Super big annoyance, what s your biggest annoyance?

Hehe, before reading my answer, I hope you can laugh twice, don't laugh heartily, just smile silently in your heart. Your question is actually very simple, two words - inferiority.

Everyone will have low self-esteem, no matter how successful he is, but there will always be things that he can't do, so there will be frustration and loss of confidence, but normal people will quickly adjust their mentality and continue to work hard, and there are also pessimistic people who will be depressed for a long time.

First of all, solve the problem of your own figure, 153, it is indeed short, please forgive me directly, but 40kg is not fat, maybe short people give people the feeling that the body shape is not very symmetrical, so a little fat, my suggestion is to pay attention to the diet structure, the fat of the limbs can be eliminated through some special exercises, and it may be related to the long-term standing working environment of your salesman, my feeling is that you are still young, there is still room for growth, adjust the mentality, pay attention to the combination of exercise and diet, The figure will improve.

The second is your psychological problem, which is a more serious aspect, your inferiority complex is very strong, in fact, in my opinion, your male colleague is just joking with you, but maybe people often laugh at you, so it leaves you with a psychological shadow, plus your own personality factors, causing you to be sad and cry when you encounter problems. This is not a solution to the problem, we should face the problem, should be optimistic and cheerful, of course, this is not a problem that can be solved in the short term, through more social interactions, mutual help from friends, more communication, exchanges, and self-psychological adjustment gradually improved.

As for the question of your life, I don't think there is any suspense, everyone has doubted whether their parents are in person, and when I was beaten by my parents when I was a child, I also doubted. But it's just a child's mentality. I think you should be able to understand that yourself.

As for whether your mother heard it or not, it doesn't matter, the mother knows her daughter best, and she won't blame or complain about you. A comfort, an apology may be fine.

As for the problem of your colleagues A and B, I think this is simpler, it's just people's curiosity, a very general state of mind, you believe in them, they support you, but when you are bored, you talk about these things, at least in my opinion, they care about you and comfort you, so you should treat them with a peaceful mind.

The last thing I want to say is to be confident in treating yourself, you have advantages that others don't have, everyone is the same, God is fair, but he didn't give you that advantage, but will give you this advantage, so, be confident, work hard, find a boyfriend if possible, communicate your feelings, enjoy the sweetness of love, gradually change your state of mind, and make yourself more confident. May you gradually perfect and find your self-confidence!

Shen ** points. Hehe...

Don't think so much, let those colleagues of yours like gossip and let them go to nonsense, don't have so many ideas because of someone else's words!

Isn't it just a sentence of "why don't you look like your mother"? What's the big deal, I was often told this when I was a child, why do you say you are so small-hearted? The next time a colleague comes over and says it, you treat her coldly so that she won't have a second time.

Don't befriend those who don't hide their mouths, and go home and have a good meal with your mother.

No need to explain, the mouth is open on someone else, you are in control?

It makes more sense to focus on giving back to your mom!

Small mm, this is a super big trouble! Hehe... First of all, don't take the words of that male colleague to heart, you can see that this man is a very uneducated person!

Why do you want to be like him? The next time your mom comes to your supermarket again, you must make a happy appearance in front of them, and praise your mom for how good she usually treats you, so that they can envy him too, and if you see that man, you can glare at him a few times! These glances are very important, staring at him in his heart, see if he dares to say such snarky words next time he sees you!

The last thing I want to tell you is that you will inevitably encounter unpleasant things in life and work, but you must face them optimistically! Have fun every day!

It's okay, it's that you're thinking too much.

Relax and everything will be fine.

Are you really careful, what's the matter, don't magnify, okay? You're so young mentally.

You're very thin, only 40 kilograms, that's quite thin, it's not a big deal, let those people gossip, ignore them.

How old are you this year? Children have a stage, just come over, do you believe you can?

Maybe you're thinking too much, and you know that everyone is under a lot of pressure at work now, and sometimes they just take it out for these things to have fun, of course they don't know how you feel in your heart. So next time you talk about it, don't open your mouth. After that, they won't talk about it.

I want to open a point. Am I still not in shape like my mom and dad? These are all acquired, don't take it too seriously.

Hope you're happy.

People have their own troubles, and some people tell me that people will have their own troubles in life, whether they are rich or poor, or whether they are old or young, everyone has their own troubles.

Although I don't know what the biggest human troubles are, I would like to say that everyone's troubles are different and cannot be compared.

Let me give you an example, the rich and the poor.

In poor families, they don't eat very well, and the clothes they wear occasionally go to buy a cheaper one during the holidays, you can wear it, you see of course they will think, how good it is to have money, don't worry about food and clothing, those dishes that they usually can't afford to eat look at them and feel sorry for them to discard themselves, their children may be very good, but they also have to consider his tuition fees, poverty may be their biggest trouble.

And in a wealthy family, there is always a good job to ** this family, there will be more busy times, maybe they have money, they can do some things that people can't do, they have a successful career, they have a smart mind, but they are extremely busy, they stay up late every day, they will think about their careers, whether there will be any problems in the economy, and in the face of the chart of risks at any time, their hearts will always be tense and have not relaxed for a moment. Even if the children in their family are accompanied by a nanny, they may lack the love of their relatives, and they may be easily spoiled because they are adopted by the elderly, and busyness may be their biggest annoyance.

