again after a breakup, it cannot be said that they have not really loved, and it is also possible that both parties are more mature in love, and then handle it more properly.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I don't think it's like I haven't really loved each other, maybe it's a chance between the two parties, maybe they are not suitable for being a couple, but they can definitely be friends.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Couples who can be friends again after a breakup do not mean that they have never been in love, because relatively speaking. Maybe they could only be friends because they broke up peacefully.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    That's true, because after a breakup, if two people have really loved each other, it is difficult to get out of this relationship, and of course it is impossible to become friends.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    No, some people are still in love with each other, and he wants to get along in a different way, sometimes he feels that the identity of a lover may not be able to get along, and he can change his friends, often because he loves too much to make such a decision.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It doesn't have to be two kinds, the first is like you said, they haven't really loved each other at all, and the second is that they still love each other and may be reconciled.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Couples who can be friends after a breakup do not mean that they have not loved at all, it means that they are relieved very well, since they can't be a couple, then be friends, it is such an attitude.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Not necessarily, two more sensible people will not be strangers just because they break up, and they can still get along like friends.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This is complete nonsense, being friends after a breakup has nothing to do with whether you have really loved each other, and being friends after a breakup shows that both people are more open-minded.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    This is indeed the case, because if two people have really loved each other, they must be very sad when they break up, and it is impossible to be friends again.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Of course not, since two people can be friends, it means that two people still can't let go of each other, so they didn't become strangers in the end.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Under normal circumstances, couples who can still be friends after a breakup have never really loved, and their love is not very deep.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If you can be friends again, it's not that you haven't really loved, it's just that you don't fit each other very well.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    No, it can only show that the relationship between them is very deep, and it was not because of a particularly big conflict when they broke up.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Being friends after breaking up shows how deeply these two people have not been hurt, or they have not had a grudge, and it also shows that they have an understanding of the past friendship.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Does a couple who can be friends again after a breakup mean that they have never really loved each other at all?

    Couples who can become friends again after a breakup do not all mean that they have never really loved each other at all.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    No. Those who have truly loved can also be friends. However, this will not be possible until the two of them have calmed down.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    They just went to the surface of their feelings, and they didn't really understand and love each other deeply, so they would be friends with each other after the breakup.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Couples who can be friends again after a breakup do not mean that they have never really loved each other at all, maybe they think that they are more suitable to be friends than to be a couple.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    In the eyes of most people, a breakup is when two people have no contact again, because every time they meet, it will lead to deeper damage, and a qualified predecessor should be like dead. Breaking up never means that two people have to be strangers, because the lover who left is the one who he knew best and knew himself best. Therefore, a breakup can only mean that two people are not suitable to be lovers, and this kind of inability to be lovers and friends is not contradictory, and it does not clarify that the two have not really loved each other, but due to the following points.

    1. Never hurt the other partyNot all breakups are due to the other party's change of heart, or it ends with a big fight between the two. There are times when they break up, because both people understand that this love can't go on, so they can only get together and disperse. Couples who can be together are attracted to each other, but this kind of attraction does not have to be white-headed to old age, and couples who have not hurt each other are more likely to become friends after breaking up.

    Many people don't understand this kind of psychology, but just like the person who has been with you for many years, even if you know that there will no longer be a love connection, you expect the other person to develop smoothly, and even accompany the other person from a distance, and reach out to help when it is useful. Therefore, the first kind of couple who can be friends in love is often the person who has not been injured and has been sincere in the past.

    Second, the truth is put downWhen a love is put down by two people, in fact, for two people, the scene of love has now been performed, and the scene of friendship is not necessarily over. The reason why many couples can't be friends is not because they don't want each other, but because they can't. For example, some people like to stalk after a breakup, drag the love to the end, and like to use it as a friend to make the final stay, but this kind of friend crosses the boundary of a friend.

    In fact, there are times when people who break up really want to be friends with the previous one, not less than this person, but unwilling to cut off contact. This kind of respect for the past love, because I really loved, I can't bear not to know anything from the other party.

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