How sad the average boy will be after a breakup

It's like if you ask me if a boy will vomit after drinking, everyone's attitude towards feelings is different, and the psychological process experienced after the breakup is also different, if this relationship is unforgettable for him, then he may also be heartbroken when breaking up, but if the other party only treats this relationship as a game to play, in the end it is just like playing a game and finally quitting, there is no special feeling, this is very realistic, boys' breakups are more realistic than girls.

How many people feel that breaking up is a painful thing in their youth, it's just a joke in a TV series, and in real life, when they break up, two people may be annoyed with each other, and they can't wait to break up tomorrow, or that breaking up is already an unlock of a cage for two people, and this relationship has long been no longer necessary, and breaking up is just a relief for each other, so that each other can more freely put down their burdens to face the future life. Maybe this is what everyone calls a peaceful breakup, there is no need for such a breakup, and there is no possibility of sadness, and both of them are relaxed.

I remember when I broke up with my boyfriend, the two of us didn't have much to say, just because of a sentence that the two of us never contacted each other anymore, and then we couldn't block each other, and our relationship was like a whale stranded on the shore, gradually rotting and stinking, and finally forgotten. The two of us are in a long-distance relationship, a long-distance relationship for a long time, and we don't have a common language at all, and then I said: I'll go to your city to find you, right?

Not all breakups are painful, and some are an end to an unnecessary relationship.

As a boy, after a boy breaks up, he will definitely be very sad within three days, which will make them feel extremely empty, and they will also regret thinking about their girlfriend's goodness.

After the boy breaks up, it becomes very difficult, and he is not confident in love, and then he has a lot of doubts in his heart, so he loses confidence in love.

It's not too sad, and you can find a better one after a breakup, so you won't be sad.

Boys will be quite sad after breaking up, they will use alcohol to kill their sorrows, and they will do some extreme things.

Boys are certainly not as sad as girls, because boys are more sensible, and after a period of time, they will be brave enough to face a relationship.

I can't think about it, I think that the relationship between two people is so good, I shouldn't break up, sometimes I don't think about tea and dinner, and I can't sleep all night.

You may not think about it for a few days and nights, and you will be very painful, and you may even have thoughts of death.

Generally speaking, boys who take the initiative to break up are genuine breakups, because boys are more rational, and every decision they make is well thought out.

His feelings for you at the time of the breakup.

Assume two scenarios. A kind of boy still loves a girl very much, but is unilaterally broken up by a girl, then it is conceivable that the boy must be painful and unwilling to reconcile after breaking up.

The second is that the boy already has no feelings, and he has the idea of breaking up on his own initiative, and it just happens that the girl brings it up, and it is just in the middle of the heart, and there will be no emotional waves.

The situation of his life after the breakup.

Assume two extreme cases. First, after the boy broke up, he was promoted and raised, socially rich, and made new girls, and his conditions were better than those of his predecessor in all aspects, so he naturally did not have any nostalgia for the past.

The second is that all aspects of the boy's breakup are not smooth, and occasionally he encounters the pursuit of the girl he likes and is repeatedly frustrated, and the family is forced to get married, so he may remember the good of his ex in the dead of night, and regret the decision he made at the beginning.

Your life situation after a breakup.

Assume two extremes. First, after the breakup, the girl realized her shortcomings in the past relationship, changed her mind and invested her energy in herself, and her image, career, mentality, and social interaction have made great progress.

The second is that after the breakup, the girl cries and can't get out, pesters the boy all day long, wants to die or live to redeem, and lives like the walking dead, so for the boy, it is even more repulsive, and he is glad that he broke up.

So since the decision to break up has been made, there is no need to care whether he is sad or not, and live his own life.

1. Men who shed tears after a breakup.

2. A man who still pays attention to you silently after a breakup.

3. After the breakup, his smoking frequency increased significantly.

4. He will only know how to cherish it after he loses, and realize that it is a big mistake to leave you, because of this, there is no opportunity to create opportunities to get back together, even if there is a 1% chance that he will take out 100% of his efforts to fight for it.

5. Borrowing wine to drown sorrow after a breakup, if it comes to the performance of true love after a man breaks up, how can he not borrow wine to drown his sorrow, in fact, a man borrows wine to drown his sorrow to express an emotion, just like a woman uses crying to express her emotions.

6. He will often choose to revisit the old place, just to find your footprints, so as to give his heart a kind of comfort, and it doesn't matter if the longitudinal thing is right or wrong.

7. He often dreams at night, and the protagonist of the dream is you every time, during which he will dream of doing a lot of pleasant things and going to a lot of interesting places.

8. Men have few real friends.

How sad a boy will be after breaking up, this is something you need to experience for yourself. Understand the sadness and pain. Because some sadness and pain are hard to say. Therefore, only you know the pain after the breakup, and only you know the sadness after the breakup.

How sad a boy will be after breaking up, this is something you need to experience for yourself. Understand the sadness and pain. Because some sadness and pain are hard to say. Therefore, only you know the pain after the breakup, and only you know the sadness after the breakup.

It doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl, after a breakup. The level of sadness. It depends on how deep the feelings are for the other person.

There is also what is the reason for the breakup. If the two themselves are very compatible. Whether it is forced to break up, or it is suddenly broken up, it must be difficult to come out, if it is because of each other's personalities.

The three views do not agree. The relative damage will be a little less, and the time to get out will be shorter.

Breaking up sounds like a very decisive word, and after that, it is to die and never get along, or to forget about each other. Women's emotions are more exposed, and they are used to complaining to friends, but this emotion, after venting it at the beginning, will be better, and the wound will heal better.

