What if my boyfriend has always been in a close relationship with his first girlfriend?

Your new lover is always someone else's old lover, so he doesn't have to worry if he is in contact with his first love, and if you quarrel with him because of these, he will think that it is better to say that it is better than before. Don't let him have this kind of thought, try to integrate into his circle of friends, use your generosity to tolerate him, he will tell you everything, the more you care about him, the more he will hide it! Come on, I wish you all happiness

Like you, I only found out two days ago that he and his money girlfriend have been in contact, and the tone of jokes is very unusual, at first I was very angry, but when I calmed down I began to think about what to do, and finally decided to ask him to give me an explanation in person, and then asked him to give me an explanation, and then asked him, talked to him, and finally he told me the reason, the reason was within the range of what I could accept, I told him that I was very concerned about this, and hoped that they would not contact me anymore, because of my sanity, he promised me not to contact her again, I believed him... I hope you can have a good chat with each other, there will be no misunderstanding when the problem is opened, don't blindly get angry and lose your temper, it's useless, it will only deepen the misunderstanding between you, if you have a problem, say it openly and honestly, this is a better way to solve the problem between lovers, I hope you are happy...

Don't quarrel with him, don't mess with him, don't let him make a two-choice decision, this effect is often unsatisfactory.

You can love him with all your heart and tell him, "I'm going to kill all the girls who like you!"

But that's just talk, but you have to be serious. In this way, he is yours! Believe it or not?

How so, after all, it's the first love, why get entangled when you break up, it's all separated, it's understandable to contact occasionally, this doesn't work, we are also very selfish in love, you just tell him, ask him if he regrets it, and subconsciously signal to him, if not, let him say it clearly, I wish you happiness. Because you still love him.

I'm in a similar situation to you. It is advisable to gradually integrate into them and see what their relationship is now. Maybe it's just a friend. In fact, the object of the first love will still be somewhat nostalgic, but it will not affect the next relationship. I wish you happiness

Find a time to make it clear in person.

You must not bear it, the more you endure it, the more he will gain an inch.

Of course, if he has any special secrets, then it can be forgiven.

Hehe, we happened to have the same thing.

I've been with him for 11 months, and I've had several fights with his ex-girlfriend during that time.

At first I didn't think there was anything about it, and he said it was just friends.

I believed in him, and then it developed into something dear, I love you and so on.

I couldn't stand it, I couldn't tolerate that I wasn't his only one, so we broke up.

In fact, as long as he doesn't do too much, he has to get by.

If you really love him, tell him you care about it.

There's nothing wrong with caring to care and prove that you love him.

If he cares about your mind, he'll be careful.

I hope you won't be like me and he wish you happiness.

If it turns out to be true, it's best to talk to him openly and honestly.

Let him give you a reasonable explanation.

If you can't let go of the previous one, your relationship needs to be reconsidered.

Communicate with him well, explain your position, he doesn't accept it, and then you think about the next step.

Anything is acceptable, just don't be deceived... When you don't trust someone, it's tiring and tiring, ask him to at least not cheat on you.

Tell you that this is normal, men pay more attention to first love.

You can't accept it and leave.

If you can be considerate, you will compromise.

It's as simple as that.

First love, I don't believe in this. First love can only be used for aftertaste. What is a normal chat that is not a friend? Don't be too jealous sometimes.

I think that if a person keeps mentioning the previous person, he has not completely let go of his heart. You can say to your boyfriend appropriately, let's not mention the past, just live the present. If he brings it up again, ask him how he feels in the depths of his heart, and ask him to think about it as a result, not a blurted out past.

If you really haven't let go of your first love, then find an opportunity, ask a few people out, explain the regrets in your heart, and let go of each other. You are witnessing on the sidelines, so that you too will let go. Two people are together, everything needs to be communicated, boys generally have not experienced strong winds and waves until they are about thirty years old before they are mature and responsible, and they keep mentioning their ex-girlfriends because his mind is not mature enough, and he can't treat his current girlfriend wholeheartedly.

At this time, he should make it clear to you and take the initiative to understand the regrets of the previous relationship, instead of lingering.

