What is it like to have a father who is a loser?

Lazy to eat, smoke, drink, gamble, short-tempered, boastful, unhygienic, unmotivated, unassertive, talking about people behind his back, accomplishing nothing, self-righteous, feeling that the whole world is right and others are wrong, having two stinky money that he thinks is great, and all the money he earns is used on himself. Men can have no car or house, but they are not at least self-motivated. After complaining, I don't love you at all.

The whole family is very tired, especially my mother, who has to support the whole family. I have been in poor health since I was a child, and my mother had to take me around to seek medical treatment in addition to making money. My dad has always been out of business, and now he is playing everywhere, playing cards in his hometown village every day, and at the end of the year, my mom has to clean up the mess.

Uncle and aunt scolded him every day, it was useless, and he still went his own way. I also dream of doing big business all day long, and I lie to myself all day long because I don't have a chance.

My father has been looked down upon all his life, many pieces of furniture in the house are clamoring, only a few rotten stools are at ease, unmotivated, unassertive, stingy to the extreme, no common sense, no reason to speak, my mother found such a person, worked as a servant and worker for decades, when I was an ATM? I am reluctant to pay and want to reap, I hate this kind of person.

I have a father who has a nest and a mother who is not assertive. The family of such a person is not destined to be rich, and it is sure that they will be looked down upon by their relatives. Yes, that's it.

I'm introverted, I don't like to talk, and I'm nervous when I see people. It's just too much to be affected by the family environment. Sometimes I hate them in my heart, and if I had the opportunity to make my own choice, I would rather not come to this world than be born into such a family.

My dad was a wreck. He doesn't know anything, he is cowardly, incompetent, unmotivated, and can't even cook basically. So much so that I never believed in love, never believed in boys, and even more dared not fall in love.

I've always been very conceited, sensitive, and tired. Every time I see someone else's dad, do I wonder if I'm a kid with a dad? For so many years, I felt like there was nothing in the world except the negative energy he brought to me.

I hate him, he ruined my mother's youth, and half of my mother's life was in his hands.

Talking about male power, but as a result, he was greedy for pleasure at home, and he didn't even have a job, I used to intern, my mother was working outside, and he lost his temper when he came back and said that we discriminated against him, how could a woman go out to work, and then unscrupulously reached out to ask for money, and threatened with a knife if he didn't give it, and he used to want to throw me away because I wasn't a man, so backbone and asked me for money.

Generally speaking, the Qiankun theory of family education is a family education theory with distinctive Chinese characteristics that has absorbed the broad and profound Zhouyi culture of the Chinese nation, learned from the scientific achievements of Western family education, combined with the educational requirements of socialism with Chinese characteristics in the new era, and based on the laws and characteristics of children's growth and in accordance with the laws of education.

Psychology is divided into: Developmental Psychology, Social Psychology, Cognitive Psychology, Social Psychology, Clinical Psychology, and Neuroscience.

Educational Psychology and Child Development Psychology... Lots of subject theories.

The way parents and children get along with each other in couples.

Psychology is only knowledge and knowledge, but cannot solve the problem of education, and parents are the best education for their children to set an example for their children. Teaching by word and deed is better than knowledge and methods, and educating children well is based on true love, not only in the mind, but also in behavior and mannerisms, and parents are good role models for their children.

Family Education.

Psychology is a book that contains the history and current situation of family education, and the theoretical basis of family education psychology. Table of Contents: Chapter 1 Introduction Section 1 What is Family Section 2 The History and Present Situation of Family Education Section 3 The Psychology of Family Education Chapter 2 The History and Current Situation of Family Education Section 1 The Historical Development of Family Education Section 2 The Current Situation of Family Education Section 3 The Development Trend of Family Education Chapter 3 The Theoretical Basis of Family Education Psychology Section 1 The Development and Behavior Management of Children Section 2 The Main Theoretical Schools Influential on Family Education Section 3 The Training Model of Parent-Child Relationship Chapter 4 Psychological Problems in Family Education of Infants and Young ChildrenSection 1 Expectant Parents Section 2 Psychological Development and Behavior Management of Infants and Young Children Section 3 Family Education Issues for Children in Infants and Toddlers Chapter 5 Psychological Problems in Family Education of Preschool Children Section 1 Physiological Development of Preschool Children Section 2 Development of Cognitive Ability in Preschool Children Section 3 Social Development of Preschool Children Section 4 Self-Awareness Development of Preschool Children Section 5 Parent-Child Relationships in Preschool Chapter 6 Psychological Problems in Family Education of Children in Primary School Section 1 Family Education and Children's Cognitive Development and School AdaptabilitySection 2 The Influence of Family Education Styles on Children's Social Behavior Section 3 Parental Behavior and the Development of Children's Self-Concept Section 4 Characteristics of Parent-Child Relationships in Primary School Children Chapter 7 Psychological Adjustment of Children's Stressful Events Section 1 Children May Face Stressful Events in Modern Society Section 2 Children's Understanding and Coping Styles of Stressful Events Section 3 Children's Psychological Skills for Dealing with Stressful Events Chapter 8 Family Education Issues for Children with Special Needs Section 1 Family Education for Children with Mental Retardation Section 2 Family Education for Children with Learning Disabilities Section 3 Family Education for Anxious and Depressed Children Chapter 9 Educational Psychological Issues in Special Families Section 1 The Impact of Marital Relationships on Children Section 2 Educational Psychological Problems in Single-Parent Families Section 3 Educational Psychological Issues in Remarried Families Section 4 Educational Psychological Issues in Adoptive Families Section 5 Psychological Problems in Family Education for Left-behind Children Section 6 The Growth of Children with Imperfect Family Functions Chapter 10 Becoming Competent Parents Section 1 Recognition and Adjustment of Parental Roles Section 2 Effective Parenting Methods and Their Training Section 3 Self-Education of Competent Parents Chapter 11 Family Education and the Formation of Adolescent Learning Motivation Section 1 Overview of Learning Motivation Section 2 Theory of Learning Motivation Section 3 Development Characteristics of Adolescent Learning Motivation Section 4 Family Education and the Formation of Adolescent Learning Motivation Chapter 12 Family Education and the Formation of Adolescent Moral Behavior Section 1 Structure of Moral Behavior Section 2 Psychological Foundations of Moral Development Section 3 Characteristics of Adolescent Moral Psychology Section 4 Family Education and the Formation of Good Moral QualitiesChapter 13 Family Education and the Formation of Good Psychological QualitiesSection 1 The Structure of Good Psychological QualitiesSection 2 Manifestations of Good Psychological Qualities of AdolescentsSection 3 Family Education and the Formation of Good Psychological Qualities.

