What are some profound truths that need to be understood in college?

In fact, it is not the frogs that are happy in the warm water that are sad, but the ones who feel the infinite panic of the rising water temperature but are powerless. They could not enjoy the moment when the water temperature was just right like their companions, and they could not jump out for the time being, so they could only sigh day and night in fear. depression。

Don't try to be friends with people you don't like and don't agree with just because you're in a dorm room, and even talk as little as possible. Being close to me I couldn't avoid the negative emotions she brought me, and I could learn to adjust my mood quickly.

Everyone has their own business, don't pester others to accompany you. One of our roommates was like that, and we ended up ignoring her in the whole dorm. If you want to do what you want, even if no one is with you, you have to do it.

No one is with you, and you can't leave regrets for yourself. In fact, I used to want someone to do anything with me. Hang out, go to shows, and more.

But then I found that it is really difficult to find friends with similar interests, and I am not as good as myself with those friends who have different interests from you.

1."If the young man does not work hard, the boss will be sad. Before entering the university, I have always been arrogant and mentally retarded, thinking that university is just a threshold, and it may not be closely related to personal development.

When I came back from vacation, I met my old classmates who were admitted to schools at different levels, and I felt that it was not the case. Universities are important, and there are more and more examples of how important first qualifications are attested. So....2.

Money is hard to earn, is hard to eat. This is a common saying in Shaanxi, or it may be northern Shaanxi, it sounds very rough, and I was very disgusted before, but now I also have a little experience. Before I entered college, I had no idea how much money I was, whether it was spent reasonably or not, and whether it was wasteful.

The forced control of living expenses by his college father coupled with his reluctant bookkeeping, now I gradually feel that I was too willful before, and I understand that the hard work behind every point is really precious. By the way, bookkeeping should be a prerequisite for planning living expenses, after all, you have to know where you are spending. 3.

Don't really think that college is easy without studying. I thought I didn't need to study at university last semester, and now I've learned a hard lesson. 4.

Don't think that college classmates and teachers are useless. It's important to have a good relationship. 5.

If you join a student organization or serve as a class leader, if you have the idea of improving your ability, you should explore and do more in practice! Don't do things with a high hand! Don't look at the high!

Don't look at the high! 6."Threesomes must have my teacher" No matter how good they are, there must be shortcomings in themselves, not to mention ordinary college students.

7.Appearance does have weight, but personality and the way you deal with people are also very important! 8.

The words of the older generation or the seniors may not be all right, but there is some truth in them. Don't rush to deny it, try to understand, because as someone who has come before, it is very likely that they will see farther than you. I can't give specific examples of this, but I do have a deep experience.

9.There are many clubs in the university, so don't be afraid to lack the energy at first, participate in a few more, and dabble in more. Because I think that even if you enter university, you don't know what your real strengths or interests are, and trying new things can help you discover your strengths.

Of course, if you have a strong specialty and a clear interest, you don't need to do it. 10.Whether it is friendship or love, it is important to be evenly matched, and unilateral unequal efforts will not last long in the end.

can be in fear all day long in sighing day and night. depression。

This is an era of rising individualism: individual interests take precedence over the well-being of the group, and individual opinions are often the only ones that can be accepted. But the sea is inclusive, and tolerance is great.

We should not only look out for our own interests, but learn to listen to others' opinions, consider the views of all parties, and work together to realize our dreams. This is an era of information, right and wrong: the information circulating on the Internet every day, the news released by **, has brought us a lot of impact.

But things are often not as simple as they seem, and right and wrong often require careful analysis and in-depth understanding. The purpose of university education is to develop independent thinking. After graduation, students are required to learn for life and have the ability to think critically.

This is an era in which interests come first and morality comes later: money, status, and power have become the only things that the world chases, and the cultivation of morality and values is gradually forgotten. The wall is thousands of feet, and there is no desire to be rigid.

I hope you don't let interests cover your conscience, and promise yourself with virtue. What we are looking for should be something that lasts longer than fame and fortune. I hope that CUHK graduates will lead our times with a broad vision and an inclusive attitude.

I hope that CUHK graduates will abide by ethics and do their duty, and not bury their conscience for personal gain. I hope that CUHK graduates will understand the times, lead the trend, not follow the conventions or blindly follow them, and become people who can contribute to society. Know contentment, know how to be grateful, contribute more There is half a glass of water in front of you, and the cup you see is half full, not half empty.

You will understand that nothing in the world can be taken for granted, whether it's health, family, loved ones, or opportunities. Everything you have and what you have achieved at this age is something that many people in this world cannot imagine. Knowing that contentment leads to happiness.

If you know how to be grateful, what you think of in your heart is not to want more, but to contribute more. You should strive to give back to the society, and use your time, your knowledge, and maybe one day, your wealth. Then you will find that the more you give, the richer you will be.

For someone like me who has only been in college for two months, mine may not be really right, but it also represents some of my personal opinions. When we were in high school or even junior high school, we often had older brothers or seniors who entered college before us tell us. Cherish your middle and high school life, because when you enter college, you will know what intrigue is and what is unpredictable.

But after I actually entered college, I realized that the difference between college and junior high school is not as dark as others say, and it can also be said that the darkness and intrigue of college are actually caused by the inducement of seniors who are higher than us. That is to say, every senior who has experienced the university first will tell us about the various open and secret battles of the university that are different from the middle and high schools, and these may also be told by their seniors.

In other words, the seniors tell the seniors to induce the seniors to become the intrigues in their mouths, and they also make them think that everyone in the university is an intrigue and become defensive, and everyone is like this, and then the so-called experience of the predecessors that the university is a place of intrigue is really fulfilled. Thus affecting us. Everyone is from high school to college, everyone is pure, everyone does not forget the original intention, and college is pure and happy.

