What am I holding on, do I really care because I like to?

What everyone insists on is purposeful.

For example, if you like someone, and you have been persistently pursuing him, you just want to get the same or little love from the other person in return.

For example, you have been working and going to work every day in order to get money to support yourself or live a better life, or it may be to be promoted, have more development, and be able to climb to a higher position.

So when you are confused about something, you don't know what you are insisting on, and you feel very tired, then put it down for a while and try, like you said, you don't know if it's because you like and care about this person, then you put down your insistence for a while, temporarily set aside about 20 days, don't contact him, don't associate with him, don't have any intersection with him, see if you think of him every day, think of the happiness with him will laugh happily, I will cry when I think of the sad scene with him, and even think that I am exhausted and want to run to him to see him, if this is the reaction, it means that you really like him and care about him. If you have such a reaction, you might as well continue to persevere, and maybe your dream will come true.

You don't actually stick to it, you just can't accept failure. It's not that you hold on and don't leave him, or it's not that you like him so much, you just feel that you have invested so much time, energy and even money, and then it turns out to be such an ending, you just can't accept the frustration in your own heart. In fact, there is no need, and sometimes the end of life is the beginning.

You must have courage to bow your head, and you must have confidence to raise your head. The warmth and coldness of life depends on the temperature of the heart. Love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain away. There is always a gap between the ideal and the reality, fortunately there is still a gap, otherwise, who is still rare and ideal?

Find a person who likes yourself and likes yourself, but it really depends on luck, it's hard to say, I personally think it's good to find someone who likes yourself, doesn't exclude yourself, and can get along with each other amicably. Besides, I think that even if you find such a person who likes each other, you may not really be able to get along well, just because you like it because you care, so many things are unsightly, and naturally in the eyes of the other party, it may become cautious, unreasonable, etc., and then there will be noise, and slowly the relationship will be broken. Anyway, just follow your feelings!

Believe in yourself, you can!

When fate arrives, it will come naturally.

Actually, you are very naïve, you don't understand girls at all, you think this is good for her, in fact, girls don't need you to be good to her like this, and your questions are simply some of the loss, you don't ask the core, and you are very dangerous now, you have reached the critical point of destruction and attraction, take the job you said, that's her job, and she won't go to the bank when it's too hot; Are you her boss? Or is she your subordinate, and you think it's kind? Not only girls think, I think you're kidnapping girls, everyone is free, even if you're her boyfriend, you can't do it, girls don't need you to care like this, what is the real concern?

She's going to the bank, and it's too hot, if you're free, you can send an umbrella over, you can't be free, you can also say, it's too hot, remember not to tan too tan, say a little naughty Lala to attract the relationship, maybe there will be a better, if you don't handle it well, it's estimated that it's like this, good luck!

Life is nothing more than eating, drinking, having fun, prostituting, gambling and smoking, and what we insist on is for our own inheritance.

Since there is persistence, it means that there is hope, if there is no hope, it will be more confused, sometimes persistence is victory, do a good job of changing, do your best,

Stand up for what you believe in.

Insist on building our bright future.

Insist on the arrival of a happy and happy life.

The rest of your life is not long, don't embarrass yourself: life, no matter what kind of people and things you encounter, no matter who you are happy or sad, don't dwell on the past, let the people and things of the past go with the wind, and welcome the future with a smile. You don't live to eat, you eat to live.

Judging from your description, you and your girlfriend have less and less common language, and since you are both going to get married next year, you have to discuss everything, and you should coax your girlfriend more, such as buying gifts for her to invite her to dinner more when you are free to contact your relationship.

There is obviously a problem in your relationship, at this time you should ask yourself whether you still love her, if you love you have to make changes yourself, care more about it and understand more, if you don't love it, break it up, it's good for both of you.

Life is like this, and there is occasionally a little romance in the ordinary days to add fun to life. It can only be said that you are a person who is not good at words, and you don't know how to make girls happy. is a real person. Things will be better when you get married, and you still have a common language.

In the vigorous love will be dull.

It looks like your girlfriend doesn't really like you, let it go, the twisted melon is not sweet, there is no grass at the end of the world, and there is no confidant in the future.

Everyone cares more or less about other people's opinions, and vanity is something that everyone has, but to a different extent. When we are recognized by others, we will work or study harder, and if we are not recognized, our natural enthusiasm will be reduced. In fact, we can appropriately ignore some of the eyes that others despise, and instead focus on those who care and encourage.

In fact, it is actually difficult to really not care about other people's eyes and opinions. So sometimes it's just a little bit of a change. To slowly "shameless", the shamelessness I am talking about is to make yourself happy.

Because if you care about other people's feelings when you're old, you'll never be happy.

I think as long as our behavior is not hurtful and unreasonable, and it does not particularly affect others, we don't have to think about other people's opinions, no, other people's opinions are actually your own opinions about yourself, and in most cases, others will not be the same as you think, because you care about yourself very much, and you care more about your side than the other person cares about you, and you know you better than others. Therefore, even if the other party despises you, the degree of contempt cannot be heavier than you think, and many people may not care at all that you are just doing amorous. It should be someone like me who may find you and laugh at you, and I care about this aspect and pay more attention to it.

