What is the general psychology of guys after a breakup?

Some people will feel relieved, and some people will feel reluctant.

Getting out of the pain of falling out of love is not something that can be done overnight, and you need to give yourself enough time and space to live with the heartbreak. When experiencing sadness, disappointment, frustration, and resentment, you need to learn to live with these emotions instead of turning your ex into a friend to "rescue" yourself.

If you still have these sad emotions in your heart, then you are not ready to get along with the other person as a friend, and you should not seek solace from the other person at this time, otherwise there may be a second injury.

If you are still in the heartache stage and want to get rid of negative emotions, it is recommended to find a counselor or a close friend you trust and talk to them to help you cheer up. You can also self-heal, such as keeping a journal, which can not only release your emotions, but also help you sort out your chaotic thoughts and feelings.

After the boy breaks up, then he may feel a little indifferent at first, but after a while, he will still recall this relationship, of course, this is also a separation.

Boys will be more relaxed and feel more free than ever when they first break up, but after relaxing for a while, they will start to miss the days when they were with you, and the state of boys and girls when they first broke up is the opposite.

I can feel casual after most boys break up, at this time their hearts are more relaxed, but also more happy, because there is no need for some people to take care of it, and there is no need to consider the experience of the other party, at this time you can do whatever you want, and sometimes the other party will be blacklisted.

The general psychology of a boy after breaking up is that the first is relief, because no one restrains him anymore, no longer has to coax others every day, and licks the dog every day, but after a period of time, he will feel very lonely and have no one to accompany him.

When a boy breaks up, in fact, I think the general psychological state is very stable, some of them may be very sad, and most of them are very quiet.

Boys are generally still very sad after breaking up, and their hearts are very painful, which is why many boys choose to drink and get drunk after breaking up.

Some boys feel empty in their hearts, and some boys will regret breaking up because they still have girlfriends in their hearts, and some will get back together.

Different guys will have different ideas, and in general, one guy may be sad and sad, and the other part will start looking for the next one.

First, it was very relaxed, second, after a while, I started to feel sad, and third, I finally wanted to get back together. This is the basic stage.

After a breakup, it is generally more painful, and you will always think that you are not good, and you will be unwilling.

Men will feel relieved and happy after a breakup, but after a period of time, they will feel sad and sad.

A pair of lovers choose to break up, and the boy's psychology is generally sad and sad after breaking up, and then they want to find another fate to fill the pain, so as to avoid deepening their memories of the past.

1. Liberation.

If the process of falling in love brings him a lot of pressure, then the first thing he can feel after the breakup is relief. For him, breaking up means no need to coax, no need to bother guessing what you are thinking, and no need to make up excuses to explain why you didn't reply in time when you play games.

At this time, if you suddenly appear in front of him, tell him that you can't leave him, don't break up. He usually only feels troubled and remembers the fear of being bombarded with news.

2. Pretend you don't care.

Which side hurts more for the person who proposes to break up or the person who is broken up? Many people subconsciously think that it is the party who is being broken up, but they ignore that for the person who takes the initiative to break up, it is still a broken love.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, and so is falling out of love. Taking the initiative to break up may be emotionless, or it may be that the relationship is still there, and rationally I feel that I can't go on, so I can only cut my love and replace the long pain with a short pain.

After the breakup, there are 3 common "psychological" changes for boys, and girls laugh when they see the third stage!

After the boy breaks up, the psychology will be divided into several stages, this stage they will feel very free, and finally recover their free body, get rid of your control, very happy, they will meet three friends and five friends, go to sing and drink, to release the pressure of this time, to the second stage, they will feel that such days are not rushing, as if something is missing, there is no sense of belonging, they begin to recall the bits and pieces with you, of course, if you are together only pain, no happiness, He began to look for the next relationship, if the happiness of your time together is greater than the pain, he will think of your goodness, so it comes to the third stage, she wants to come to you, but her heart feels that you will not accept it, he feels that he is not good enough, he feels unworthy, so there are two villains in his heart who are fighting, one says to find you, the other says not to look for it, and after a while, to the fourth stage, at this time, he begins to accept the fact that you have left, and decides to come out of this relationship and start a new life, by the fifth stage, he has really come out, for him, you don't care anymore, and also start looking for the next partner, into the next relationship.