When we go out into society, troubles will follow, and we will definitely have to face the troubles that arise from what we have done. It's really troublesome to have troubles, but what I hope is to solve problems, not only in practical problems, but also psychologically. Mental health is sometimes more harmful to people, if you don't eliminate the worries in your heart due to troubles, you will get some mental illness, and even lead to the proximity of death.

It can be seen that in this real society, mental health is also very important, while solving troubles, keep the body and mind happy, do something that can make you happy, sometimes it is better than doing it on the side, but don't be too lax.

That's all I have to say, I hope it can give you some inspiration, and I hope you can find out what you are struggling with right now, and maybe you can be more beneficial to yourself. And in 2015, work harder. Happy New Year.

My biggest problem right now is that my children are always writing and playing every time they do their homework.

A lot of everyone's troubles are different.

(I don't think you're very fat, 160 tall, and it's only the second year of junior high school, drink more milk, eat more eggs, and you will grow taller, my sister grew 7 cm from the third year of junior high school to the first year of high school, I was also 55 kg at that time, and now I don't look fat, I just drink a lot of milk and eat a lot of eggs). I'll tell you a true story, I have a classmate in elementary school, she was so fat since she was a child, and boys scolded her for being a fat pig, and then after she graduated from high school, I was shocked, she grew taller, also about 160, her body is not fat, she is relatively plump, and there are many suitors, what my sister wants to tell you is that you are still young now, and you are not fully developed, and the more girls grow up, the better they will be. Secondly, if you are not good at math, there can be a way, you must not rush to take notes when you take math class, you must follow the teacher's ideas, reflect what the teacher said in your own mind, synchronize your imagination in your own mind, do the problem again after class, prepare a wrong question book, accumulate classic question types, do not question sea tactics, I think it is important to copy one or two classic excerpts from each type of question, and at the same time do not rely too much on the computer, and exercise the ability of oral arithmetic.

For your love, I want to tell you, this is your adolescent ignorance, I used to like a person in junior high school who liked it very much, and then he fell in love with another person in our class, I was very sad, and then I met a better person than him in college, that is, my current husband, I was thinking, if I didn't even read the book because of that boy at that time, it would be a pity. I think the most important thing for you to study now is struggle, you are still young, you are a girl, your years can't stand the consumption, I believe in my sister, study hard now, and there will be perfect love in the future. As for what you like to read**, you can get a library card to borrow books, and don't indulge in **.

1.There will always be such people around us, and we can't avoid it. The only way is to make our hearts extremely strong, and to ignore those words and be sad because of the ridicule of others.

2.If you don't do math well, is it the end of the world I also read an article Girls who can't learn math are good girls.

Since you are not good at math, you should not be afraid, turn your grief and anger into strength, and work hard to learn well.

3.It's not your fault that you are quiet Everyone has their own character.

4.The first is self-confidence, how to increase your confidence if you can't even believe yourself.

Believe in yourself, whether it's right or wrong, what's the big deal if you're wrong?

5.Hearts need to be confided, always piled up, can become heart disease.

6.Sometimes, it's not that we get too little, it's that we want too much.

All troubles are self-inflicted.

If you open your mind, you can be happy.

Learn to be strong, don't be influenced too much by other people, and the classmate who laughs at you is not directed at you, but he himself wants to be noticed by others. You can be friends with different personalities, but if you don't want to go, you can say it directly. Confidence is cultivated by experience, and you can learn a lot by communicating with the people around you.

1.You're really not fat. 2.

Math This situation is similar to mine, but I have always been in the left ear and out of the right ear, ignoring him, and studying hard in private to see what he says after I get a good score in the exam. 3.If the personality is not compatible, it will not be able to play together, it is better to go to their own place, and it is not a broken relationship.

4.This homework, I personally think it's better to think about it yourself, if it's wrong, absorb the essence and it's good next time. 5.

The best way to forget someone is to fall in love. 6.It's good to read more books.

In fact, we are always annoyed by some trivial things in life, and there is no way to do it, not to take it too seriously, in fact, that's it.

This colleague's troubles are similar to mine, but you are much more serious than me, I think you can not think about it when you are annoyed, such as me!

One: Every time I am annoyed, I will go to find a place to look at such a beautiful scenery there, and slowly calm my mood.

Two: And when I am annoyed, I will use work to numb myself, that is, I don't let my hands stop, so that the troubles in my heart will naturally disappear, and I don't always think about these troublesome things in my heart!

Three: And do you have any hobbies? I love drawing!

Every time it's annoying. I would take out the stickers and draw them according to the characters, every time I was troubled. Thinking about this in my heart, while drawing, I draw beautifully every time I am troubled, and the troubles in my heart are dissipated a lot!

Well, everyone is born with troubles. There is no such thing as more or less, the key lies in your own state of mind. Tune in to your emotions.

Calm your mind. Those worries will naturally calm down. You should be relaxed.

Don't get too attached to what's in front of you. Sometimes, calming yourself down is the best way to get rid of your worries.

(I'm also annoyed by your troubles.) Let me send you a message, "You can change someone with a smile, but don't let someone change your smile." Some people and things are worth caring about, and some should be decisively discarded" For example, if the child wants to trip you and ignore him directly, he will feel bored after a few times, and put away his hooves.

There is also growing up, the road is still far away, and there will be many people and many things, and some should be used as memories to stop being nostalgic, so it is just increasing the psychological burden on yourself.

Also, if you're upset and upset, write it down when no one has anyone to talk to, and it will feel much easier.