I can t give up the person I like, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Actually, I think the relationship can still be cultivated, the main thing is her attitude towards you, if you are too resolute, then I think you are really unlikely, long pain is better than short pain, divert attention, or find other girls, no way, and since you like that girl so much, you have to forget that it is definitely not 1 day, 2 days or even a few weeks can be done Everyone will have such a difficult time Try not to see her Try not to associate her with anything It's good after a long time.

    But if she is still hesitant about you, then the two of you still have a chance, is it the so-called long-term love, if there is a chance, between you like that girl so much, you must refuel, don't give up easily.

    Hope it helps

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are two kinds of people in this world, one is love at first sight, you will have a good impression of you at a glance, and you will fall in love with you unconsciously, and the second is the slow-fire soup type, maybe your image, personality or other aspects are not paid attention to, this time it is up to you to decide, whether to give up or continue to wait.

    Maybe he will slowly like you in the future, maybe you will never have a chance.

    If you think that it is your personality not to hit the south wall and not look back, you must fully feel that you will die if you don't have a chance, then you just wait and perform silently.

    Because. Waiting is also a kind of beauty, because you understand, so wait.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Does she know you like her?

    Change yourself a little.

    If she was still determined, there was no need to hold on.

    Keep yourself busy.

    Don't give yourself free time.

    Even when I'm free, think about work, study, and so on.

    Don't ask how she's doing.

    Don't always say anything about giving up, just give up.

    The more you say this, the more you will think about her more vividly.

    A friend of mine carved a forgotten word on his arm in order to forget something.

    Actually, it's not necessary, but it's another kind of reminder to remind yourself not to forget, because once you see it, you think about it once.

    I can't forget it.

    If you really want to forget, you must always tell yourself something, forget it, and give up.

    The more you do it, the more you remind yourself to remember.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How do you know she's 100% that kind to you? Sometimes I don't feel right at all.

    The so-called authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Ask your friends to help you.

    If you really don't feel it, you can try to move her.

    In short, if you really want to be with her. Gotta be with her. Then you have to take action.

    If you're already sure you want to give up. No more. Then I'll tell you. There is only one way. Time.

    The more you want to forget about someone. The more you can't go any further. When you want to remember someone. Maybe you can't even remember who she is.

    Don't get discouraged before you even start.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe she's a little interesting to you.

    Let's take a look.

    Maybe she'll accept you.

    Love over time is more likely to happen than love at first sight.

    The true love that a girl encounters is often different from the standard she set.

    So. Give it a try.

    If you really can't do it, just be friends.

    But don't change yourself for her.

    Because then it doesn't make sense for her to fall in love with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Did you tell her you liked her?

    I like someone who's four years older than me and has a boyfriend. But I like her, I know it's impossible, but I still can't help but miss her!

    Find something to do for yourself, you can forget for a while that she is not very easy to use but it works!!

    And if no one opposes you, you still can't forget her to chase her by all means! Can't regret it later!!

    I mean! I won't regret it in the future.

    Listen to what is in your heart and don't care what others think!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Here's a way for you. Discord! Maybe you find it strange. Make an effort to see the gaps. When you worry about her too much. And she was still indifferent. You'll forget about her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe. She doesn't like you, so you're going to have to change the transfer method.

    But that's under the pro-mine that you like her

    Oh, the earth doesn't stop spinning because of the lack of anyone.

    Hehe, time Jiule.

    You'll let it go yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I can understand your mood, I've been chasing for two years, and I'm still an ordinary friend, and it's not bad to talk about interesting things at ordinary times! A small gift is given on a birthday, sometimes it can't be opened, but think about it, maybe she will think of you when she is hurt, okay, why do you say that women are cheap! It's because I don't know how to cherish it, and after I lose it, I remember the good and bad of the past!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm the same, I've been like that for so long, I can't give up, I don't have to give up, just put it in my heart

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You know.

    Let's just think of her as a good friend

    Find a new significant other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Time will let you go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm the same, the one I like is going to another place now

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1...In fact, each of us yearns for love and hopes to stay with the person we love for a lifetime until we are old. However, this seemingly simple thing is actually realized, and some people even spend a lifetime looking for the love of their hearts.

    2...There are thousands of people in the world, and some people will say that as a woman, you must not compromise in love, because the love that you have won will not last long. Don't wronged yourself in love, you should understand these truths, then leave.

    3...In the future, you have to find someone who holds you in the palm of your hand to spend your life, and for the rest of your life, find someone who is your heart is what you should do. Life is long, find someone to walk with, if that person doesn't love you, such an unhappy love, what's the use of it.

    4...People have a long, long life, and you need to find someone who can make you laugh, understand all your little emotions, understand your troubles, and have similar interests. Human life seems to be very short, don't waste your limited time on people who don't deserve it.

    5...Love should be pleasing to each other, but in reality, there are many people who are constantly humbled for the people they love. Humble love is worthless in the eyes of the other party, so if you can't move him, then leave.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The person who doesn't like you is not yours in the first place, how can you give up if you don't have it? Don't be stupid, haven't you heard of it? You'll never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When people who love each other together, not everything is smooth sailing, and many times they need to go through a lot of twists and turns. If we are destined not to be able to walk together in the end, then we should learn to give up. Only by letting go can we have the opportunity to meet better people and let ourselves have a better life.

    Tools Raw material to give up like method Step 1 It is really hard and difficult to let yourself give up on someone who has been in love for many years. But it is not impossible to really come out, in short, it is necessary to make yourself so that you don't see and don't be cheap. Work hard, work hard to improve yourself, make yourself better, put your time into work, divert your attention, you will find that time is a wonderful thing, I thought I couldn't get out, and I really forgot it unconsciously.

    After separation, whenever you think about him again, let yourself count to 30 silently in your heart, and then slowly recall everything you did together, and ask yourself if it is worth it. When you really feel sad, just look at his ugly photos, so that you will find that, slowly, looking at you, it seems that you don't like him so much. Zhishu is very strong, and the copyright must be investigated, and without permission, you must not **3 want to let yourself give up a person who has been in love for many years, give yourself enough time, and don't let yourself always make excuses for his cold-bloodedness.

    If a person doesn't love, he doesn't love, there is no reason, it's just because he doesn't love. When you think about how gentle he is with another person, how cold he is with you, and what reason do you have to give everything for him. Everyone deserves better!

    I want to let myself give up a person who has been in love for many years, think back to his cold violence against you, his indifference to you, let yourself slowly become more calm, and stop silently paying attention to everything about him.

    He has nothing to do with you anymore, and when you endure the most pain, you will find that life is still very beautiful, and there will be someone who will love you and love you waiting for you in the future. Wanting to give up someone you've loved for many years is like quitting drugs. Only by making up your own mind and enduring pain and loneliness can you truly let go.

    Perhaps, when another person re-enters your heart, you will also find that sometimes people can live very chic and comfortable no matter who they leave. Don't let yourself always be nostalgic for the past, only you can free yourself.

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