How should I choose my future?

Let's go to high school again.

After being admitted to a junior college, you can only take a higher degree as a further study, and even if you get an undergraduate or even graduate degree after junior college, you will not be very valued - because you are not a freshman!

Summary. Hello dear, I am happy to answer for you: what are your plans for your future?

01Do a good job of health planning1Find a sport you like and stick to it for a long time; 2 Reasonable Diet 02 Run a Good Marriage 1 Learn to be kind to your lover, don't bring bad temper to your family, learn to speak well; 2Relive the beautiful moments of the past, take a trip that you can go, you are simple, the world is simple03Do a good job of career planningWe should live more transparently at this age, help young people grow up quickly, in addition, calm down, study more of your own business, and strive for excellence04Do a good job in family financial managementLearn some family financial management skills My plans for the future are:1First, replace the bank's loan with 2

Buy another house 3Redecorate the current house again4No matter how much money you make, it seems to have something to do with money

Filial piety is good for the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, and it is good to take care of the children I gave birth to are plain and healthy. My opinion is that it is becoming more and more difficult to make money now, and the secondary differentiation is too powerful, especially for young people who make money much easier than me in the 80s. And we are middle-aged, we don't have the energy, we don't have the good body.

It's better to do your duty.

Hello, I've been waiting for you for a long time, and I'm looking for answers to your questions, please be patient Dear, I'm glad to answer for you: What are your plans for your futureAnswer: 01 Make a good health plan 1 Find a sport you like and stick to it for a long time; 2 Reasonable Diet 02 Run a Good Marriage 1 Learn to be kind to your lover, don't be bothered, bring a bad temper to your family, and learn to speak well; 2Relive the beautiful moments of the past, take a trip that says go, you are simple, the world is simple03Do a good job of career planningWe should live more transparently at this age, help young people grow up quickly, in addition, calm down, study your own business more, and strive for excellence04 Do a good job in family financial managementLearn some family financial management skills My plan for not picking up the fiber is:

1.First, replace the bank's loan with 2Buy another house 3

Redecorate the current house again4No matter how much money you make, it seems to have something to do with moneyFilial piety is good for the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, and it is good to take care of the children I gave birth to are plain and healthy.

My opinion is that it is becoming more and more difficult to make money now, and the secondary differentiation is too strong, especially for young people who make money much easier than me, the post-80s. And we are middle-aged, we don't have the energy, we don't have the good body. It's better to do your duty.

1.Must have an independent personality and thoughts. People who insist on wrong views after independent thinking are more worthy of recognition and encouragement than those who accept correct views without thinking. Don't fall prey to cramming education.

2.Everyone is destined to embark on one of the three paths of public service, business, and academia. When planning your career, you might as well use this as a starting point for thinking.

Strengthen their core competitiveness according to different career plans. Only by knowing what you want to do in the future can you know what you should learn.

3.There is no hot or cold in school, and there is no high or low school. No employer will consider you representative of your school or your major.

Don't be complacent because you're a prestigious university or a popular major, and don't feel inferior because your school is not good or your major is unpopular. Ability is more important than academic qualifications.

Summary. Choose your future: Today's people, some roads from childhood to adulthood are arranged by their parents, so you may have fewer detours, but are you really happy in your heart?

In fact, you can think clearly about which line of work you like, what you like to study, and what characteristics you have that can quickly gain a foothold in this industry. Whether it is suitable or not, only if you choose to do it, most people will take a detour at the beginning, unless it is arranged by their parents, then is this kind of life really meaningful, although it is said that doing a line of love and a line can sometimes be really difficult to do. His own future should be in his own hands, not in his hands.

Don't blindly see which line makes money fast, just choose, any line can make money, can have a future, the key is how to do it.

How to choose your future.

Choose your future: Today's people, some roads from childhood to adulthood are arranged by their parents, so you may have fewer detours, but are you really happy in your heart? In fact, you can think clearly about which line of work you like, what you like to study, and what characteristics you have that can quickly gain a foothold in this industry.

Whether it is suitable or not, only if you choose to do it, most people will take a detour at the beginning, unless it is arranged by their parents, then is this kind of life really meaningful, although it is said that doing a line of love and a line can sometimes be really difficult to do. His own future should be in his own hands, not in his hands. Don't blindly see which line makes money fast, just choose, any line can make money, can have a future, the key is how to do it.

After thinking clearly, just do it, do it steadily, don't think about climbing to the sky in one step, that kind of thing is simply impossible. Time will give you the answer, less whimsical, more practical, and improve yourself from the process.

If I had to choose another major, I would choose to major in International Business. International business is an economics major, including international marketing, international negotiation, international economic law, etc.

After being sent to university, I chose news management, but as a young student, I didn't really understand my interests and abilities, and I spent three years only learning the relevant knowledge of news management, but in the learning process, I gained very little, and it was not much help for career development.

When I think back to my original self, I can't help but sigh with regret. If I had the opportunity to choose a major again at that time, I would certainly not hesitate to choose the major of International Business.