1.Most of the students in organizations such as the student union and the school social association are out-of-town students with dreams, and there is no other benefit to adding them except listening to the braggadocio of the seniors and constantly doing inefficient things. 2.

Don't get your hopes up for school activities, after the participation of some brainless people, it will become very 90% happy from the Internet and the interesting people on the Internet side, and the remaining 10% will go to roommates and the cafeteria.

The University focuses on the relationship between personal moral cultivation and social disorder, and clarifies the role of morality in social life.

In fact, this is exactly what Confucius.

Components of the ideological system. Confucius believed that the purpose of the way of the ancestors was to promote people's upright character and enable them to reach the state of perfection. Only when people know what they should achieve can they go on with determination; When you have a firm ambition, you will be able to achieve your goals with peace of mind and thoughtfulness.

Everything has a root and a branch, a beginning and an end, and if you understand this truth, you will be close to the law of the development of things.

This thought of Confucius is reflected in Zeng Shen.

In the book "University", it is written: The Way of University.

In Mingmingde. In the people, in the end of the good. Knowing and then there is certainty, and then there is stability, and then it can be quiet, and then it can be peaceful, and then it can be considered, and then it can be obtained. Things have a beginning and an end, and knowing the order is the shortest way.

"University" is about the truth of being a human being. The author is Zeng Zi, and the university tells us that it is necessary to cultivate oneself with a righteous mind. As the saying goes, only when the heart is calm can the heart be peaceful, the qi can keep the qi pulse smooth, and the qi pulse can be unobstructed in order to be healthy.

This is also in line with the health preservation idea of traditional Chinese medicine that there is no pain, and pain is not good. Once a person has negative emotions such as anger, fear, jealousy, and worry, he cannot maintain a good mind in his heart.

This in turn affects your physical health. Only with a positive heart can make one's heart not change due to any external influence, and can be invincible, if there are distracting thoughts or improper mental skills, the small will affect the physical health, and the big one will affect a person's luck, and nothing will be successful.

"University" is a discussion of the Confucian self-cultivation Qi family rule of the world of the idea of prose, originally "Xiao Dai Li Ji" forty-second article, according to legend for the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period Zeng Zi, in fact, the Qin and Han dynasties of Confucianism, is an important work in ancient China to discuss the theory of education.

The "Three Programs" (Ming Mingde, Closeness to the People, and Perfection) and the "Eight Articles" (Gewu, Zhizhi, Sincerity, Righteousness, Self-cultivation, Family, Governance, and Peace) put forward by the University emphasize that self-cultivation is the premise of governing people, and the purpose of self-cultivation is to govern the country and level the world, and explain the consistency of governing the country and leveling the world and personal moral cultivation.

The full text of the book is concise, profound in connotation, and far-reaching, mainly summarizing the pre-Qin Confucian theory of moral cultivation, as well as the basic principles and methods of moral cultivation, and also systematically expounding Confucian political philosophy, and has profound enlightenment on life, handling affairs, and governing the country.

What are the main topics of "University" and "The Mean", and what are the widely spread truths? The "University" put forward the three programs of Mingde, close to the people, and stopping at the best, and also put forward the eight items of Gewu, Zhizhi, Sincerity, Righteousness, Self-cultivation, Qi Family, Governing the Country, and Peaceful World, so it has the important significance of "inner sage" and "outer king". "The Mean" emphasizes "sincerity", regards "sincerity" as the highest category of the ideological system, regards the pursuit of "sincerity" as the criterion of "humanity", and puts forward the learning process and cognitive methods of "erudition", "interrogation", "prudence", "discernment" and "practice".

The "University" put forward the three programs of Mingde, close to the people, and stopping at the best, and also put forward the eight items of Gewu, Zhizhi, Sincerity, Righteousness, Self-cultivation, Qi Family, Governing the Country, and Peaceful World, so it has the important significance of "inner sage" and "outer king".

"The Mean" emphasizes "sincerity", regards "sincerity" as the highest category of the ideological system, regards the pursuit of "sincerity" as the criterion of "humanity", and puts forward the learning process and cognitive methods of "erudition", "interrogation", "prudence", "discernment" and "practice".

Didn't it be said at the beginning of "University" - "The way of the university lies in Mingmingde", which means that the truth of the university's inquiry lies in demonstrating noble morality.

In college, we should understand a truth, there are many people who eat and drink with you, but when you need help the most, the person who can lend a helping hand is your true friend. College is a small, bizarre society where there is everyone, and you have to keep your eyes peeled to discern who your real friends are.

In college, we must understand that we must do our own things, and we can't rely on anyone, which is the real growth of a person, because no one can help us in the society in the future, so we must start to exercise ourselves to hone our various skills during the college period, so that we can develop better in the future.

We must understand that we are already an adult, no matter what we do, we must think carefully, and learn to take responsibility, because when I was just in college, my mother said: You must take care of yourself when you go out alone, although we are worried about you, but we can't help you do anything, my mother's words, I always keep in mind, and have always made myself a worry-free child.

In college, we need to understand that we need to be responsible for our own learning, because the university teachers are only responsible for lecturing and never care about our learning outside of class, so there is a lot of time after class, and we have to arrange our own study time for ourselves. Make a study plan for yourself and go to the library to study.

In college, you must understand that everyone has their own ideas, don't use your own opinions to think about others, give others enough space, and be sure to respect some of others' ideas, don't always want to do what you want to do, and impose your own requirements on others.

Book knowledge is not the most important thing to learn in college, should learn how to behave in these four years, this is the truth we need to understand the most, because when I first entered college, my father said: This is a small society, you must get along with every classmate, listen to my father's words, after I practiced it seriously every day, now that I have graduated from college, I have a lot of good friends.