How should your girlfriend be more headstrong and have strong self esteem?

1. Believe that the two of them have a bright future, will trust each other, will not be suspicious, will not feel gray because of distance, and will not betray each other because of distance.

This is the premise, because only in this way, when doing everything, you will not feel lonely, and a happy mood is a good state to keep missing!

Moreover, you must correct your mentality, love is not possession, if she keeps rejecting you, you should not be sad about it, love lies in the process of dedication!

Of course, I also want to remind you that your relationship is relatively slim ......Because a girl doesn't fall in love with someone because they're good to her.

2. Please promise her appropriately.

All girls like commitments, just like all boys don't like commitments, not that boys don't have a sense of responsibility, it's that boys don't like to talk about promises!

But if you don't say, how do we know? Right?

Especially when the distance is relatively far, just say a little more I love you!

3. Be sure to see her more.

In love, a sentence of I love you is not as good as a hug.

Therefore, whether she refuses or not, your love should be stalked......Hehe, a girl in our class used to be soaked like that, and the boy was waiting for her under the balcony all the time, even if we splashed water, we couldn't get rid of it!

Sometimes the behavior of scoundrels can also be effective......

ps: There are many ways to care and pamper, as long as you think for yourself, because no one knows what she likes better than you, generally speaking, girls like romance, chocolate, shopping, beautiful clothes, and movies.

Actually, I think if the girl is really what the subject said, at least I don't think it's a matter of high self-esteem. My boyfriend is five years older than me, so he has more life experience, and he is a theoretical and strong person, I once thought that he had a strong desire to control and a strong urge to persuade people. In order not to succumb to him, I tried to make myself strong, reading books he hadn't read, theories and movies he hadn't seen.

I tried to be on an equal footing with him, and even hoped that he would praise me from the bottom of my heart. So the situation now is that our argument has gone from being one-sided to evenly divided, but sometimes there is still no one he can talk about (sometimes I want to paralyze you so that I will die), and the culture and entertainment are no longer what he says I listen to or he recommends me to watch.

In short, both people have to be reasonable, and sometimes women know that they are wrong, but they still bite the trust me

Actually, I think it's too much for me as a girl, if the situation you said is really like that, I don't think she can do something like that, seriously, it's probably a long-distance relationship lonely, or it's been a long time, I think you can talk to her well, and make it clear all the troublesome and annoying problems together, you can, you can't, you can't forget it, or you and she have to be tired, you still have to work, and it's not a place, and she's just looking for a side, There are people around me when something happens. Reluctance seems to be necessary.,But nothing can withstand time.,There's nothing to say about doing something like that.,You're too.,How can you agree.,It's really a cow.。。。

How can the above problems occur when the relationship is good? I think it's better to forget it, she doesn't care about you at all, if she treats you as a beloved, how can she hold other people's hands, and how can she tolerate others in her eyes. To be honest, don't like to listen to it, the relationship between the two places is very unstable, you are not around when she is happy, you are not around when she is sad, and this is the most deadly, let it go, let her go and let yourself go.

If it's fate, she'll come back to you again.

She is not willful, she is rebellious. Two years is not a short time, if you don't want to be angry to death in these two years, explain it to her as soon as possible and break up. She is already afraid of that person's suspicion and discusses with you, and she wants you to help her hide from that person, do you think it is necessary to make wedding dresses for others?

Long pain is better than short pain, you know what I mean?

If I had such a girlfriend, I would say a word to her: your * egg imagination After you imagine it, can you accept your beloved daughter-in-law to meet netizens every day?

I can see that you love your girlfriend very much, but in my experience, such a woman should be cut off sooner or later, and something will happen sooner or later, and you are also very tired.

With your carefulness, you can definitely find someone who is a hundred times stronger than her.

"I didn't want to, but I was afraid that she would find other netizens to date, so I reluctantly agreed."

Although lovers should accommodate each other, the above words are out of line. Accommodation should also be principled. Why would you tolerate him meeting with other netizens?

It's not her willfulness, it's inattentiveness to feelings, and inattentiveness to your love. Although love is beautiful, it depends on two people to take care of each other, don't blindly and unprincipledly accommodate each other, which will lay hidden dangers for future relationships.

You've spoiled her. She is like this, and you have a certain responsibility. A man must have a certain amount of courage and can't let his girlfriend come around. You spoil her like this, it is destined not to last long.

Personally, I think maybe one of you is studying and the other is working, plus the boy gave her the feeling of being the first crush. That's why she's like this. Give her some time!

One boyfriend is not enough to have two, what does she treat you as, she is stepping on two boats, what kind of boy she had a crush on in high school, it is an excuse, to see which one is good, when the time comes, I want to break up with you when I see that you are not pleasing to the eye, and I think it is good to say that I found the feeling I had in high school.

Maybe you're not good enough, there's that she doesn't love you enough, and then there's the longing for your crush.

points, resolutely points!! It's not that I can't find it, but I can still make that kind of request, stepping on two boats.

This girl is in the fan cheap period and is underbeaten.

I couldn't agree more with 1l's statement and sympathize with you as well.

You roll as far as your thoughts go, and you roll as fast as you can with the speed of light.

This can only be solved if you are careful in what you say. She has strong self-esteem, it is difficult to change, you can only change yourself, pay attention to what you say everywhere, and adapt a little. She may have been caused by long-term living circumstances, such as family circumstances, or being looked down upon by others before, which hurt her.

You have to be patient and spend more time to slowly build up her confidence.

Everyone has self-esteem, and people cannot live without self-esteem. Therefore, when dealing with others, you should take care of their self-esteem.

Let him not be inferior!

If you are really strong inside, you won't be like this!

Brother, to give you a few references:

The first point: you are a man, a man has the world in his heart, you have to tolerate everything about her, if she is worthy of your love.

The second point: what causes her excessive self-esteem, and when you interact with her, no one knows her situation better than you. Some are due to low self-esteem, some are due to single family parents, and some are derived from economic income. You find the reason why she is most sensitive, and you know why she misunderstands.

The third point: As her boyfriend, what is your temper and personality, you have to think about it for yourself, she is strong, you will learn to be tactful, if you are also stubborn, then quarrels are inevitable. Language is a skill, and if you make your language more soothing, you'll succeed.

In order to keep you, at all costs.

Then you have to respect him, respect her choice, and try to let him go.

If you really love her, it's okay to tolerate some willfulness.

Capriciousness depends on when, if you don't make trouble regardless of the occasion and time, it is called ignorance, if you are appropriate to be coquettish and willful, it is still acceptable. You can only change her slowly, communicate first, and then guide her slowly, I believe there will always be change.

Loving someone requires patience, and forbearance is unbearable.

Both are either people or points.