Do I have a lot of self esteem? What s going on?

Emotional intelligence is really a bit low, first of all, you don't have to pretend to be good at the beginning when dealing with people, get along well and talk very well, because everyone will take these for granted, people with good eyes think you are good, and some people think that you are deliberately stammering, and people with bad intentions will really treat you as a fool (I don't understand why you use "Kaizi").

Are you heavenly, just ask, it feels a bit like, but I say you're personal. You lack the skills to communicate with others, you are not a qualified "listener", in fact, the most difficult thing for people to do is to "listen", to do a good job of the role of the audience, others will feel that you understand him, have a common topic with him, and can communicate. People can't care so much about people's interactions, and if the heart of gain and loss is too strong, it is destined to be lost.

Your friend said that you should not help you sometimes, and I think she has a point: this society uses things to cheat too much, and your friend just kindly reminds you, not that you are wrong to help people; You stand in the "need help" of the person to consider, sometimes some people you help her is an insult, not help, people say no, then you forget it, after all, only he knows whether he needs help or not, don't impose your ideas on others, after all, you are not him.

Your temper really doesn't dare to compliment, you have a good idea at the beginning of doing things, and you want to do a good job, but this society is not that you just have ideas, you can do things well with enthusiasm, skills are very important, everyone originally elected you as the squad leader, maybe they think you are easy to talk to, and may make everyone's life easier, but afterwards I found that you are so serious, I feel that you are "holding chicken feathers, when the arrow", you must know that most of the people now eat soft and not hard, isn't it just a small "official", what to drag, People may not be supporting you, water can carry a boat and capsize a boat, your position is given by others, you have to consider the interests and intentions of others.

You are too extreme, you can never break away from this society and become an independent individual, even if you don't like a person no matter how much you don't like it, you should not show it, you are too easy to be seen through by others, you are eaten by others, and your character is easy to be used by others in society.

I always believe that people with high emotional intelligence can succeed, what you need is self-examination, you can speak to yourself, let yourself learn to confide and listen, and let yourself see yourself more clearly.

You have so much content that I'm dazzled, and it's just a 5.

My work is not very good, so I don't have self-confidence, which makes me reluctant to socialize with other people. I am also aware of my own problems, but I am aware of the importance of one's self-esteem in interpersonal interactions. Self-esteem is a precious quality that is essential for everyone.

However, if your self-esteem is too strong, you may hurt others in your relationships. Self-esteem is a necessary quality in a person's life.

It is difficult to imagine that a person with a lack of self-esteem can be respected by others. Self-esteem brings out the potential of a person to improve and gain the respect of others. If a person's self-esteem is too strong, instead of being able to function in life, it can become an obstacle in interpersonal communication.

People with too much self-esteem tend to develop a solitary mentality; They can't see their own strengths and weaknesses correctly, and they can't deal rationally with the criticism of others. People with too much self-esteem will also have a certain degree of vanity, and will not be able to correctly view the superiority of others towards them, and will even defend their so-called"Face"And attacking others with words and actions.

I am a person with too much self-esteem, and this is because he lacks an objective understanding of himself. Therefore, to correct excessive self-esteem, it is necessary to know yourself correctly and understand your strengths and weaknesses. Even if others point out your weaknesses, don't hold on to them, but rather see them as a form of self-improvement.

That's what true self-esteem means.