I felt like I had lost the courage to face the future and had failed. 10

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    At this time, you can't give up, and you have to have confidence in yourself. Don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about face, the most important thing for you now is to pay off your debts. You can go for a job, don't care about the salary, a little bit is money, you can even go to an hourly job to start, and that's how success comes from.

    The knife is not sharpened, and the person is not sharpened. Those who torment you, those who look at you strangely, whether they are good or malicious. It's they who make you grow, mature, and succeed!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friend, have you heard of Liu Huan's starting all over again? The current failure is not a failure, it is to pave the way for your success, and you think in turn, what's wrong with you? Ever thought about those who didn't go to school, who were disabled,。。

    Don't be too pessimistic in life, be optimistic. There is a saying that when you are feeling down, don't be pessimistic because it is temporary. When you're in a good mood, don't be too happy, because it's also temporary!

    So, look at things calmly, although I haven't experienced your experience firsthand, I can understand your feelings! Rising up from failure is called success. People don't have a smooth life, you have to adapt to society, and society will never adapt to you!

    There is no tragedy and comedy in the world, if you come out of tragedy, it is comedy, if you indulge in comedy, then it is tragedy. Gain calmly, lose indifferently, go with the flow, fight for its inevitability!! Good luck, friend

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, I feel sorry for you inexplicably, you are still so young, you must be a handsome guy, you have seen it, they are giving you encouragement, I don't know what to say, in short, it's not a big deal, there are many people who love you, including me, I only have support for you, come on, just live happily.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, you are much better than me, I am a tired and tired worker, but I firmly believe in myself and the future!

    Listen to the song "Start Again" by Teacher Liu Huan.

    If the heart is there, the dream is there.

    There is still true love between heaven and earth!

    Look at success or failure and be heroic in life.

    It's just a ...... to start all over again

    I don't want you to make me despise!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are still so young, and the debt is not astronomical, don't lose confidence, most of the qualities of perseverance are forged in adversity, a manly man stands up to the sky, don't lose confidence in life casually.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you feel like everything is quietly leaving you now? Repression. Wrath. Depressed. I'm just like you. Some time ago, Dad lost a lot of money. I also went to work, and I was so tired in the face of the cruelty of society.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Congratulations, you're about to have a free ** meal to eat, and you can't divorce your boyfriend to make, so you have to confess everything yourself! @

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Suddenly, I felt that people were really pathetic animals. As we get older, we begin to gradually lose the courage that we had in those years. When we are young, we have capital, we have youth, we have time, so we can use these again and again as the price of courage or recklessness.

    Then, we found that these were becoming less and less, so we became more and more cautious, and lost some of the courage that we could have made impulsive decisions back then. In this way, we can no longer be desperate. Words like "without scruples" have also gradually withdrawn from our minds.

    Our actions and our thoughts begin to become more and more distant, and what we think in our hearts has long been unable to do. I had to watch as the ideas of the year turned yellow, brittle, and shattered......Sometimes I think that people who are in a hurry in the city actually have many different ideas buried in their hearts, some people may want to be chefs, some people want to skydive for their eternal career, and some people just need to do handicrafts every day. However, these can only be stored in a corner of the heart, and then continue to walk.

    The lyrics of "Courage" are nostalgic for the willful courage at the ends of the earth: finally made this decision.

    As long as you're just as sure.

    I would like to go with you to the ends of the earth.

    I know it's not easy.

    My mind has been reviewing to convince myself.

    I'm most afraid that you will suddenly say that you want to give up.

    Love really takes courage to face gossip.

    As long as you look at it for sure.

    My love has meaning.

    We all need courage.

    To believe that we will be together.

    The crowds are crowded, I can feel you.

    Put your sincerity in the palm of my hand.

    If my strength is willful.

    will accidentally hurt you.

    Can you gently remind me that although my heart is too anxious, I am more afraid of missing you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You also have a lot less risk of being "shot in the head", hehe, there is nothing wrong with that. Life and career are better to go with the flow, to know how to appreciate yourself, don't do it deliberately, after all, everything has gains and losses.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What has been lost has been lost, but there are still many opportunities, since we have found the crux of the problem, we are determined to correct it and seize the opportunities that follow.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Have faith in yourself, even if no one is sure of you, learn to believe in yourself.

    It doesn't matter if you lose the opportunity, the important thing is that you can seize the next opportunity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Opportunities are fought for by yourself, if you don't express yourself, how will others know about you? You don't even have the courage to try, where does success come from? If you try, you have a 50% chance of success, on the contrary, if you don't try, then 100% of the time you will fail!

    Only by believing in yourself can you make others believe in you; On the other hand, if you don't have the confidence to believe in yourself, will others dare to believe you? Opportunities will not be left to you, be brave and give yourself courage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I used to do the same, but then I exercised myself and forced myself to get better, in fact, you think that other people see you, it's your own feelings, don't think so much, just do what you want.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, you have to position yourself, understand yourself, and be calm in the face of things, and you will become a great tool.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Have the courage to face everything instead of choosing to run away. Fate does not sympathize with those who do not have courage. Only yourself, yourself, yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As soon as the heart is horizontal, it's good to let it go.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be brave, be positive, and seize your own opportunities.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you go and participate in some activities to present yourself in front of the public, and you will be rewarded.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Learning to Act 1 can help you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't care about other people's feelings, a person is afraid to decide to do something or have the courage to do it, mainly because you are afraid that others will gossip about you or you are afraid of failure or being hurt. So, follow your heart! Don't care too much about other people's eyes!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    To give yourself confidence, keep saying in your heart, I can do it, I can do it, this will greatly improve my confidence.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Courage is not given by others, take a good look at your heart, see what you really need, you will create opportunities by yourself, live yourself, and you don't need to show it to anyone, just be enriched.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, it's not that you're not good enough, it's just that you're good at or used to hiding your thoughts and only sharing them with yourself, so you've developed such a habit over time, it's not a lack of courage, it's just a habit, you have to be good at changing, maybe you can try to express your own views from the smallest thing, the thing you feel is the best to grasp, to show yourself, as long as you get the affirmation of others, you will behave more and more, and the performance is not as difficult as you imagined, only personal opinionsand try it yourself. There will be unexpected receipts.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you're a girl and can't say anything, write to him and tell him. But you have to get to know him so that you can be sure that what you like is who you are. It is appropriate to see his shortcomings first and then his strengths ...

    If you're a boy, be responsible and have the courage to give it a try. Flowers can be folded straight and must be folded, do not wait for no flowers and empty branches @

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then take courage to face it, provided that you have the strength.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Show your own courage, as long as you face it bravely, absolutely no one will call you a coward.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Dear Friend:

    Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember to talk about bad living, suffering, and being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, it is the most valuable experience in your life

    What you have to do is to accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, tolerance of great excavation, fraternity, even the most painful thing, filial piety.

    Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

    Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

    You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

    I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

    So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

    For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

    Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

    So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

    In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life!

    Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

    There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

    So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.

    Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

    May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)

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