People who miss the old are obsessed with some things in the past, put them in their hearts, and have regrets, so they will always think about and read them.

Let's discuss it and take a look, let him empathize, if you keep mentioning your ex, what does he feel, compare your heart to your heart, I hope you will soon say that everyone feels different, so when you get along with different people, the feelings are different, although they are all liked, but the difference may be very different, just like you treat two friends who are also good, maybe you and their communication methods are different. Your boyfriend doesn't see you as a shadow of your ex, and you don't need to go out of your way to get rid of your ex's imprint.

Be generous with yourself, you yourself have your own charm, unlike his predecessor, and unlike anyone else. Let him remember you, not a certain label, a certain word.

I think there is a very important premise for being able to do it without mind: your boyfriend (or girlfriend) friend gives you enough security, so that you don't feel threatened at all, and you don't worry every day that your ex will break the thread.

Scumbags are inevitable! That is to say, your other half can have an ex or an ex who has been together for many years, this is not something you can change, as long as he is qualified enough, there is no need for us to be unreasonable. Of course, if you can't get over this kind of hurdle in your heart, then follow your heart, in love, the first thing is not to wronged yourself.

My boyfriend has a girlfriend who has been his first love for many years, which is a very bad thing.

The first girlfriend will also grow up, and she will also find the lover in her heart.

Everything will pass, women will mature, and men will mature. The mindset doesn't stop forever at the age of fifteen or sixteen.

If it's in the past, and now that my boyfriend hasn't been in touch with my first love friend and hasn't done those things anymore, I don't think you need to worry about it anymore, probably. Before living with you again, I really loved my first love travel very much, and he also made it clear his attitude, but after all, my first girlfriend was married, and they had broken up, so in this case, my boyfriend was sure that he loved you, so wait and see. Look at his attitude.

In fact, I think if your boyfriend has a first girlfriend who has been involved for many years, and they are always disconnected, it means that your boyfriend is not serious enough about the relationship, so he is so indecisive and unclear with the other party.

In fact, I personally think that if the boyfriend has been holding hands for many years of first love travel, I think this situation is unacceptable, since you choose to be with your first love, you have broken up, choose to be with you, then you should break it off, so that you can be worthy of the relationship between the two of you, if you always have insomnia, then break up early.

In fact, I think if your boyfriend has ever had someone he likes, then this is also a very normal thing, but if he is in a relationship with you, but he is not involved with his first girlfriend, it means that such a man is actually more indecisive.

This situation is normal, after all, it is your first love, the first love is beautiful, there are a lot of memories, don't affect your relationship because of this, after a long time you are good to him, he will not think about it.

Now after all, if you have a girlfriend, you shouldn't contact your first love, and doing so is also a sign of respect for your girlfriend, so you should listen to your girlfriend.

If I were this girlfriend, I would also be very concerned, because you already have a current one, and you have to contact your ex to show that you don't love the current one.

I think you can let your current girlfriend go, it shows that you don't care about him, you just delay him.

I think you're a scumbag. Because why you should keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend, your behavior like this will make your girlfriend insecure. You should immediately cut off contact with your ex-girlfriend and give your girlfriend a sense of security.

Hope it can give you some reference.

1.Factors influencing a man's nostalgia for his first love.

The degree of nostalgia that men feel for their first love is influenced in many ways. First of all, the reason for breaking up with the woman played a big role. If the woman hurts the man's feelings when she breaks up, then he may keep the memories of his first love in his heart because it represents some kind of good past.

In addition, if men encounter some very important moments in their lives when they are with their first girlfriend, such as getting married and having children within a certain period of time after the end of their first love, then they may have a deep nostalgia for their first love.

2.Men are in a period of slow emotional heat.

Men's psychological characteristics are often different from women's, and they are usually not as sensitive as women in dealing with emotional issues. Men want to have a stable love life and are eager to find someone they can trust. The first love experience is usually the first time they try to form a bond, even if the process seems to be quite unique, and that experience leaves a deep impression on them because it is their first attempt to imitate and cope with emotional problems.

3.Attitude towards first love.

