Ask a reason for rejecting someone and it won t make someone sad!

You don't need to love someone for any reason!

Since it's love! So do you need a reason?

The reason for the so-called! Whether you want to give it to the other party, or are you looking for yourself.

Love is love! There is no reason for this. If you have to give a reason, only the person concerned knows the answer best.

Why love? Love me for what?

In fact, it is a kind of doubt that I am not fully confident, and why bother to get the answer, every love is best known to each other.

It's easy to be emotional, but it's hard to be infatuated! It's easy to be merciful, but it's hard to keep it.

Cherish it if you know it! Learn to cherish.

is the sweetest happiness of the other partner.

Don't be distracted.

That's the choice. Hehe.

A man with a heart of flowers will only talk sweetly!

Refuse and not be sad? You should first ask about the psychological character of the rejected person, what kind of relationship he has with you, and how intimate he is. I advise you to deal with psychological fragility carefully.

Choose one that likes you, women also have to hurt themselves a little more, why waste time for useless people.

Choose to love you, so you will be happier!

It's not particularly difficult to do this, and it's safe to say that you're busy and that you still have things to do at home.

When the other party can hear you say this, in fact, the other party has already understood what you really think in your heart.

If you want to reject others in life, don't be too blunt, consider the feelings of others, and don't hurt others when you reject them, so that others can not only feel your gratitude to him, but also feel that they do have a reason not to go.

It should be very good to be able to do this, and it will help you and others to a certain extent.

If you're too busy, let others know about it. After all, it's your own work and family that matter. Others will feel the same way, especially if they are busy with work and family.

You'll find it easier to give detailed reasons. Next, explain yourself in detail and let others know why you don't have time.

2.I don't think I'm the best person to help you solve the puzzle, you can find it.

When you find yourself in a position where you can't help at all, just say no. Maybe someone you know is better suited to solve this problem, and referring this person to someone who asks for help can be very useful in the workplace.

3.I'll get back to you in a minute.

Sometimes you have to look at your schedule before you dare to commit to others. But remember. If you don't really want to help, this method doesn't work well. This will waste the time of the person who asks for help, and if he has this time, he may be able to find another person who is willing to help.

4.Sorry, it's a little inconvenient right now. Why don't you find another time?

People say that timing is everything, and sometimes when you are dealing with something at a critical moment, you meet someone who asks you for help, and tell him that you are very busy right now and will help him get it done in a few days. But if you don't want to do it at all, you won't help him in the future. So in order to avoid worse consequences, it is better to reject him directly in advance.

5.I'd rather refuse than be perfunctory.

When you know you're not up to the job, just do it, and the other person will appreciate your honesty. For better results, you can add: "I'd rather refuse now than fail you later".

6.I'd love to, but.

This is often a very gentlemanly way of saying no to others. Telling others that you'd love to do it shows that you agree with what they're thinking, but you can't really help.

7.No way. This is the simplest and most direct way to refuse, just "no" from the other party. There is no need to give any details to explain unless the other party asks you. We spend a lot of time trying to figure out some elaborate reasons, but being direct is the easiest and best way.

Dear, you tell him directly, I don't have enough to eat myself, and it doesn't matter if you want to eat and buy it yourself, just face it directly.

Question: I asked her (him) how do you still have it? She (he) said that she wanted you to care about how to drip it, and I always interjected when I asked others.

It depends on what you reject.

Then you can just say I'm sorry, there's nothing I can do.

Learning to say no to others is a hurdle we have to face all our lives.

Since we're going to climb over it anyway, why don't we find a way to do it gracefully?

Simply rejecting others is in itself a kind of respect for the time cost of both parties.

As for those who cut ties with you because you rejected them, they are also the ones you will lose sooner or later!

Originally, I thought that I would deal with it like this, but I didn't expect my friends to tell me two days later that their activities had been changed for me.

I couldn't help it, so I said bluntly, I really didn't have time to go. This is good, my friend is a little unhappy, saying that the event is for me to change the time, and I still don't go.

I don't know if their activities were changed because of me, but I learned from them that refusing to do so will leave others with a handle and leave a hidden danger for yourself.

I used to feel that a lot of times, we can't make rejection too ugly.

So I tried my best to make up all kinds of excuses, or there was something temporary, and I had to show that I really wanted to go but I really couldn't do it, anyway, it was all kinds of routines.

Later, I observed many people, and I found that those who have so-called high emotional intelligence and can make up all kinds of bells and whistles will give others an unreliable impression.

Therefore, to reject this matter, the manifestation of the highest emotional intelligence is to do it, not to do it, don't pretend. 02

Unwilling to reject others neatly, it looks like he is thinking about others, and he doesn't want everyone to be embarrassed. But you just take yourself too seriously, because you feel that if you refuse, others will be heartbroken!

But in fact, when everyone puts forward their own request, they are already mentally prepared to be rejected, and even the other party prefers you to choose to refuse.

So, don't assume that everyone will have high hopes for your response.

