How should I live in college, I hope that experienced people will talk about it, don t tell me dogma

In your freshman year, you will inevitably feel lost and decadent, what you need at this time is concentration, it's up to you, you must always keep a clear head, the school's clubs and student organizations should be carefully considered, not to participate in activities is necessarily good, it depends on what you need. For example, if you want to have a lot of experience when you enter the society in the future, you will benefit a lot by organizing more activities (not participating, but organizing them yourself), doing more things for teachers and students, and if you love learning, you can go to the library more often.

In the sophomore year, there are fewer activities and more professional courses, and you have adapted to it, basically you are busy, during this period, you learn English well, and strive to pass the four or six levels in one go, the four or six level certificates are chicken ribs, and there is no special benefit to more, but less is your defect.

Senior year, what should I do, what should I do, graduate school entrance examination, job search, civil service examination... Wait a minute.

Insist on doing what you want to do, and you must keep doing it. Not much.

What you learned in college, when you forget what you have learned, what remains is what you learned in college.

Look at what your goals are. First of all, you can't waste your studies, and you should just develop according to your personal goals.

Although Tianjin University of Finance and Economics is not a famous university, it is also a good school, much better than Shihezi University, Yanbian University, Northeast Agricultural University, Yunnan University and other 211 universities. You must know that finance and economics majors are now the most widely employed majors, and the scores of finance and economics majors are very high. Teachers don't care much in college, they all take big classes, and whether they can succeed or not depends on themselves.

Just take half the energy you did when you were in high school. When graduating, a good unit recruits to conduct written exams and interviews, and it is a fatal weakness for ordinary college students if they have no real talent and can't learn anything. As long as you are very good at learning in your professional courses, you don't care whether others are rich or rich.

Aren't there those who graduated from wealth and are all bullshit? You have more mastery than others, you are the master. If you are majoring in accounting, it is better to take the CPA exam in school.

Focus on professionalism and achieve excellence. Ability to travel all over the world. A person who studies accounting doesn't even know what accounting is, this is not a fantasy, and today's college students are like this, they are all masters who don't know anything.

After studying accounting for four years, I couldn't even figure out what was going on with borrowing and borrowing. Today's college students will graduate in two ways: one can type, because they are always chatting online; The second mouse is good to use, because it is a game every day.

Is there a shortage of people in the enterprise? Lacking, lacking, how can there be so many companies recruiting people every day. But no one wants to spend money to recruit these masters who don't know anything, so they can only recruit people with a few years of experience.

Theory guides practice, and if you learn theory well, you should be able to get started soon, and the key is that few people in universities now study it. As long as you work harder than others, you will be more, then you will be a master when you graduate, and there will be a unit that wants you.

Everyone makes mistakes, but the key is to see hope for the future.

Don't say that college can't make you proud, you should make college proud of you.

I can't tell you how you should go to college, but I just want to say that you should always try to live a good life.

If you think no, there isn't. If you think there is, there is. It's all about your own subjective consciousness, and anything outside has an effect on you, and the same goes for me.

I'm just relying on the second book, according to your logic, I have to kill myself. Calm and calm, face calmly, ambitious but not arrogant, sincere to others, clear conscience about themselves, down-to-earth, they must be good at finding problems and solving problems, good at discovering beauty, diligent and enthusiastic.

Some people have made a difference without going to college, college is just a process of increasing knowledge and improving experience, and the future is still in your hands. In college, go and exercise your social skills and take a few more diplomas.

There are still many opportunities in college, whether you have a tutor or a class teacher, and you will always gain something by communicating with your teachers

After seeing so many enthusiastic friends upstairs and patiently helping you answer your questions, I feel that there are still the majority of kind people in this world.

I won't repeat it. What I want to add is: you must be relaxed and strong!

You can live just fine without him! I love this quote - ask me how long I love you? Love you every two days until you don't love me!

It's not that how good he is as high as his education, for the women we live with, having a man who is responsible and sincere to you is the most important thing! We are not here to condemn him, he may have his ambitions, his so-called level ......Respect his decision, but for the sake of his son's future life without worries, he must collect as much money as possible......

Thirty years old is not that old, now divorce is the same as marriage, too much, if there is no love, divorce is also a great joy! There will be some hard work on the road in the future, don't be afraid, believe that you can live well without him! Raise your son well! Support you!

It is advisable to talk to him about child support before the divorce. The child is not yours alone, so it is impossible for you to raise the child alone. You're going to have to work too hard that way.

I think if he were a responsible man, he would understand. If you really can't, you can solve it through the law. During the time before the divorce, talk to friends to release your feelings, and don't let yourself be too depressed, which is not good for you and your children.

Hope it helps.

Sign the agreement. Don't be soft-hearted!

Given that studying abroad is subject to change. I suggest that you sign an agreement with him first, and the house will be left to you, and then the alimony can be paid off at one time (because your husband can even give up his wife and children at once, and plans to settle abroad, although the child will take refuge in high school, but if he builds another family there or is just fooling you now, you have to guard against it.) ）

Sincerely advise you:

1. Keep your things in the house recently, and don't let your husband sell them secretly;

2. Find a professional lawyer, explain the details clearly, explain it to you in person, and give you professional advice;

3. Don't be soft-hearted when signing the conditions. It was he who was ruthless first, don't blame you for being unjust. Xibao said: If there is not a lot of love, then I want a lot of money.