Whether or not a man misses his first love, the attitude towards this issue is very important. Some men will try to bury the memories of their first girlfriend in the depths of their hearts, while others will try to restore contact with their first girlfriend. In some cases, a proper attitude to deal with it can play a big role in the stability and well-being of a man's emotional life.

4. Whether men will always miss their first love depends on their characteristics and experiences, and it is not necessarily exactly the same as women. In any case, it is important to build a relationship of mutual respect and trust, as this is a powerful guarantee of happiness and longevity.

Everyone's first love is beautiful, hard to forget, chain staring is simple love, pure love. Some people will fight for their first love to the end, and some people will be forced to leave. In fact, it is a feeling that can't be let go.

Everyone reminisces about their first love. For men, first love is the first heartbeat, and it is pure and unstained. Regret and regret because it was not finished :

Because of love and unsuccessful and unforgettable. Especially, when marriage tends to be dull and life becomes mediocre, men often experience the nourishment of sadness and romance through the aftertaste of their first love, and unconsciously turn their first love into an irreplaceable idol in their hearts.

Most likely, yes.

Because there are many, many boys, the first time they fall in love, they are much more serious than the later thoughts.

Maybe you will say that your girlfriend in the future will not be able to get his sincerity and finally step forward to the palace of blind marriage?

It is, but it's not quite the same.

Because the boy talks about it for the first time, he doesn't have any experience, and even if he does, he doesn't know what he learned from **, and he has no actual combat experience.

So there are almost no boys who don't think that they are sorry for each other when they fall in love for the first time.

Not very good at coaxing, not very good at talking, not very good at taking the initiative (even if it is active, it is with a heartbeat, a nervous batch), not very good at guessing, not very good at taking care of people's ......But they are very good at imagining that if you spend a month with him, he will think about how he will spend the year; If you give him a kiss, he will feel that you are his only girl ...... life

The first love girl didn't ask for much, and she also cared about people, and she was also shy when she first came into contact with sex.

When you fall in love more, it's like you eat the same dish every day, not only do you make others think you're very good, but you also make yourself always regret wanting to keep it fresh.

At that time, men didn't know how to flirt with their sisters, they didn't understand the routines of feelings, and they only treated their first love with a sincere heart, and love and pain were very real. For first love, men's attitudes are usually more cautious and sincere, and they will pay a lot, and when you pay most of the emotion and energy for one thing, the more difficult it will be.

It is a good friend relationship for a boyfriend to keep in touch after breaking up with his first girlfriend. It shows that they still like each other.

This is not necessarily, but his behavior is really very unmeasured and bad.

For such a situation, I personally don't think there is any need to care too much. Of course, only if he still remembers his first love. If it has been with you for a few years, and has been in contact with your first love behind your back, then it is a bit excessive.

So, remember not to forget your first love, this is normal. However, this is just a memory of the past. It doesn't mean that the boyfriend's heart is in the first love.

Actually, I think most men can't forget their first love. However, for many men, it is equally clear that the past is the past. Since I chose to be with you, and have been with you for so many years.

Prove that you are more suitable to be together than his first love. Otherwise, why did the two break up in the first place? Leave, for whatever reason.

Together, the most important result is the most important result. You don't care about that at all. Don't be unpleasant with your boyfriend because of this.

Many times, women still need to be confident.

First, you have to be open-minded.

Everyone has a first love, and no one can forget it. This is a fact, and it does not erase the memories of the past because of your true love. Unless you have amnesia, it's not easy to forget.

Therefore, for such things, we must face them calmly. As long as your boyfriend doesn't go behind your back and something happens to your first love. Don't worry about this matter at all, you can turn the page.

Second: What your boyfriend does to you.

You're with your boyfriend, and your boyfriend treats you. If your boyfriend is nice to you, then you need to be nice to your boyfriend instead of doubting or losing your temper with him. Many times, a man doesn't like a woman anymore, and it's not for any other reason.

It's more because of a woman's noisy, violent temper, not gentle, and not considerate of men. This will make men feel stressed, and even say that they are particularly depressed and uncomfortable. That's dangerous.

If the two of you get along in such a way that you are comfortable and your boyfriend is uncomfortable. Then, it is possible that he will miss his first love very much. Miss her tenderness, miss everything about her.