How would you advise a friend who is caught in love?

Updated on society 2024-04-03
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I would tell the other person to look at the relationship between two people sensibly and not to have unrealistic illusions, which will only make me more miserable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I would tell the other person that love is short-lived, and that it is still necessary to try to look forward and face reality.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell your friends not to spend all your time and energy on your feelings, otherwise you will be vulnerable to hurt over time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should advise your friends, then you should be rational about your feelings and should not be too persistent, sometimes there is a gap between reality and some things, so you should advise your friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Friends who are caught in love, I can only ask him to pay attention to some of his bottom line and pay attention to some skills, because a person who is in love is irrational, he is dominated by his own feelings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A friend is caught in a love network, we need to communicate with our friend seriously, analyze the pros and cons of this relationship with him, let him clearly understand his current reality, and finally let him make his own choice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Male No. 1:

    You can talk together, of course that's the basics, but if you want to marry him, you need to be guilty.

    There is a lot of courage and determination to never regret it! After all, he has children, and he's much older than you! Your future happiness in marriage is okay if you think about it and think that you will be able to live happily ever after.

    But be sure to think about maturity! It's a burden, or it's happiness. Of course, he's abroad, which is also something you need to take into account.

    Male No. 2: Poor communication will affect the development of the relationship, if you just know each other, it is inevitable that you will not find a common topic, and you may not know each other very well. It is recommended that you try to understand more with him, and clearly understand his character, hobbies, life, etc. Make a decision last.

    Male No. 3: From the information I got from you, male No. 3 is just a person who "doesn't have much to talk to" with you, marriage is your big thing, and I don't think the distance of living is a crucial factor, so even if you live close, it can't be counted as an advantage to marry you. Hehe.

    Marriage is related to a lifetime of happiness, to find a good husband, how people come first, first of all, there must be feelings and love. Then think about housing, jobs, and so on. So how can we make a judgment so easily.

    lz, you still don't understand, I can't even tell the reason in just a few words.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Go on a blind date

    It's far from the way to go...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't take marriage as a child's play, it's not a comparison that can be chosen, the key is to look at the feeling, ask your heart, which is the most worthy of your life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can try to find a fourth one, there is always someone who feels right. A lifetime of happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello landlord!

    First, you are right to hit him. He has influenced you, because you can not listen in class, but you must not influence others, and you are right to warn him. If you don't listen to this kind of person after you finish fighting, don't pay attention to it, it's equivalent to barking at a dead dog.

    Maybe talking to the person in front of you all the time is to get your attention, but as soon as he speaks, you stare at him, and he must be excited. So ignore this kind of person and stay calm. Maybe there's something more effective, it's just to ignore him.

    Second, let me tell you first, in general, elementary school and junior high school students no longer have contact, and only college and high school will hold parties when they grow up. You're in high school, don't worry about your friendships now, as long as you study well, you don't have to worry about whether you have friends or not. Let me give you an example, the mother of my elementary school classmate has been working on school affairs from the first to the sixth grade, and has a good relationship with the parents of the classmates who study well.

    His daughter is my best friend, and she is going to the best middle school, and she should be the second best like me. It's boring, what's the use of having a good relationship, you say? You have to impress others with sincerity, sincerity!

    If your good friend ignores you, it means that he found a better and more suitable friend for him later, here it is not that you are bad, it is because he is not in high school with you, and he does not look for classmates after class, is he still in a hurry to call you**? He must have thought about it, but he didn't want to disturb your studies because of your friendship, so he completely integrated into his circle, and it was inconvenient during the school day, and he also went to his classmates to ask her out every day during the holidays, and he left everything behind.

    So, this is the most important thing, he also forgot about you and integrated into his circle, then you don't have to think about him, as long as you have a good relationship with your current classmates first, of course, you have to be sincere. Friends now are real friends, and they will come back in the future. And the most important thing now is to study, study well, and rely on a good university to have a certain number of social members.

    Good luck with your studies! If you have any questions, you can ask me!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, beating someone is wrong in the eyes of law and morality, and you should take measures to transfer people as soon as possible. Although Ouchi.