How sad the boy will be after breaking up, in fact, is not.

Everyone's attitude towards love is different. Some people think that love should be vigorous, and after breaking up, it should be decadent to the point that it can afford to let go at home, and after this period of time, he is still a good man. Some people also believe that love should be as plain as water, and the water should flow for a long time.

Even if you break up, you should be restrained and subtle, and wait until the final affection dissipates, which can be regarded as really letting go.

Both of these perceptions are true, because there is no one right answer to love. In a breakup, each boy has his own way of dealing with it after a breakup, and the time of sadness is not the same, but the most critical point is to cherish the present and not be too nostalgic for the past.

Stage 1: I'm finally free.

The biggest difference between men and women in love is the degree of devotion, men pay first and then enjoy, women enjoy first and then pay, so in the later stage of love, women will often wonder if men don't cherish what they get, so they unconsciously want to control men, but although men don't say it, their inner desire for freedom is increasing day by day.

Therefore, in the early stage of the breakup, they are like wild horses on the loose, and it is no exaggeration to say that they will even feel: "I am finally free!" ”

Put all the things you once restrained on the agenda: "I can finally play with my buddies until the early hours of the morning and not go home, I can finally stop reporting my whereabouts at any time, and I finally don't have to face the same person every day." ”

His free and easy is not only for indulgence, but also to "demonstrate" to you, wanting you to know that without you, I am still doing well, and men are sometimes so naïve. This is his way of relieving the pressure in his heart and quickly diverting his attention, whether he loves you or not, whether he wants to get back together or not, he will first numb himself with indulgence.

But this will make many girls misunderstand: why am I so sad, he seems to be nothing?

Stage 2: I'm going to find someone new.

According to Maslow's pyramid of needs, human needs are divided into several levels, including physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs, and self-actualization needs.

In terms of gender relations, it is a truth, after men regain their freedom, they still need the most basic physiological needs and social needs, of which love accounts for a large proportion of social needs, because each of us needs to love and be loved, and needs companionship and care, so when a relationship ends, because of the lack of "need for love" and "physical needs", they will be eager to find a new love.

Seeing this, you may be curious, so since they have all gone to find a new love, why do they want to get back together?

There are very few girls who can make themselves willing to pay and really like them.

When you pursue the object of your liking, you find that you are not attractive enough, and you have a big problem with yourself.

Breakup is what we don't want to see, the end of a relationship will definitely bring spiritual pain to both parties, many people say that they have been hurt after the breakup, resentful of each other, thinking about why it has come to this point? As everyone knows, from the beginning of this relationship, it is a matter of two people, in this process, the business is a personal matter for the two of you, so the moment it comes to the end, both parties are responsible, some girls say that boys will not be sad when they break up, thinking that they are all legendary iron hearts, will not have feelings, in fact, as long as it is a person, they will have feelings, and they are all red hearts, and they will be sad, but boys and girls express themselves in different ways, what you see is the surface, Do you see it when you're really sad? And because of personality differences, everyone will behave differently after a breakup, and these performances often reveal their inner feelings.

For example, people with strong personalities must also occupy an active position in the relationship, and the framework is located above their objects, and after a breakup, men with strong personalities often show "cold-blooded", "don't care", etc

When the boy first separated, the boy's mind was full of all kinds of bad things about girls, and all kinds of willingness for you to break up, so he didn't want to face it at this time, some boys even felt that they were free, very relaxed, and felt happy, at this time he would do what he wanted to do, maybe he didn't have a mind at work, but he played games to entertain himself.

After a while, the boy began to feel as if he had lost something, so he began to think of his ex, he wanted to contact him, but then he thought that maybe they really couldn't go back, he began to pay attention to all kinds of news about his ex, and even some boys would find a way to know about their ex from their friends.

At this time, the boy began to miss his ex, he hoped that they could go back to the past, but he would not take the initiative to find a girl, he was afraid of being rejected by the girl, he began to realize his previous mistakes and the harm he brought to his girlfriend, he gradually fell into guilt, felt very guilty about his ex-girlfriend, and remembered that he was not able to accompany her well when he was in love.

When the boy knew that his ex-girlfriend was in love again, the boy finally wanted to let go, but he still couldn't forget it, in his heart he still loved his ex-girlfriend, even if he knew that it was impossible, even if he couldn't accept this reality, the boy at this time began to regret it incomparably, regretting that he couldn't cherish that person well, regretting that he didn't seize the opportunity.

And when the boy thinks of his ex-girlfriend again, all he thinks about is the good of his ex-girlfriend, he regrets that he broke up, regrets why he didn't cherish it, so he began to really break up the pain, that person has left, and it is impossible to return to his side, the boy can't accept the reality, while forcing himself to let go, while still loving his ex-girlfriend.

So if the person you really love breaks up and the girl thinks that the boy is ruthless is just an illusion, in fact, the boy forgets a person for a lot longer than the girl forgets a person, so at this time, maybe you still love each other, and there is a chance to get back together, but you need to think carefully, if you can't miss each other, then be brave enough to seize it.

It will be sad. As long as it is a person who has given his true feelings, whether it is a man or a woman, he will be sad after breaking up, and even some men who have stepped on two boats, as long as he has really loved and paid no matter which woman he finally breaks up, he will feel sad.

Everyone's way of venting is different, some people will sing a night of KTV, some people will go for a night of hilarity, get drunk, or go on a shopping spree or something; And some people He doesn't put sadness on his face, on the surface it looks like he should eat, drink, play, and play, as if nothing happened, but when he comes home alone, maybe he will cry under the covers.