The reasons are as follows: First of all, international business is an economics major, mainly studying international marketing, international negotiation, international management and other international economic activities, learning this major can help me master some international economic knowledge, and lay a solid foundation for future career development; Secondly, the major of international business not only involves economics, but also closely integrates some other social science knowledge, such as foreign policy, international politics, international law, etc., which can help me not only learn economics, but also have a deeper understanding of international economic issues. Thirdly, the major of international business is very suitable for my interests, I have a strong interest in international economic markets, international rules, international investment, etc., as well as the obsession of research and practice, therefore, I will be able to favor this subject more, study with enthusiasm, and thus have more fun; Fourth, the employment prospects of international business majors are also very broad, and I believe that I will have many more choices, such as being able to engage in international sales, marketing, international negotiation and other related work in foreign enterprises, foreign policy research and implementation in the first door, economic law and other work in ** and multinational companies, and professors, researchers and other scattered work in well-known universities.

Therefore, if I were given the opportunity to choose a new major, I would definitely choose the international business major to prepare myself to become a future social leader in China.

Always when you don't know what the world is like, you have the most and most simple expectations for the world. I want to be a scientist, I want to be a designer, I want to be an adventurer, I want to be a star.

But at that time, it never occurred to us whether these were things that we wanted to follow and achieve in our lifetime, so it was easy for us to lose these ideas as we grew up.

In the long time of growing up, there may have been many countless such thoughts, accompanying those sleepless times, allowing us to detach ourselves from reality and become the person we want to be.

Yu grew up, but Yu found that there are always many things in the world that will make you unable to become the person you want to be.

This includes yourself, because at least you have to know what kind of person you want to be.

But as I grew up, I seemed to have forgotten what kind of person I wanted to be and what kind of self I wanted to become. The time of confusion either makes people sink or make people think, and these thoughts will carry some pain. Because the shining self in my heart is still dim.

I have tried many times to change, but in the end I found that I had no choice but to start. Such a negative state is always very contagious and long-lasting.

It's hard to get out of this state by yourself, but it's not easy to meet someone to take you out. Because there are few such opportunities, and it is pitiful to put your hopes in others. But if you try it, you will find that if you don't have the determination to change, others can't pull you.

After all, no one can wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.

If it is to deceive yourself, how much courage and determination will it take to awaken yourself?

But one day, when you wake up from such a state, you may not know what kind of person you want to be, but you slowly understand what kind of person you don't want to be. In fact, you already have some directions, to explore in those places that you are interested in, but the current world is developing too fast, maybe today you want to do this, tomorrow you want to do that. It doesn't matter if this happens, isn't it just to waste in this life?

If you are lucky enough to find what you love, you are the luckiest!

So be it! If there is a career you want to learn about, leave your current career and the career you want to do here. If you have time, let's write an article about you and your career, and maybe one day you and I will find our favorite and have the opportunity to achieve it.

The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Chapter 4

This principle is very similar to the future self mentioned in the previous course, that is, we are required to demand the present every day with the imaginary self, every word and deed now, and every move is required by our future goals and missions, so that we can also quickly self-awareness and reflection, and be sure that our daily behavior is contrary to the future self, and we will strive towards our goals every day, and dare not slack off.

The operation steps mentioned in the book are two-step:

1. Ideas in the mind, i.e., intellectual or first creation.

2. Put into practice, i.e. the physical strength of the mountain or the second creation.

This reminds me of when I used to participate in the open class competition, when I was preparing for the course process the day before, I would rehearse the scene of the second question in my brain, the teacher's questions, the students' responses, the time spent in each link, etc., the more detailed I thought, the smoother the next day, and I would not be too worried about emergencies, and I could be flexible, and this process was actually created for the first time.

Extending to life, we must also learn to consciously rehearse our future life in our minds, the more detailed and specific it is, the easier it is to operate, and we will not lose ourselves because of others.

It can also face external pressures, influences and constraints calmly. This kind of imagination helps us to practice the unreleased potential, what kind of person you want to become, the role in your career, the role in the family, the role in the parent-child relationship, if you can imagine and rehearse it in detail, when you encounter specific setbacks in life, you will use the right values and attitudes to determine your own direction and approach, and will not be easily affected by emotions or external circumstances.

Then in the process of practice, you need to distinguish between whether you are a leader or a manager?

The key to success, or even survival, is not how hard you work, but whether you are working in the right direction. Privacy, we need to strive to improve our thinking, in fact, it means that we have to have a clear vision, purpose, a set of principles and guidelines, rather than the idea of solving problems and solving problems, if we are just busy solving difficulties, in fact, it is in vain.

In the process of defining our mission, we make a lot of mistakes.

The book mentions spousal-centeredness: emotional overdependence can occur.

Family-centered: Causes children to be more dependent or rebellious.

Money-centric: Unable to bear the variables of wealth.

Work-focused: Anything that gets in the way of work will affect your sense of security.

Fame and fortune at the center: erratic self-perception and self-evaluation.

Centered on enemies or friends: There is no inner security and being led by others.

Religion-centered: hypocrisy, self-denial is power itself.

Self-centered: selfish, only taking, not giving.

The most correct is the principle-centered: constant, timeless, profound, real, rational rather than emotional.

The right principles give us a clear picture of where we want to be and how we can achieve it.