Under what circumstances would you say the word divorce?

My significant other betrayed me. For me, since two people are already married, they should be loyal to each other and to this family, and I can't bear betrayal the most. I think it is the most excessive and unforgivable thing for a person to love another person behind his lover's back.

When I was a child, I watched a TV series "Xue Pinggui and Wang Baochuan", and my least favorite thing was Xue Pinggui - Wang Baochuan waited for him in the cold kiln for 18 years, but he was already with other women, which made me very angry, no matter if your wife is not there, you should be loyal to her, not to mention that you are not sure if she is really gone! Some people may say that they have a hard time, but in my opinion it is an excuse. If my partner betrayed me, I would have divorced him anyway.

My significant other seriously talked to me about divorce. I think if my other half can seriously talk to me about divorce, it means that the two of them really don't have any feelings. Feelings can't be forced, if two people have no feelings, they won't be happy if they continue to be together, but will be more cold and full of contradictions.

My significant other didn't allow me to have my own free life and made me obey his word for the time. I believe that men and women are equal, there is no rule that only husbands can go out to work, and women must stay at home with their husbands and children. I like the outside world, I like to travel, I like to work, I like to play with my friends; I have my own ideas and opinions about doing things, I don't like to go with the flow, if I want to be deprived of my freedom because of my family, I will choose to divorce, because such a family does not give me happiness and warmth, but makes me feel bound and pressured.

I know that it is not easy for two people to come together, but I think that the relationship cannot be forced, and if a marriage is really unsustainable, it is better to separate if both people agree. Tang people have a cloud of "one parting and two wide, each life is happy", it is better to find a life that is really suitable for you, which is a relief for both of you.

When you are tired of marriage and are no longer yourself, the other party has no responsibility, no responsibility, no matter whether you live or die, when you have enough disappointment in your heart, you really don't want to be trapped in marriage anymore, and you will say the word divorce.

When I really decided to divorce and never look back, I would solemnly say the word divorce, which is the respect for marriage and family. Men and women who talk about divorce at every turn may not really want to divorce.

Marriage is best the original partner, if there is betrayal or domestic violence, you will feel that no one of the two people has a good life, and you will choose to divorce for such reasons!

Disappointment with your partner . What that person did, completely disappointed himself, he surpassed his bottom line again and again, begged for forgiveness again and again, but the result was useless at all, going on with him, it will only be more painful, then choose to divorce! The more it drags on, the deeper the pain becomes, and the longer the pain is better than the short one.

If my husband doesn't have a sense of responsibility, doesn't take care of the children at home, and doesn't respect his parents, then I may file for divorce. If my husband doesn't work and only plays games at home, I will also file for divorce.

When the other party betrayed himself, there was no reason for his children and parents to be chic outside, because he didn't have this home in his heart at all.

The last thing I can stand is the disloyalty of the other half towards the relationship, if the other party is unfaithful to the relationship, then I will say the word divorce, because this is the last bottom line in my marriage.

When I am betrayed, I will choose to divorce, marriage needs to be tolerated, but the only thing that cannot be tolerated is betrayal, and there are only 0 and countless betrayals.

Generally, when there is a crisis of trust between the two parties, or when they are betrayed, they will say the word divorce.

Generally, when there is a lot of accumulation of conflicts, patience has reached the limit, or one party has betrayed the marriage, or it may have suffered domestic violence, the word divorce will be said at this time.

People will generally say the word divorce when they are particularly angry, because when two people have a conflict, if they are particularly angry, they will not choose to speak.

is already quite disappointed in the other party, and there is no room for recovery, at this time he will file for divorce, and he is quite firm.

If you are particularly impulsive, or if your mind is not clear, you will be carried away by anger, so you will behave irrationally.

When you are disappointed, you will say these two words, and you will definitely mention divorce to the other party if you feel that there is no need for this marriage to continue.

I am particularly disappointed in the other party, and I don't want to maintain my marriage when I find out that I have been betrayed, so I will divorce.

Generally speaking, it is really unbearable, and there is no emotion between two people at all, so people will say the word divorce.

Generally, it is very tired or collapsed to the extreme, and people will say the word divorce.

The other party completely broke his heart, and he felt that there was no need to save this marriage, and no matter how much he continued to operate, it would not change the ending.

When people are very disappointed, they feel that marriage is a burden, so they will say the word divorce.

Generally, the word divorce is said when a person despairs of his marriage, is dead to his other half, and cannot see the direction of the future.

If you are particularly sad and disappointed in this marriage, and feel that you can't see any hope, you will file for divorce to end this sad relationship.

When two people are very emotionally extreme and excited, it is easy to say the word divorce, so many times divorce is caused by impulse.

In a marriage, when the other party disappoints you and leaves you speechless, and the two often quarrel, it is very stressful.

is that when you are already disappointed in this relationship and don't want to continue to develop with each other, if people are not very disappointed, they will not choose to divorce.

Generally, when we are extremely disappointed, or when we are particularly angry, we will say the word divorce, and we no longer want to live with each other.

It may be that when you are particularly angry, you feel that this day can no longer be lived, or it may be meaningless.

In a dull and boring life, there may be countless impulses to divorce between husband and wife, but both parties can calm down, or the man can be a little more humble, and things may be much better! Sometimes in hindsight we think impulsively is really the devil.

