Can lovers still be friends after a breakup

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Theoretically, it's okay.,But it's too difficult to really want to deal with it so well.,After all, people who used to be in love.,Suddenly become friends.,It's a little unaccustomed.,The most difficult thing to control is your own feelings.。。。 However, if you handle it appropriately, don't contact each other too much at first, and then consider being good friends when you have a new lover on each other, or when you have been able to treat each other as ordinary friends from the bottom of your heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, but it's a very awkward friend, a very sad friend (but only if you really like him) If you don't like it, it's a different story, so I chose not to be a friend, just amnesticized, and deleted his whole person from my world... Hehe, I'm very happy...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can't be friends because we've hurt each other! Nor can you be an enemy! Because we loved each other!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether couples can be friends after a breakup needs to be decided according to the situation at the time of the breakup. 1.The relationship between the two is stiff 2Peaceful separation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Breaking up is almost a necessary journey in the long road of love; But breaking up also requires art, from the moment of breaking up to bravely entering another new relationship, it is an irreplaceable experience in life. "Good gathering and good dispersion" is fate, and "good dispersion and good gathering" is learning. When the relationship ends, how to refine the courage to say goodbye, let go of the painful past, no longer wax torch into ashes, tears begin to dry.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Once a partner, will never be a friend now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can't be friends after a breakup. The reason why I chose to be a stranger is: since I broke up, I don't want to have an ambiguous relationship, that will only make me sad and uncomfortable, neither can I advance or retreat, since I have broken up, I will completely quit, a happy life, and happiness is the only pursuit now.

    I can only say sorry to him, whatever the reason, we broke up and broke up, and since we can't love each other anymore, let's be strangers.

    You can't be friends after a breakup. If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

    You can't be friends after a breakup. If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party. However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends?

    No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think I can, a pair of lovers have a deep feeling, there is no need to make it like an enemy after a breakup, if you are in the same city, it is inevitable that you will meet in the future, adjust your mentality, be a friend of your family, a greeting, and friends are not a difficult thing! Just don't add the things you used to do to each other, after a long time, you will find that you are still very good friends, caring for and encouraging each other!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

    It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

    Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

    If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

    And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hehe, it's not entirely impossible to use my own personal experience as an example, I used to be like this with him.

    I hated him when we first separated.

    Never want to know from him again.

    And then I was very sad and sad.

    And then almost half a year later.

    I got in touch with him again.

    It should have been the passage of time that diluted my hatred for him.

    After that, we became good friends again.

    Although it has hurt me hate to know about her.

    He didn't dare tell me much about her.

    Then I thought about it.

    I asked about her and promised to be friends with him.

    Slowly, he let me know about her.

    He wasn't going to tell me about his marriage.

    But I told him it wasn't really anything.

    We're still good friends.

    And then he agreed.

    Just over a month ago I was told when he was engaged.

    When to get married.

    I'm going to get married in a few days.

    He didn't invite me to go.

    I asked him many times why he didn't invite me.

    He's always avoided the subject.

    But he said we're still good friends, and I want to have a good day.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People always regret the past, always feel that the former lover is so good, so nostalgic, and even when he or she betrays you, you still feel that it is a misunderstanding, he has his difficulties and helplessness, he loves you, and you are willing to believe this thought, and often regret it.

    Insist on absolute values for love.

    Give up your true love and you will regret it for the rest of your life.

    Let go and love.

    Nothing is absolute.

    Feelings are no exception.

    Time is the best way to prove things.

    Is love able to stand its test.

    It's actually about how deep each other's emotions are.

    Acknowledging that time dilutes a lot of things.

    But that doesn't mean it can make everything go away.

    Sometimes don't trust time.

    Don't blindly test love with time.

    If you use time to test your love.

    The result is regret.

    Time can only play a supporting role.

    Don't let it be the protagonist of your life.

    Everything is in your own hands -

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Otherwise, even if we don't love it now, what should I do not remember the memories of so many sweetness along the way at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? It's better to keep walking until you meet someone else you can love.

    A breakup is a breakup, a decision, never mention being friends.

    If you don't love him anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him if you still love him, and don't ask him to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since it's already a breakup.

    Then it has to be thorough.

    Don't do anything more about being a so-called friend.

    Besides, there will be no lovers who used to be lovers who will become very good friends after they are separated, those are just deceptions, and the so-called friends are probably just broken threads.

    It's better not to say goodbye and don't contact!

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