Being laughed down upon by such people, we can't help but feel inferior, because you will find that their psychology is really ugly, although they don't show it on the surface. looks amiable, they have such a bad psychology and look down on others, or they are very conservative and are ridiculed by such people, and they don't dare to do it and hope that others are the same as themselves. Powerful people, good people, will not laugh at you, they all have their own serious things to do, they are physically and mentally involved, who cares what you are doing, they will not go even if they want to.

Because they've all been numbed by life, people have come to this world for just a few decades, and in the end, all of them are dead, who remembers who does what they love, and lives for themselves.

Everyone can have their own hobbies and can do what they love. However, whatever you do, it's best not to disturb the people around you. Some people like to defecate in the open, and passers-by must pretend not to see it when they see it.

That is to say, don't care what other people think, just focus on doing your part.

It's good to be yourself, and it's hard to pay attention to other people's opinions all the time.

Only by doing what you like can you have more courage and motivation to do things better.

It doesn't matter what others think, just be yourself, maybe you care too much about yourself.

If you haven't helped me, you're not qualified to point fingers at me, and I'm not obligated to nod and ...... at youTherefore, if you work your own and how you live, you don't care what others think, besides, others will not look at you, many times, it is we who magnify ourselves.

I think it's good to care about other people's eyes and just do what you like, not to be stupid, but to say that you can only say that you live in your own world.

In the forty-first round, Song Jiang outwitted the Wuwei army, and Zhang Shun captured Huang Wenbing alive.

If she doesn't love you, how can she cry more sadly than you when you say you are separated, but she feels that you have no future together, and she can only be more decisive than you.

Well, I haven't really experienced this... You should think about her mood first... Slowly you will understand ...

Is there anything she has to hide?

You ask yourself, is it worth it? Is it worth it for yourself? Love yourself.

No one cherishes yourself for you. Live yourself well, be independent, and be strong. Try to accept others, and maybe you will find that you are too stubborn to give others a chance.

Actually, what I want to say is that what you can't get is always beautiful. Actually, that's it.

I just want to say love, to love is worth it; Put, to put free and easy.

If you go the wrong way, remember to turn back; If you love the wrong person, you must know how to let go.

There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave.

There is a kind of love, knowing that it is torment, but it can't be hidden.

There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward. But the heart cannot be recovered.

It turns out that there is nothing wrong with the road, what is wrong is the choice. There is nothing wrong with love, what is wrong is just fate.

Eight years is not easy, how deep feelings do you need to make you so persistent, maybe there are not many sincere feelings, but everything is not worth a sentence, I like you, I may be able to understand you, but you have to be kind to yourself, you have to be responsible for yourself, in fact, many people's feelings for you are really greater than your feelings for that person.

There's nothing wrong with that. But he doesn't like you. That's right. Emotional things don't have to wait for results ...

You may have had a similar experience to me. There's nothing wrong with liking someone. There's nothing wrong with waiting for someone.

Whoever made you wait is not wrong. It's just that you're just like me. It's so infatuated.

Maybe there are some touches, too. It's just that we can't give him what he wants. will let it, wait and wait.

Waiting. Wait until she finds the rich man. will say sorry to you, we are not suitable.

No, you like to like, but don't put pressure on people, don't kidnap other people's freedom in the name of liking. If you like it, do what you should do and continue to be good to him, if you can't get what you want and are still struggling, then let it go, don't be a mother-in-law, no one likes such a girl.

Everyone has someone waiting for him in the future, don't be too anxious, don't be too persistent, what should come will come as promised.

Even if you are moved, it is useless, I have worked hard to chase a girl for five years before, watching her boyfriend change around, and finally left decisively, sometimes your insistence on others will even be more bored, there is no need to insist on giving up without results.

Don't try to change a man with touch, because no matter how much you pay, once you can't meet a certain need of him, he will also throw you away like garbage, so, don't change yourself for a boy, doing a good job will naturally attract more boys, but if you are good to him, he will definitely not take you to heart, the last thing a woman can do is to be cheap, the more cheap you are, the less valuable you are, no matter what, the person who loves you will always find you through the vast sea of people. I don't think there are any regrets, what can be separated proves that it is not the right person, the world is big, and it is not that you have to be, maybe many girls will have a boy in their hearts who can't let go, but the reason why they can't let go is because they haven't met the right person, there is nothing that can't be put down, it depends on whether you are willing to let go, time will be taken away and can't be put down, and in the same way, it will also bring the right person to your side.

I'm also waiting for someone now, he can't let go of his ex in his heart, I've done a lot, and he hasn't been moved. Sometimes I want to give up, but I can't. I always try to move him, but it's really hard, I admire you for waiting so long, I don't know if you will wait as long as you do.

Now I can't tolerate other people in my heart, and it's not that I don't understand some truths. To sum up, people are lonely in the depths, and we are all the same.

You're not wrong, you just want to say that it is better to choose someone you love than to choose someone who loves you.

Hey, who can explain the feelings, just don't regret it, don't regret it.

Eight years is really not easy. You should ask her once, and if she still tells you to wait, give up.

I think you should go after people who like you.

It's just a silly love that has no merit, and the reality is cruel and uninteresting.