Who will solve my troubles, and what are my troubles???

First of all, you need to understand that your outward actions come from your inner heart. If you want to solve your problem fundamentally, you have to start from the heart, and it's like a tree that doesn't have good fruit, and you have to cut it down, and if you just cut down its trunk, it will grow again after a while, because its roots are still there. So, if you don't root out your problem, your problem won't be solved.

Don't think you're a waste, a trash, a depraved, a childish person. Judging by what you wrote, you are a person who wants to improve yourself, and you recognize some of your shortcomings. However, getting rid of these shortcomings is like mountaineering, which requires you to overcome the bumps under your feet, and you need to walk step by step, which is a gradual process, and you can't step from the foot of the mountain to the top of the mountain in one step!

Haste makes waste! Take it easy!

As for your studies, the future. It's up to you, because no one else can learn for you. Only what you learn belongs to you.

You have to ask yourself, what discipline do you like? What are you good at? You say you don't know what you're going to do in the future because you don't have a direction, you don't have a goal.

Imagine if you were going on a trip and didn't decide where you wanted to go, would you be where you would be? So, you have to choose where you want to go and take action (which is also important, because even if you have a goal and you don't do it, you will still be in the current situation).

As for how you should act, it also depends on your destination. If you're going to Hainan now, are you walking? Bicycle?

Car? Train? Plane?

Steamship? Or a spaceship? So, to go to different places, choose the right means of transportation.

How to measure it, or decide for yourself.

Solve your own troubles!

The university should be cherished, maybe no matter how much you say, there will not be too many feelings, and when you walk out of the university gate like we are now, you will find that the memories are so precious, as if you can sit in the teacher and feel it again, as if you can learn something desperately, I always feel that my brain is not enough, and I really regret that I have not been exposed to more knowledge; It seems that I can live in a dormitory again, talk nonsense with a group of buddies, and walk into the society only to find that the campus is so pure, and the communication between people in this society needs to be too complicated to deal with. It is good to know how to cherish what is in front of you, there is no absoluteness in everything, as long as you live a full day and learn something (even if it is a side door in the eyes of others), you will find it so useful after a long time. Cherish every day!

We will meet by fate. Don't give up!

A little salt in youth.

Stepping through the singing flower season and the poetic rainy season, I suddenly found that the laughter and sadness of the past have been quietly placed on the pillow side of the old days, and the magnificent red glow in my eyes when I was a child was taken away by the geese who returned late, and there was a lack of naughty and innocent brilliance in my eyes. I don't know when the former qin, chess, calligraphy and painting, wind and snow and moon have become firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the future of the career, for the previous mouth chanted "the sunset is infinitely good, but it is just near dusk", now it seems to be just a new word and ink that is forced to say sorrow.

However, the price of growing up has brought me a lot of real troubles ......

With the passage of time, under the teaching of the trinity of today's society, school and parents, a solid belief has been laid in the hearts of every student. If you want to realize your dreams, you first need to ———get ahead" in four words, so there is a strong competitive atmosphere. Although there is no victorious general in the world, but when I recall my "Waterloo" again and again, the feeling of loss will slowly hit my heart, especially in the third year of high school, in the face of the college entrance examination that is competing for hundreds of streams, and the reality of determining the future with scores, a loss will bring a fight and new troubles.

As a young man, I pondered why an excellent student who had always been evaluated by his teachers as well-rounded would miss out on the votes of trust of his classmates again and again, and troubles were my only friend during those unforgettable days. But real life has taught me that as long as you are a little more humble, a little less arrogant, and a little more loving, the warm hand of your friends will eventually reach out to you, and this growing pain has taught me the art of dating.

I'm also out of adolescence now, but I don't have any worries.

Because every time I have troubles, I will confide in my friends My friends will listen to me very carefully and help me analyze after speaking, in fact, when you are open-minded and frank, you will find that I can also be innocent and unrestrained when I am a child, and it is inevitable that I will encounter some troubles when I am in adolescence.

My advice is that I hope you can teach your friends sincerely.

I used to have few real friends, everyone wanted to pit some benefits from me, I was very generous at that time, as long as I had money, others asked me to buy them food or something, I would usually sell it to them, but in the end, I found out that they didn't regard me as a friend at all.

But now, I really taught some good friends, they are very good to me, oh, I hope you can face it as calmly as I do, so that there will be no worries.

Since you want to make friends, you just want to chat and relieve boredom! Actually, I have the same troubles as you! That's like I learned!

Don't care too much about what others think, always praise yourself! Self-confidence is boastful! Since others don't care about us, then we can't treat ourselves badly!

Changed. Just keep your innocence. Don't give up on yourself for the sake of others!

Growing up is like a small boat in my life, sailing on the waves. Sometimes the wind is calm and the waves are calm, and sometimes there are rough waves. But my growth boat has not been smooth sailing, and it has also experienced various turmoil.

For me, it's sweet and sour, it's all about it.

Now, because I have grown up and am becoming an adult, in the eyes of my parents, I am no longer a child, I have become conscious, courageous, and knowledgeable. Sometimes, they say "You've grown up!" "You're no longer a kid!"

It makes my head hurt when I hear it. No matter what I do now, I must first recognize the "compass needle", I must have principles in my body, I can't be sloppy, I can't be careless, if I have a slight mistake, it will cause a snowstorm at any time.

When I think back to when I was young, life was easy, carefree, and at ease, and there were no worries around me at all. But as the years passed, the waves in front of me became bigger, the sea became more twists and turns, and I became a schoolboy, and I was gone with the old one. I'm taller, I've been going to school for a long time, I've gone home with more homework, I've got more subjects, I've got heavier bags on my shoulders, and the pressure on my heart has increased.

If I was a child, no matter what I did wrong, no one would blame me, plus my parents were my "guides". But now that I have grown up, I am sensible, I have to adapt, and I have to be careful and think twice before I do anything. This is also gradually distanced from the leisurely days when I was a child.

When I was a child, although I was more comfortable in my life, I was constrained by my elders and others everywhere, and when I walked, I had my parents with me. I fell, and I was supported by my parents. But I know that when I grow up, I will become an adult, which is different from when I was a child. Just like me now, I am gradually growing, and I already have my own opinions about everything.

The sun is always after the wind and rain, how can you succeed if you don't experience the wind and rain? Although my growth boat is unstable, there are calm and turbulent waves, but it is also all kinds of turbulent waves that have allowed me to learn a lot and exercise a lot. Through my journey of growth, I really realized that growing up has some troubles, but there are more joys. Hope.