I m tired of 30 with my girlfriend, and I m tired of being with my girlfriend

Do you think there is true love between you? You're just too lonely and lonely to be together. If you are tired of it, choose to break up. You are all adults who should know how to do it? --Psychologist answers.

Men just like the new and hate the old.

The faster things come the faster they go.,Although I'm not used to seeing people like the landlord.,But that woman is so casual.,It's not a good thing!

If you don't want to be together, change it, or find someone to stand on the wall, and then light a cigarette, think about it, do you still want to be with her, and then, didn't someone say: Xiao Bisheng is newly married, or you run out to go around alone for a few days, don't try with her?

Summary: The above feels that you are completely immersed in the physiology of the body, and you need each other, and there is no love at all!

It's better to divide it early, it's good for you and for her!

Why take it seriously! If you don't like it, you get rid of it....

We often hear people say this: love begins with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character.

These three sentences illustrate the three stages of love, and at the same time reveal the true meaning of love.

What should I do if I get tired of being a couple for a long time?

Don't separate for the time being.

Couples are tired of getting along for a long time, so they don't separate for a while.

A small farewell is better than a newlywed, and the feelings of couples will be deeper when they get together after a small farewell.

However, Xiaobie is not a separation or a separation, but a method taken in order to eliminate the dull period of affection in the case of maintaining normal contact.

When separating, we should pay attention to three points:

1. Correctly understand the significance of the separation of small things. Don't use the separation as an excuse for separation;

The second is to choose the right time for the separation of small parts. When they just entered the flat period of the relationship or got tired, the two began to separate after discussing and agreeing;

The third is to correctly grasp the time of separation of small and small people. The separation time should not be too long, no more than two weeks.

Focus on cultivating hobbies.

It is to cultivate a common hobby and deepen the relationship in the common hobby.

Couples can list all of their hobbies and then merge them.

Among the remaining hobbies, the two agreed on a consensus and formed a common hobby.

You can study together or travel together;

You can go for a run together, you can go hiking together, and so on.

There are three things that need to be grasped to cultivate a common hobby:

First, the common hobby must be elegant and positive;

Second, the common hobby must be safe and conducive to physical health;

Third, common hobbies must be long-term and conducive to close affection.

In the common hobby, learn from each other, help each other, and constantly enhance the relationship.

Focus on creating a romantic atmosphere.

Couples are tired of getting along for a long time, so they should pay attention to creating a romantic atmosphere in their lives and increasing the freshness of life.

A seemingly ordinary little thing, if you add a romantic element, will give people a refreshing feeling.

For example, when you take a walk together to enjoy the beautiful scenery, you can hold a bouquet of flowers that you have prepared in advance to each other;

At dinner together, the lights flickered, and the colorful lights accompanied by a gentle serenade suddenly sounded;

On the way back from watching a movie together, gently hold each other's faces, say I love you, and so on.

A seemingly small idea, a seemingly inadvertent move, may give the other party a small surprise, and it will make the relationship between you deeper and deeper.

Pay attention to the sense of ritual in life.

It is to pay attention to living an ordinary and ordinary life meaningfully, and to have a sense of awe for life.

Couples have been together for a long time, and they feel that life is dull and boring, and in order to enhance their relationship, they must pay attention to the sense of ritual in life.

Pay attention to the sense of ritual in life need to grasp three points:

The first is to pay attention to the details of life and reflect the value of life from the subtleties;

the second is to pay attention to personal cultivation and reflect the rich connotation from speech and demeanor;

The third is to pay attention to birthday celebrations, and reflect the meaning of life from birthdays, anniversaries and other festivals.

Paying attention to the sense of ritual in life can allow couples who have been together for a long time to find the artistic conception of poetry and distance in ordinary ordinary days, and find the confidence and courage to continue to move forward hand in hand.

After two people get along for a long time, they will naturally feel tired. At this time, you have to think deeply to see whether the two people are suitable or not?

If it's not suitable, separate, and if it feels appropriate, accept this ordinary life.

Restore contact first cut off contact, and then improve your image, including your external clothing, hairstyle, and figure, as well as your inner mentality, speech, and sense of humor.

Personally, I think we need to keep a distance, distance produces beauty, and we will definitely feel tired of staying together for a long time every day, so we need to keep a proper distance at this time, give each other some space to miss, and when we see each other again, we may have a feeling of being separated for a long time, and it may accelerate the relationship.

When a relationship has no freshness, it will be bored, and at this time, you must find a way to maintain the relationship and make him fresh. But if two people really have no feelings, then break up, so get together and disperse.

It's not that you can't ask for it. Some people are destined to accompany you on a journey, but not for a lifetime. Missed the sunset. And the sky is full of stars. Life is full of regrets, and the sky will always be bright.

After a long time in love, many people will feel tired, at this time it is actually that you have reached a period of exhaustion, and it is also a test for you, but often many couples choose to let go at this time, and anyone will be tired of being with a person for a long time, even if you change someone, you will be tired after a long time, so really smart people will learn to adjust, rather than let go.

If your girlfriend is tired of being with you, it means that she has a new love or no longer loves you, and it will be difficult to recover at this time, and getting together and dispersing may be the only solution.

If this kind of thing happens, you should still let your girlfriend and you be separated for a while, the two of you should still think about your relationship, if you can accept it, then slowly stick to getting along, you will definitely be able to change your mind.

At this time, I'm afraid that she will get tired of it, and then you will get tired of it.

Because, the more this time, the more we must maintain each other's feelings, take the initiative to face this problem, and strive to pass quickly.