Family with colds**.

15 grams of ginger slices, 20 grams of sugar, add 500 ml of water, add brown sugar after boiling, take it once while it is hot, and cover it until sweating. It can treat the initial onset of cold, fever, headache, body aches and other symptoms.

30 grams of chrysanthemums, 1 egg, mix the mashed rock sugar with the eggs, take it with boiling water before going to bed, cover the quilt with slight sweating, can cure colds, and is also effective for children with nosebleeds.

Cut the white radish into small pieces, about 200 grams, 5 olives, decoction soup, 3 times a day, the dosage is not limited, it can cure epidemic ** epidemic, diphtheria and other diseases.

100 grams of glutinous rice boiled porridge. 5 shallots, 15 grams of ginger, mashed and added, simmered and eaten, sweating, can cure cold, body aches, fever and other symptoms.

10 grams of mulberry leaves, chrysanthemums, and licorice, brewed with boiling water, and frequently drunk instead of tea. It is mainly suitable for wind-heat colds.

30 grams of lychee meat, appropriate amount of rice wine. Lychee meat is boiled warm with wine and taken once while it is hot to cure qi deficiency and cold.

3 Chinese cabbage roots, wash and slice, fry with 15 grams of chrysanthemums, take the soup with sugar while it is hot, one dose a day, take it for 3-4 days. It can cure summer dampness and cold.

Two duck eggs, go yellow and stay green, and prepare 20 grams of green onion white, 50 grams of starch syrup, first boil the green onion white and starch sugar with two teacups of water, pour it into a bowl containing duck egg white, stir well, divide it into two hot servings, can treat cough, hoarseness, sore throat and other symptoms caused by colds.

25 grams of walnut kernels, 25 grams of ginger, 25 grams of green onions, mix and mash, put 15 grams of tea into the casserole, add a bowl and a half of water to decoction, remove the slag and take it once, cover it to sweat, pay attention to avoid the wind. It can treat colds, fevers, headaches and no sweating.

You can better maintain your family and marriage.

The formation of a child's personality is indeed influenced by the parents. Some of the child's behavior is a reflection of the parent's behavior. The growth of each child is closely related to the environment in which they live, and plays a decisive role in the formation of the acquired personality.

A child in a happy family, the atmosphere is relaxed and simple. Your child will be confident and lively. A child with a poor family economy will be precocious and sensible.

Children in families who often quarrel, cowardly, lack self-confidence. Children in single-parent families are rebellious and have irascible personalities. Many children who grow up in their families of origin have relatively high emotional intelligence, are sociable, enthusiastic and generous, and are more popular.

There are many children in the reborn family who are not sound in personality.

Being able to summarize and reflect shows that you have taken a crucial step, and the next step is to make a feasible plan to plan yourself, regardless of what your family is doing, let alone trying to change your family, just be the best version of yourself.

The inheritance of a good family style is very important, a person's growth and family environment is closely related, from a young age to see how parents take their children, see how the old teacher teaches children, enlightenment teachers will help, bring, teach children for a lifetime, this belongs to the family psychology model reward, the so-called follow who to learn what, children are the shadow of parents, depending on each other.

I remember that there is a section in the high school English textbook about whether a person's character is born or acquired.

The point in it is interesting.

Your psyche is also very interesting. Since you know that it is not good, it is good to correct it, and there is no point in passing the responsibility on the original family. You can't change it.

Just make yourself better.

Yes, a person's character, as well as the style of being a person and doing things, are cultivated from an early age. When I grow up, I want to change the version.

Change is very difficult, so the family and the environment in which a person grows up are particularly large. So habits should be formed from a young age. As the saying goes, follow 10 million to make millions, follow 100 million to earn 100,000, and follow beggars to ask for food.