I can t forget a love and like to be in love with the old. Is it appropriate for someone who is old

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you miss your old lover, how can you love your wife with all your heart??? Then it doesn't seem fair to you or her, maybe it will hurt her inadvertently, no matter how old you are, it's a thing of the past, try to look at the person in front of you who has spent your life with you, she is the person you should be nostalgic for When you are letting go of her, it is better to get married again, it is good for you and her. Be with her wholeheartedly That kind of love, marriage is happy Come on

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This can't just determine whether you are in love or not, whether you are in love or not. Whether it is suitable depends on the two of you together, whether you can feel happy, love may be available to everyone, love old can only mean that you are comparing or you are not finding a better than you used to be, this is just a process of mentality, I believe you will slowly be realistic under the chase of time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How doesn't it fit! I'm nostalgic for the old days, but I'm still married! The most important thing is that after getting married, you must know that everything is in the past, the past is just a memory, and the present is beautiful!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Anyway, as far as I'm concerned, I don't want to marry someone like that. Because I'm afraid that he will always look for other people's shadows in me, and always think about others when he is with me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends, but you can't always remember the past so that we can better meet the right person at the right time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How inappropriate.

    I've practiced it too.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Always living in the past and unable to embrace the future.

    1. Nostalgia: nostalgia for the past or the deceased. In short, nostalgia is about remembering the past.

    Old things, old people, old homes, and lost years are the most common themes of nostalgia. Nostalgia is a mood, and it may become a philosophy, but it does become a fad. Nostalgia is an analgesic that soothes the torment of human beings caused by the nature of liking the new and hating the old.

    Old"For urbanites in the new era, it is in a different sense"New"。Nostalgia is a way to reduce stress, but it is easy to become addictive, just like going from a painful place to a leisurely place to relax, after a long time, you will often go to relax, slowly become addicted, and unable to extricate yourself into a kind of pathological nostalgia.

    2. Restorative nostalgia: Restorative nostalgia focuses on the "old" and always tries to restore old things, concepts or habits. This group of people does not consider themselves or their actions to be nostalgic.

    3. Reflective nostalgia: Reflective nostalgia focuses on "nostalgia". Figuratively speaking, it is more like a person wandering on the ruins, trying to reconstruct the lost time in his mind, reproducing the image of old objects, people, ideas or habits.

    For example, Yapeng is trying to create a long-term blog technique to facilitate reflective nostalgia.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Nostalgia is the same as being a human being - there are two sides, and nostalgia is no more than this, there are good and bad things. For feelings, nostalgia proves that you are not attentive and single-minded; For work, your performance will only remain the same, and you will not make a big difference, and it will also give people a bad feeling, that is, you are not growing, very lazy, and have no ambitions, so you will often be ignored by others; The interpersonal aspect will also be bad, others will think that you are very scared and can't keep up with the shooting, and then it will make you form a generation gap with others, and it will be difficult to get along, so you will lose a lot of good friends, and over time, you will feel very lonely and empty, and then there will be a psychological imbalance, which will make you fall into a haze. In contrast, you should break this bad habit.

    If you want to express yourself, you have to take this step and go to a place where there is light, in order to see your own shadow, people with great ambitions must make a difference, you have to be brave to fight, to fight, words have to say: three points are predestined, seven points rely on hard work, love to fight to win. As long as you have faith, there is nothing you can't do, come on!

    Show your other side well, and learn to release yourself so that you can live a little more chic and happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't you think it's good to be nostalgic? I'm also a very nostalgic person, and when I meditate, I occasionally think about the past.

    is nostalgic for the old, but cherishes the memories that have gone in the bottom of his heart, because only he knows the real 、、、 that memory is still fresh

    Nostalgia for the old is the truest of human nature. Because of nostalgia for the beauty of the past, I still look forward to the beautiful 、、、 today

    People who are nostalgic are always the kindest, and they will try to protect the people around them, because they have also gone through sad 、、、

    People who love the old will always be grateful, because only they know: thank you for it!!

    It's just that no matter how reluctant we are in our hearts, it has become a thing of the past, no matter how attached we are to the moonlight tonight, but tomorrow's sun will still replace everything tonight. Therefore, we can only cherish yesterday forever, because we still want to be attached to today's 、、、

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a good thing to pay attention to feelings and make friends. But it's not a good thing for innovation. Because you deal with things a lot with emotion.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Look at the nostalgia from that aspect, people usually recall the sweet happiness of the road they have traveled, and there is nothing wrong with that, there is a saying that forgetting the past means betrayal. However, nostalgic people are prone to sadness and often fall into the ravine of memories, which affects their mood. It will make you feel bad if you are not careful.

    I think what has passed is always past, and it's just memories. It is better to cherish all the happiness in front of you than anything else. In fact, former friends are all the same in each other's hearts, but they are not as obvious as you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Nostalgia is often an escape from the present and the future, such as me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Have you contributed or have you never contributed? is from.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    People who miss the old are not happy after all, so they still have to be chic.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's good to be in love with the old, and I like people who are very single-minded.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summer Nanting Huaixin Da (Meng Haoran).

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A person who loves the old is a long-term lover in a way. But if it is emotional, nostalgia will only torment and hurt oneself and the other party. A person who misses other things is really a good person, and he must be able to afford to let go of his feelings.

    There is no one in this world who says that he cannot live without another person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Many times we can be loved by 2 people at the same time, and we can love 2 people at the same time, but unfortunately, we can only spend old age with one of them.

    Life is never so complete, if you really love and love, you don't have to deliberately forget. I'm telling you now, don't think about a pink pig with wings, what will happen to you, you must think about this pig.

    So you don't need to rely on other forces, time is always the best ** teacher, one day you inadvertently think of him and you will smile, then maybe the memories with him are the beautiful scenery in your life!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think so, you just found a certain kind of substitute, just filled the void you want in your heart True love still won't forget. If it is unfair to a third party to do so, and there is no reason for a person to be a substitute for anyone, do you think about his feelings when you choose. It's not fair to you or to him.

    Furthermore, whether you have really forgotten your previous love, don't accept anyone easily when you haven't forgotten, because in the end it is you who will be hurt.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What can really ** you is neither a new love nor time, but understanding.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What can really ** you is neither a new love nor time, but understanding.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I can't, but at least I won't make myself uncomfortable when I think about it again, only the clouds are light and the wind is light.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Time can dilute everything, and starting a new love can forget the old love a little faster!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Maybe it's possible, but it still depends on whether the individual can come out of it.

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