As for what kind of situation you said decided to divorce. On the one hand, I have experienced different lives, gained different experiences, and developed different values. There are many aspects of life that are the factors that make a decision on whether to divorce or not.

Personality factor is an important factor affecting the conclusion of marriage, if the three views do not agree, temper does not deal with two people, they live together are unwilling to understand each other, quarrels constantly, affecting life. They generally have a very short time from love to marriage, and they do not fully understand the temperament and temperament of the other half before they get married. Instead of barely spending the rest of your life together, it is better to break up early and seek your own happiness.

Some people say that the other half of the marriage has complementary personalities, while others say that two people have a common language and similar personalities can be together for a lifetime. What is the truth? There are countless examples of both of the above situations in life, so there is no one right answer, as long as two people tolerate each other and understand each other, a harmonious life will not be too far.

In addition, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also have an impact. No matter how much I heard that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not good before marriage, women didn't think so. Because it was not yet their turn, they learned after they got married that it was not enough to conquer men.

Moreover, it does not correspond to his whole family, which is a question that many people sigh about. This is probably the most delicate and difficult relationship in the world. They love a man, they love another man, deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the role of the son is very important.

Only a bowl of water is fair, does not disappoint the mother, and does not let the wife complain, can the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be alleviated.

Come together because of love, and separate because of tiredness. When you send a signal that no one is answering, it's time to break up, leave yourself some dignity, make the rest of your life simpler, and love yourself more.

After getting married, if the other party ignores me and doesn't like to coax me, every time I come home, I treat it as if I don't exist, as if they don't love me, and there is no difference between them and strangers, in this case, I will say the word divorce.

After getting married, the word divorce will only be said in the case of emotional betrayal or unhappy family, because the betrayal of the family makes the family have no idea of living, so they will divorce.

Some parties do not get along with leniency and file for breakup or divorce; Some are due to the coercion of the other party to break up or divorce.

First of all, let's talk about the first situation, the quarrel that can't go on and propose a breakup or divorce. This situation is that the two sides continue to have contradictions, and every time there is a conflict, they are not able to deal with it calmly, that is to say, the two failed to solve the problem in time when the conflict was small, but the backlog became an irreconcilable conflict.

Many times, I generally don't care about the details of life, thinking that they are all small problems, maybe the other party should not care, so I don't communicate clearly with the other party. However, this question may be a trivial problem in your eyes, but the other party's opinion is not necessarily the same as your opinion, and the other party will think that you do not value and love him (her) enough, so this contradictory psychological shadow is buried. As long as enough of these small problems accumulate to a certain extent, only a very small contradiction can become the fuse, and when it is out of control, it is natural to say that they will break up or divorce when they quarrel.

Then let's talk about the breakup or divorce out of coercion, some people just like to treat the breakup or divorce as **, and they can blurt it out as soon as they quarrel, the purpose is to coerce you, if you don't compromise again, we really can't get by. At this time, if the other party still loves him (her), he will accept the coercion, even if the problem is not his or her own, he will still admit his or her mistakes.

If there are too many times, or if the other party's patience has reached the limit, then it will really break up or divorce.

Finally, I personally think that no matter what kind of psychology you are in, you can not say the words "breakup or divorce", because these words will always do more harm than good.

There are many reasons for a fight, maybe it's a miscommunication, or maybe both parties have different ideas about the same thing, but women often mention "divorce" in the process. First and foremost, marriage is an important life decision, and divorce will inevitably be considered if a person feels unable to tolerate the hurt from their significant other, or if the other half is far from their core values. Second, early education may also influence women to mention divorce in a fight.

The family environment can affect a child's way of thinking, and if they see that there are constant divorces in the family, problems with their parents, etc., they may also mention "divorce" in their quarrels later in life.

In addition, women may also mention divorce as an expression of their anger. When a marriage goes wrong, both men and women may shift the blame to each other, both parties will express their dissatisfaction, and couples may express their anger or anger by filing for divorce.

Finally, when arguing, women may also mention divorce because they want their other half to feel their pain, or to try to pursue a balance of self-denial and self-defeat, so that the other half can get some attraction.

In general, there are many reasons why women mention divorce, but it is not mentioned in every quarrel, and only in some specific situations does women mention divorce or use it as a means of threat in specific situations.

After looking at many families, I found that most of the women who say the words breakup and divorce when they quarrel are inseparable from these three kinds of psychology:

The first is to maintain self-dignity.

When the other half frequently puts herself on the verge of collapse, the woman says these two words, which means the maintenance of self-esteem, and wants to tell the other party that I will live well without you. These two words, to a certain extent, will make women feel that they still have the right to choose their lives, have the freedom to find another life, and make their pure hearts feel better.

The second is to let the other party cherish their own efforts.

In marriage, women are not afraid of paying, but worried about paying too much, but they are taken for granted by the other party, and they take everything as their own obligations. When a woman says divorce during a quarrel, she wants to make the other party feel her importance in the relationship, so that the other half realizes that leaving her is a big loss for him, so as to realize his mistakes and admit his mistakes in the quarrel.

The third is to test the other party's feelings for themselves.

Many women are insecure in their marriage, especially when life becomes monotonous day after day, and they don't feel love from their significant other. When the other party is very busy and neglects to take care of the family, he is even more suspicious of the other party's feelings for him. Therefore, when there is a conflict, when you say the word divorce, you actually want to see the other party's reaction and determine your true position in the other party's mind.