How can I dispel him?

Hehe, being a man is all about looking forward, I don't know if you have a new boyfriend. If you have, it's only your new boyfriend, not your ex, who is the saddest thing to do. Decide to let go, why do you have to look back, besides, if you want to dispel the idea, it's very simple, change your mobile phone number, turn off the phone when you sleep, rest assured, you are not an important person in the country, there is no news that you have to pick up ** information in the middle of the night, or directly say to him, "Get out," Well, although it is direct, this will be good for you in the future.

If you have a new boyfriend, how do you think he will think of you when he finds out? Men's generosity is superficial, especially girlfriends, and men who are generous in this regard must not be serious about their feelings. You have to think about it.

Actually, I'm someone like him, except that I occasionally send a message. Never got a reaction.

Just ignore him. He usually has a thirst for every text message you send. If you don't respond to him, then he will be lost for a while.

At the same time, if you avoid him in life, then he has only 2 results: 1. Change your mind. 2. Unrequited love like me.

...The landlord reminded me that I was like this.

But it's all in the past.

It's been like this for so long, which shows that he can't forget you.

Is he still with you and sees you often?

In fact, time and heart are the key.

Time will dilute everything, and he also needs to have a new direction or goal (the object of affection), which you can't do.

Keep it as it is and try to avoid him

Do you really not love him? If so, if you want to get rid of him, it's very simple, find another one! When he sees you in the future, he will know that he will retreat, otherwise you will be 'dangerous'!

I didn't know him, and that's what I did, and I won. Successfully dumped him.

Women also have to be a little themselves sometimes.

Say you've found a new boyfriend.

Don't you still like him a little?

Hello. First of all, it is necessary to say that life is precious, "Even if you die, you can't change anything, but if you live, you can change something." This sentence is given to you, I hope you can actively adjust your mentality, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you should try to face and solve, and cherish life.

Moreover, extreme emotional problems are not just what people often call "heart disease", on the contrary, many extreme emotions are pathological, that is, caused by the failure of the body's hormone glands, you can go to the relevant medical institutions for examination**. We sincerely hope that you will recover your physical and mental health soon.

But from another point of view, being able to imagine that some people and some situations may really be more painful than death does not support you to choose extreme solutions, but you can fully understand the suffering you are experiencing. Therefore, I would like to offer you another solution: if you are over 18 years old and are already very sure of your extreme intentions, you can contact me by replying or sending me a private message, and perhaps try to solve your problem through another unconventional way.

In addition, due to the different reasons for each person and spine to have extreme thoughts, there may be more people in need of help at the same time, and the limited ability cannot take care of everyone, so only some of the cases that are very suitable for the trial can be selected, please understand in advance. The solution mentioned above is unconventional and experimental in nature, and I will inform you in advance, and the specific information will be explained to you in detail at that time.

If there is anything lacking, communicate with your family, listen to your family's thoughts, you must think a little opener, see a little lighter, there is no one who can't get by, tomorrow will be better, you must be brave to come out of the shortage, brave to face.

Everybody is everybody will have that kind of bad thoughts, negative thoughts. Even if he is a saint, a person who has been given the title of saint, he will have such bad thoughts. Why do I dare to say this, because as long as the concept of good and evil is marked out in our lives, the cognition of good thoughts will arise.

One of my favorite sayings is that when the water is clear, there are no fish. A person has lived in a very positive environment since he was a child, for example, she has been baptized in religion since she was a child, and believes that everyone should be good, then the degree of distortion in his heart when he grows up is much greater than that of normal people. Buddhism also has a saying that puts down the butcher's knife and becomes a Buddha.

How to interpret this sentence? There is a saying in life that you can only put it down if you can afford it, if you can't take it, how can you put it down?

There are a lot of strange thoughts in the human brain, not only negative, cruel, dark thoughts. There are all kinds of bizarre things. When a thought arises, you can adopt two attitudes, the first is good, I know.

That's all, and the second is why I have this thought, or even this thought to find its source and tell myself that it is the way it is. Don't try to suppress a thought. Suppression means that you have to use your energy and time, including your emotions, to suppress the generation of some negative thoughts, but you are like pressing a spring, you can't let go, as long as you let go, she will try her best.

There is a good saying, it is better to be blocked than to be sparse. The same is true of negative forces. You really face it, you turn it over and over and see through it, and he's just that.

Why is there a negative impact? It's because subconsciously it can't distinguish right from wrong, good from bad, as long as you give it to him, he accepts it. Then it will be generated, the dynamics that govern your actions and thoughts.

This is where the power of suggestion comes in. You can go find some books on this subject, there is a book called The Power of the Subconscious, which is still relatively good. You can take a look.

Then tell yourself that this is your own fantasy, don't be so pessimistic or divert your attention, and try to look at some positive things, positive things.

Hello, when there are bad thoughts, we must learn to analyze, judge and discern, that is, when the thoughts arise, immediately become vigilant, and know from the subjective consciousness that these thoughts are all bad and negative, when the bad thoughts are together, we must be immediately vigilant, and reject this bad thoughts, we can't go with the feelings, we can't go with the bad thoughts, why do some people say that some people are good people? Are some people bad people? It is because of whether we can distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, good and bad, beautiful and ugly, so this has become a watershed for good and bad.

If there is positive energy in the thought, then we should actively do it, if it is a bad thought, a bad thought, then we should try our best to eliminate it, reject it, not admit it, and subjectively, make ourselves more sober and rational, so that we can distinguish which is positive and which is negative. Only in this way can we train ourselves year after year, day after day, in order to make ourselves stronger spiritually, and in this way can we harvest our own spiritual wealth.

If it can help you, please give it a thumbs up, and I wish you a happy life

Kiss. Love.

Target. Friend. Friend. This must help, and this answer will tell you how our minds work!

I am my best psychiatrist.

You have to be happy and want to open up.

First of all, I wish you a happy mood every day, you must have a good mood, and the whole world will be happy in 2009!

I am honored to communicate with you sincerely and make you happy!!

I hope it inspires you and makes you happy;

People live in this world just to make themselves happier and happier.

Whether things are right or wrong, you should have your own unique thoughts and opinions, if you think it's worth it, you don't have to care about other people's opinions!

If there is a problem in our life, we must communicate or vent with our close friends!!

No matter what, we all have to live well;

It's all good to be optimistic, and life has to go on!!

Therefore, the most important thing is to regulate the state of mind. Contentment, really!!

First of all, let's relax yourself, have a balanced mind, and don't have too much burden on your heart!!

Don't always put unnecessary pressure on yourself, it's not cost-effective!!

Life is short, to live is to live a day, happy day by day, and want to open a little !!

Don't worry about yourself and yourself, the problems that can be solved by spending money are not problems!!

Don't complicate small problems, solve them right away if they are easy to solve!!

It's not wrong to entertain yourself when you're fine, play hard, play and play!!

Rediscover the innocence and joy of your childhood, even if it's just to recall the calendar in your mind.

Usually pay attention to sleep, rest your body, listen to a little more relaxed**, everything is OK!!

Life is beautiful, don't get lost, don't have the mentality of comparison.

I still have so many people who love you, why shouldn't you be happy, there is no reason not to be happy!!

There is no smooth sailing in life, everyone is, there is a rainbow after the wind and rain, so it makes sense!

Happy friends!

Keep your mind open!