    The family sometimes feels unbearable, but most of it can be controlled. Hitting people is not good for either side. Unless you want to be a bully scumbag like that.

    Then, your good friend doesn't contact you, you can think back to whether something unpleasant happened, sometimes the personality becomes unwilling to take the initiative to contact people, and when you are separated, you have your own social circle, and it is definitely not as close as before. Have you ever tried to contact someone?

    Since they are friends, there is no problem that cannot be solved. I wish you to clear up your confusion soon.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Can you be sure that he also treated you as a good friend in the first place? I have a very good friend dao

    I love her and I respect her.

    Inside. But we stayed away.

    Later, I realized that I regarded her as the only one, but I was not her only one. She was able to give me the emotions I wanted at the time, but I didn't know her. If you want to be good with a friend forever, you probably need to get to know each other, and then it's not right to hit someone.

    You speak without considering your feelings, he is selfish, you just want to learn, and you beat people and say that your behavior is no different from his. Although it is a bit embarrassing to say that I have nothing to do and find a teacher, if it were me, I would rather try all kinds of ways to ask the teacher to help me change my seat.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I recognize bai

    For, it is useless to beat people, only du

    can worsen the situation. First of all, you have to be clear.

    Zhi Bai,People in the chat state will not have any concerns.,And my homeroom teacher said that sometimes chatting at the wrong time is not because of memory or character problems (the kind that says and can't listen), but because of personal personality characteristics (such as very cheerful.,Easy to find topics.,Idle, etc.). So it's not surprising that you hit him and still look the same. Second, think about any times in your relationship with this good friend that offended or upset others.

    Or maybe your relationship is not as good as you imagined, but you yourself have been immersed in beautiful fantasies. This scenario is not impossible. In the end, time will dilute these emotions, but to a different extent.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The first copy, I think your approach of beating your classmate is a bit extreme. As a troublemaker in class.

    If you persuade them and don't listen to them, there is no way to do it, and they will destroy the relationship with each other. You should report to the class teacher to arrange an alternative seat.

    Second, this friend you only met in junior high school ignores you for sure. Because he and you have been friends since childhood, you will be the one who will support you?

    Third, as for the reason, either your table mate told your good friend about you and him, or he was nervous about studying in a key high school. I'm like that.,I feel like my junior high school classmates are far away.。 -

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hitting someone is wrong in both legal and moral terms.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course, hitting someone is wrong, and there is indeed a better solution, as for the reason, you actually know it in your heart, so don't ask Ming when you are there.

    Questions with clear answers. You know how to change how to do it is just a face-saving one, but let me tell you, if you don't apologize, you can't get over the face, and if you do treat him as a good friend, then you are not here to ask what to do, but already doing what to do.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You really don't need to care too much about this, boys all think that the new one will be better, and it will be fine after a while, if there is a new one, they will definitely go to talk again, you are now a senior in high school, it is really a sprint time, you need to calm down and think about the study problem, don't think about these emotional problems, because you will have a broader vision to see these people when you get to the university. I hope you can calm down and make a final sprint to get into a good school. Hope it helps.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The root of the problem is that they treat you as a buddy, they don't treat you as the opposite sex, and they probably just think that girl is more feminine.

    It is recommended that you divert your attention, focus and study, after all, it is the third year of high school, and the pressure is quite high.

    As an adaptation and adjustment process, it's also good to change seats, out of sight and out of mind.

    The most important thing is to adjust your mentality.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When they treat you like that, it means that they are just entertaining you, not treating you as a friend, and you don't need to take them seriously. I used to be a tiger girl, and I loved to play with boys, and I was very nice to them, but in the end, none of them remembered you well. You have to see this kind of person clearly.

    Live your own life, and that girl will be your end in the future. What kind of girls are the most popular? Connotative, confident.

    Don't let them know everything, you ignore them in the future, it's good to change seats, out of sight and out of mind.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People treat you as a buddy and treat you as a boy, so when you see a girl they like, it's natural that you'll be like that. Don't be too depressed, it only shows that you are suitable to be buddies, not boyfriend and girlfriend. In addition, they are all juniors in high school, and the pressure is so great, so put this aside in advance!

    There will always be boys who like you. Let's change seats and study.

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