After the boy breaks up, the psychology will be divided into several stages, this stage they will feel very free, and finally recover their free body, get rid of your control, very happy, they will meet three friends and five friends, go to sing and drink, to release the pressure of this time, to the second stage, they will feel that such days are not rushing, as if something is missing, there is no sense of belonging, they begin to recall the bits and pieces with you, of course, if you are together only pain, no happiness, He began to look for the next relationship, if the happiness of your time together is greater than the pain, he will think of your goodness, so it comes to the third stage, she wants to come to you, but her heart feels that you will not accept it, he feels that he is not good enough, he feels unworthy, so there are two villains in his heart who are fighting, one says to find you, the other says not to look for it, and after a while, to the fourth stage, at this time, he begins to accept the fact that you have left, and decides to come out of this relationship and start a new life, by the fifth stage, he has really come out, for him, you don't care anymore, and also start looking for the next partner, into the next relationship.

1. The desperation of a man after a breakup is fake

Ruthless, indifferent, ignoring you, avoiding you, saying cruel things, this is indeed his behavior after the breakup, but you must know that in the case of his breakup, all his emotions explode to the extreme, and these behaviors only represent his current emotions: he is hurt, angry, scared, he just wants to stay away from you in order to relieve his emotions.

But this doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore, his love is just diluted by emotions and weakened by your troubles.

2. It's not that he doesn't suffer, but the order of pain is different from yours

After the breakup, you learn that men should eat and drink, go around with friends, and feel a little sad and sad without a fierce book, while you wash your face with tears every day, and the pain is terrible.

In fact, it is not that men are not in pain, but that the time has not yet come. After a breakup, a woman is in pain first and then relieved, while a man is relieved and then painful before he starts to miss you. The emotional changes of a man after a breakup are different from the order of a woman.

3. After the breakup, he will still be possessive of you

As long as he has truly loved you and held you in his heart, then even if he proposes to break up, after the breakup, he will still be possessive of you, and he will default to you in his heart that you belong to him.

So he's more afraid of seeing that you have a new love, or have contact with other members of the opposite sex. If you want to get back together, you can start from this aspect to stimulate the man's possessiveness and guilt towards you, so as to achieve redemption.

4. Your emotional foundation will not disappear easily

The two have been together for so long, how can they say that if they don't love, they don't love? The emotional foundation is established little by little with sincerity for sincerity, even if the two come to the point of breaking up, the emotional foundation will not suddenly dissipate.

It takes time for feelings to dissipate, so many people want to reunite and blindly "disconnect" according to the online method, which is also incorrect, and it is easy for the feelings to dissipate if the disconnection time is too long, and the disconnection time is too short, and the negative emotions of the other party will not be reduced. Therefore, everyone must prescribe the right medicine and do not operate blindly.

5. He understands your recent situation and is testing you

If after a period of breakup, he will take the initiative to ask you about your current situation, and will understand you sideways, these behaviors represent that the other party is testing you to see if you have changed, if there is a change, maybe he will be shaken and have the idea of getting back together.

There may be many kinds of psychology of boys after a breakup, which should be judged according to the reason for the breakup, the depth of the relationship, the difference in personality and other factors. But generally speaking, guys go through the following stages after a breakup:

Feeling free: If a guy is initiating a breakup, or feeling dissatisfied or depressed in a relationship, they may feel relaxed after the breakup and can do what they want to do without having to think about the other person's feelings.

Finding a new love: If the guy passively accepts the breakup or gives a lot in the relationship, then they may have some sense of loss and loneliness after the breakup and want to find a new partner to fill the void.

Missing the ex: If the boy has been with the ex for a long time, or has a lot of good memories, then they may start to miss the time with the ex after the breakup, and even have some regrets and want to get back together.

Let go of the past: If the guy goes through the above stages or meets someone who is more suitable, then they may gradually let go of their past feelings and start a new life after the breakup.

Therefore, after the breakup, the boy did not take the initiative to contact Xi Ze once, which does not necessarily mean that he is not in love at all, maybe he is just experiencing different psychological changes, or Qi Luli has his own reasons and considerations. You don't have to be too entangled and sad, after all, everyone has their own choices and happiness.

Male model Wang Wanzi also has pain and regret, but most of them are more rational than girls, more tenacious and stubborn than girls in terms of emotional intentions, rarely break up impulsively, and after a breakup, they usually do not regret it.

Therefore, the more concerned the girl is after the breakup, the greater the emotional fluctuation, and the easier it is for the boy to avoid and flee emotionally.

I wonder what the problem is.

Everyone has a different psychological connotation, some people are sad after a breakup, and some people are happy.

Normally, if a boy proposes to scatter the hail dust, they will not have a particularly obvious feeling for Brother Bijue, which means that in this case, their inner Genji will not be able to settle down.

A little sad, but soon it got better.

Different people have different mental activities.