How to educate a child who is naughty?

Naughty kids are smart.

Trouble, thanks!

Children are naughty, it's okay, it's really not okay to go to the hospital.

It's a good thing that a child is too naughty, because a naughty child appears more energetic. If you want to educate naughty children well, there are mainly the following ways:

1. Respect children. It is more conducive to the communication between the children and the children in order to educate.

2. Get to know your child. Only by understanding children's preferences can we know what children think and what they need.

3. Communicate with your child in an appropriate way. If you don't use the right way to communicate, it's likely that your child will alienate someone because of it.

4. Make friends with your children. Make friends with your child, and gradually educate your child in the process of making friends, and your child will receive such an education.

When children play together, there will inevitably be small quarrels and even fights. Whether these children are biological siblings or just ordinary playmates, they are likely to quarrel and fight over trivial matters, and often there are people crying and complaining. So what should parents do at this time?

This is a very challenging and artistic question. To put it simply, it is necessary to analyze the situation on a case-by-case basis.

1. No matter what the situation, first of all, please keep your calm, if there is a child injured, deal with the child's injury first, give the injured child comfort, don't humiliate him, such as "Look, I told you not to play with anyone, if you don't listen to me, you will be beaten like this, you really deserve it!" ”。Humiliating a child in this way can seriously hurt the child's self-esteem, especially when other children are present, which can lead to the formation of psychological shadows and even fear of socializing with others, leading to the child's isolation, and in severe cases, even social phobia or other psychological disorders.

2. Secondly, we should focus on the child's emotional feelings first, rather than the event itself. Maybe the real thing is small, but your child is crying and running to you. At this time, you should first pay attention to the child's grievances and painful emotional feelings of being bullied, instead of scolding the child to make the child stop crying immediately and ask what happened to the child, who bullied or was beaten ** or robbed of something, etc., not to mention that the child cried and ran to beat and scold another child without saying a word.

Because of this, it is easy for children to form the impression that "my feelings are not important", which will let the door of communication between the child and you gradually close, and easily teach another child before you figure out what is really happening, which will not only hurt the child you are teaching, but also is likely to make the child crying for help form a dependent psychology and develop a timid and fearful character.

Children between the ages of 2 and 6 are in the exploratory stage, so they often do things that parents and teachers feel are "wrong". But in the child's heart, there is no wrong or right, he just wants to try it for himself.

This kind of attempt helps children's hands-on ability and exploration ability, and parents and teachers must not blame children too much.

Naughty children are particularly rebellious! When he does something wrong, if he just blindly reprimands and scolds, the effect can only be counterproductive. Just like the child mentioned by the subject, because of the "blind reprimand" of the teachers, the child will become more and more indifferent and more naughty.

At this time, if we don't scold and reprimand him, but just keep silent and ignore him, the child's psychology will become tense and he will rethink the mistakes he made.

This not only gives the child a period of time to calm down his mind, but also allows parents and teachers to calm down from the outburst, and talk to him later, because the child has already reviewed his mistakes, and the teacher and parents can communicate with the child calmly. At this time, children can calmly accept the opinions of teachers and parents, and achieve a relaxed and pleasant communication experience.

Although children are young, their self-esteem is also very strong, especially naughty children.

As teachers and parents, we should try to find out the best in them to encourage them to improve. Generally speaking, naughty children are mostly smart, energetic, and have strong language skills, etc. As long as they are well guided, they tend to be more productive.

We should not be stingy with our words and expressions, but show them our love in many ways. Even if it is just a knowing smile, a word of concern, and a few kind touches, it will make them feel that "the teacher and parents still love me, and I should listen to the teacher".

Children are like a mirror of a family, and what kind of family is easy to cultivate. Therefore, for the education of naughty children, more attention should be paid to the important link of home-school contact.

Starting from the family, learn about the family environment of the naughty child, the quality of the parents, and the ways and methods of educating the child. Through a variety of channels such as home visits, parent questionnaires, and contact, teachers and parents work together to educate naughty children. On this basis, we should be targeted, complement each other's advantages, and form the best synergy.