So, this is not an excuse to let go, it is a test for both of you!

It's normal to get tired of it, it depends on how you bring her freshness, life is already dull, and you two have to adjust it yourself.

1. Impatience.

When she starts to dislike you, no matter what you say or do, she will find you annoying, and even sometimes worry about you on some small things, and lose her temper with you, and you don't know that you are wrong**.

2. Ignore your feelings.

No matter what she does or says, she doesn't care about your feelings, she talks to herself, treats you like a wooden person, can't speak and doesn't feel, so she does whatever she likes, and doesn't think about you at all.

Ways to coax a girlfriend:

1. Apologize. Whether it's your fault or her fault, you can't go down in the cold war or freeze, because girls are unreasonable When you are angry, a woman's IQ changes gradually, and if you want to break up after a long cold war, apologize first, and then wait until the emotions ease down, and she will reflect on herself.

2. Hug tightly behind your back. Be careful not to push too hard so as not to hurt your girlfriend, even if she struggles, don't let go, and when the mood stabilizes, you will feel your care for her.

3. Speak humorously. Humorous people are always funny, and they always make people angry, so your girlfriend won't be too angry, and your girlfriend will be happy when you speak.

1. Replying to messages is getting slower and slower, and more and more perfunctory

A person can disguise his relationship with you on the surface, but the attitude that is unintentionally revealed can best tell you where you are in his heart. In the past, the second was back, and now it is reincarnated, and the reply to the message is not the answer to the question, but you may no longer be in his heart.

There is no ordinary person who is so busy that he doesn't have time to reply to messages all day long, and the real reason is just because he doesn't like you anymore and doesn't want to be with you anymore. From the small matter of replying to messages, you can see a person's sincerity, and you can also see whether a person has changed his mind.

2. I don't want to spend time with you

In the past, he was by your side wherever you went, even if he didn't like to do things or places he didn't want to go, he would accompany you to take care of you.

And if one day, he starts to excuse himself from you, always says that he is tired, always says that he is busy, always has endless meals, but does not leave time for you, then you must understand that he may no longer need you in his life.

We are all saying that good love needs to be accompanied by each other, and if the companionship is gone, then how much love can be left.

3. Don't let you touch his phone

Although everyone has their own little secrets, it is better not to hide many things between couples so as not to cause unnecessary conflicts. When a person has a ghost in his heart, or has his own other little Jiujiu in the relationship, the mobile phone will become his most sensitive factor, in the past, maybe you could play with his mobile phone casually, but now as long as you touch it, you will be anxious, and you will say that you don't know how to respect other people's privacy.

The first point is that there will be no second reply to the message.

In fact, everyone knows that if two people love each other, there must be endless words between them, and when they see each other's messages, they will definitely reply in seconds. Even expect a response from a lover. This just shows that you care about her very much.

But if she doesn't reply to your messages in seconds, once or twice, maybe it's because of other things, but if you don't send messages for a long time, something must be wrong.

The second point is to say good night early.

As mentioned above, two people in love are actually endless words, people often play games or chat all night, and the first thing they do when they wake up every morning is to say good morning to their beloved. But if she often excuses me by saying, I'm tired, I'm going to rest early. You understand her, but you don't know that she is moving away from you, so be careful.

Thirdly, I don't want to go out with you anymore.

Dating is a common occurrence in love, and it can be said that it is very pleasant for lovers to get together and get to know each other through small things such as eating and watching movies.

You can share the little things in life together, and usually dating is something that both parties like and are happy to do. If your girlfriend rejects such a thing, be sure to ask carefully about the reason, if it is because of other things to delay, it is understandable, if it is often like this, then you have to find the reason.

Fourth, stop sharing the little things in life with you.

Lovers have countless things to say every day, and every little thing in life will be taken out to share their feelings with each other. But if you find that the girl is gradually no longer willing to share her life with you, ** opinions on something. Then it means that she has begun to slowly transfer you out of her life, and the best way to do this is to choose communication.

I think my girlfriend is tired of you, she is annoyed when she sees you, and she doesn't pay attention to you, and she doesn't talk to you like to talk like she used to, she always loves to answer, no matter what you do for him, he finds reasons to say that you are not doing it right, these are all manifestations that your girlfriend is tired of you.

I just don't care about you, and I avoid you intentionally or unintentionally! She doesn't like to listen to you anymore, she doesn't care so much about you, and annoys you intentionally or unintentionally, which means that your girlfriend is a little tired, and it's okay at this time! You can find an excuse to leave for a few days and see if your girlfriend contacts you often in the few days you are away!

Frequently contact you to show that your girlfriend still loves you, she still misses you when you are not around, and it doesn't matter if the two of you have been together for too long and are a little tired.

The girlfriend is starting to get tired of it, which is manifested in being irrational and depressed, and she wants to avoid you and be quiet on her own.

I don't like makeup, I don't like to wear perfume, I don't even like to wash my hair, I talk to you absent-mindedly, I don't like to go to your house, and the time to chat is slow to reply.

With his girlfriend, if he says he starts to get tired of it, what will it be? Then he won't care about you, he won't care about what you wear or what you eat.

This is very easy to do, because as long as you give her a desire to indulge, if you always follow her, then she will not take you seriously, so I advise you to calm down.

Are you tired of your girlfriend or is your girlfriend tired of you, you can make it clear.

In short, it lacks freshness, I don't know how to be romantic, and I have lost my attraction to be together often.

So it's best to go on a trip together to see unfamiliar cities and unfamiliar landscapes, so that there is a common topic.

Remember to give her a gift she likes, I think she will be happy with you.