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted. For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance, which is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income.

The joint property and debts of the husband and wife shall be jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, and shall generally be half of the person. If one party is at fault, the division of property can be divided with less or no share, and the specific share will be determined by the court. In general, after marriage, the prenuptial bride price is treated as joint property and cannot be refunded, and if there is no marriage, the other party can be asked to return the bride price.

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; In the case of litigation divorce, the lawsuit is filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has lived for more than one year, the litigation fee for litigation divorce is generally 50 yuan if it does not involve property division.

Marriage is risky, and divorce should be done with caution!!

He is ruthless, you should also be ruthless, your husband is thinking about chasing his relatives and studying, give him space, he will regret it in the future, you are now in your 30s and you are young, calm down, leave! The divorce court will be fair, and I don't think your husband will lose you.

You can see you're for the kids. It seems that you must have your consent before you can get a divorce! Although he has no feelings, he has the obligation to raise the child. You can rest assured of this.

Your husband's performance shows that he is a man who is not worthy of love. Being so ruthless in the case of having children proves that this man is not very kind in the first place, has a poor sense of responsibility, and it is a good thing to leave. The husband must not look at his kindness to you first, he must be a person with good moral character.

Money is not the only measure of happiness, leave him to live a dignified life on his own. Solve the child's problem well, the child is innocent.

I also want to say that your husband must have a ghost in his heart, since he is desperate to divorce, you can leave, but before leaving, you must talk to him about the issue of child raising, find a lawyer to consult, what to do, and he doesn't even want his own flesh and blood, you have to take the child with you even if you work hard, the child is your only wealth! Don't be too sad, what you need to do now is to calm down and study what to do next, consulting a lawyer will help you a lot.

It's disgusting!! The most disgusting thing is this irresponsible man! When you have money, you become bad!!

Angry!! I don't want my wife and children who have come over with me through thick and thin!! What else do such people talk about???

What else to talk about for a master's degree??? He has lost even basic humanity!! I advise you to hurry up and get a divorce !!

The annual salary of 250,000 is indeed a high salary in the country, this is his capital for empathy? Reason?? I'll tell you a word, this kind of person is the most terrible and the deepest, and if you don't tell him that he is ruined, you will be sorry for your child!!

It's so infuriating to say so much!! Sleep!! If I had the right to do it, I would immediately freeze all his possessions and make him start all over again, so that he could see the people around him!!

Who's really good!! Who's fake good!! Who has been there for him all along!!

A brute with an annual salary of 250,000!

Give the child to him, and you can find a good life for him again. The child is not yours alone, he should also be responsible, and his economic conditions are good, you should follow him.

In persistence for a year.

Children over the age of 10 will follow whoever the child says.

Bad words! What's the hell in his heart?

Since I have a lot of time in my own hands in college, I think I can take some time to develop my hobbies, and there will be rewards for my efforts. In addition, depending on what you want to do after graduating from college, whether you are going to graduate school or looking for a job, if you are going to graduate school, then you are now a sophomore, and you still have plenty of time to think about which university to take the major, and then you can borrow relevant books to understand, you can look at English, because English needs to be accumulated. If you're looking for a job, learn some skills that are relevant to your future job, and there are so many resources available online that you can do it as long as you want.

I won many honors because I spent some time on my preferences and participated in various competitions in my freshman and sophomore year, and now I have won a national scholarship of 8,000 yuan in my junior year. Everyone's path is different, but it is important to be happy and fulfilling. I hope you can find your own path as soon as possible and go on happily.

Good luck!

As long as you are interested in this and have a little talent, you can do it! I'm a sophomore now, but I'm also very interested in movies, and I've thought about working in the film and television industry, but it should be very difficult to be from a non-professional background, but I plan to take the graduate school in economics, so I can only put this interest down for the time being! So, if you really want to work in the film and television industry, it is really necessary to go to further education.

Don't talk about those big directors, even many directors who are not very famous are also from professional backgrounds, such as Beijing Film and Chinese Opera. For the sake of dreams, it's really worth a try!

Of course, you can test your own interests. Try as long as you hesitate. I won't regret it.

I went to college in the same year as you, but not as well-known as your school. I had the same idea, but it never really came true. Recently, I have been taking the graduate school entrance examination for soy sauce, and I am also thinking about trying to take the undergraduate exam in that field in 2014.

Jia Zhangke only joined Beijing Film at the age of 23, and many people who love movies choose to regain their dreams when they have already embarked on their working careers. It's worth a try. Why not fight for your dreams?

PS, what's your situation now?

I don't know what major you're studying now, but how valuable do you think it is to retake a completely different major after four years of study? I don't agree with it, you must know that sometimes dreams are dreams, but it is better to live and be down-to-earth.

What about cultural points? Do you have to take the college entrance examination again?

I agree with the statement of the lonely goose, study hard, in addition to learning professional knowledge, and then learn some majors... I studied very well at that time, and my classmates were envious, but after work, I still felt that my time in college was wasted, and I didn't learn anything...