You know, the world is full of a try-it-try mentality, and those who will make some unreliable demands are counting on hitting those who are soft-hearted and can't bear to reject others.

If someone expresses affection for you and you have no feelings for him, you have to politely decline while trying to preserve the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. The methods you can take are:

Praise the other person's looks, character or something else. Then say the reasons why you can't accept it. Of course, the reasons should be appropriate and try to be realistic.

It is best to benefit each other, such as how you are not good, how you will suffer when we are together, etc. Put the bad side on your own. This method is more suitable for the other party is a very particular person, he understands what you mean, he will not hate you anymore, and at the same time he himself maintains his own self-esteem.

2.If someone is always pestering you when you don't agree, then you have to resolutely refuse. This should not be a deterrent.

Because if your answer is not firm enough, it will make the other party misunderstand and think that you are testing him, causing the other party to pestering you all the time. To such people you can say: "I'm sorry, I really don't have feelings for you, please don't come to harass me again in the future, thank you."

This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people. 3.Let me tell you again, if you reject a person, try to have less contact with the other party after refusal, you can distance yourself from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you.

Especially when he asks you to hang out, you have to find a more reasonable reason to refuse.

1.Superstition is a good reason. It's a good idea to use something you're superstitious about as an excuse.

Some people use reasons such as "bad luck" and "bad luck" to refuse their friends' investment requests. "I haven't had good luck in the past few days", "I've had a bad time lately", "I've had a bad luck this year", of course, such reasons are absurd, but they are very effective.

2."I've been busy lately" is a good reason. When using this justification, be sure to describe it in a specific way and don't talk about it in generalities, such as:

I'm so busy right now that I don't have time at all, no, I'm going to Beijing tomorrow on a business trip, I'm afraid I can't help you. "I made an appointment with xx today to talk about business, and then I want to take him to the construction site to have a look, and I won't be back until late. The more specific the reason, the more true, convincing, and persuasive it will be.

There is no best reason for this.

In fact, many times the reason is just an excuse.

It's best to say what's really in your heart.

Maybe it will hurt him, but if you don't make it clear to him, this kind of procrastination will only bring him more damage.

Correct your own perception and don't feel embarrassed.

It is also very common for us to be embarrassed to refuse other people's requests many times in our lives, and the main reason for this is that we are too kind or too shy. <>

Because I always feel that others have already said it, and we are somewhat embarrassed if we don't do it, so many times, even if our hearts are somewhat reluctant, but we still accept it, and then we feel not too comfortable, this phenomenon also happens often, and it will cause some interference to us.

When others make demands on us, we must first think about whether the request is reasonable, which is the most important thing, if it is something that is wrong, we must also make it clear to the other party, because even if we do it, it is wrong, and we will be affected. <>

The second is to distinguish whether this thing is important, we must also have certain principles when doing things, whether this thing is important, whether it is worth doing, after thinking clearly, we must also have courage, this is the most correct and critical. <>

First of all, you can't be too shy, because it's easy to suffer when you're too shy, and you're first confident to be hard, when others make some requests, you feel that it's not very reasonable to put it forward in time, so that the other party won't continue to say it, if you twist and pinch, the other party will continue to ask yourself, so that you feel embarrassed when you are soft-hearted, and finally do it.

So we have our own principles to do anything, when we have our own principles, some people will not put forward some unreasonable requirements for themselves after they know, which is also very important, so they must also learn to cultivate their own character, which is also very important for our future development, refuse nothing to be embarrassed about, and resolutely do not do things that are not conducive to themselves and others.

Be sure to refuse clearly, don't have any intention of dragging your feet, and don't affect the feelings of two people because you are afraid of rejection.

You can reject him directly and explain the reasons for your refusal. Or give him a better opinion. It is also possible to divert attention and change the topic.

First of all, your personality may be a people-pleasing personality, at this time you have to learn to refuse, when they make some requests that make you particularly unhappy, you can directly refuse him, directly say sorry, I can't help you like this.

You can directly refuse by saying your will, or let the other party do what you need to do, don't make people feel that it doesn't cost to ask someone to do things, you help me, I will help you.

When encountering such a situation, I think I should refuse it directly, and I should also learn to reject others in my daily life.

If someone else makes a very unreasonable request to us, we don't want to say yes or not, we find a similar unreasonable demand, put it forward to him, see if he will agree, if he doesn't agree, then we tell him, we can't do it.

When encountering unreasonable requests, you must say no in time, after all, if he can make such an unreasonable request, he must not take into account your feelings, so you don't need to take care of his face and not refuse.

We should be resolute in refusing such demands. Only by adopting such an attitude will others not pester you and embarrass you.

It's okay to refuse directly, because his request is not very reasonable, and if you agree, he will think that you are very good at talking and will bully you later.

Do a good job of psychological construction, refuse directly, as long as you can succeed for the first time, then it will be very easy later.

How to refuse other people's unreasonable requests, learn these four, so that you can skillfully resolve them.