How can you do a good job of popularity? The long point of hope!!

In fact, sometimes a good interpersonal relationship starts from the details... A smile every day, a greeting... It's been a long time, it's a sense of intimacy...

Try to pay attention to the details ... For example, whether the tone of speech is cordial... See if others have difficulties and offer to help... Did you chat with anyone today (no matter who took the initiative to chat a few words...) A simple Q&A can also be the first step in friendship...

Relationships are built step by step...

If you want to join a group, you can first build friendships with the opinion leaders of that group...

Credit is the most important, when you promise others to do something, then others will think you are reliable, followed by kindness, and then there is tolerance.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

Good popularity can give us some help in study, work or life, and good popularity is not born with, but accumulated through long-term understanding and continuous learning and progress. So, how to make your popularity better? Let's learn together!

Be sincere and respect each other. When getting along with others, you must be honest with each other, not hypocritical, and let others feel that you are sincere and safe; In addition, we must respect others, learn to push ourselves and others, and feel the feelings of the other person.

Polite, easy-going, humble. Such a person will give people an inexplicable sense of closeness, and it is more comfortable to get along with, and will not make people have a sense of distance, and they are willing to be close, and they are more popular when they go to the **. Series.

Be tolerant and generous, and don't care. "The sea is tolerant of all rivers, and tolerance is great", the sea is wide to accommodate many rivers, and the broad-mindedness can accommodate everything. Be a tolerant and generous person, don't be careful, don't be greedy for small gains, don't be afraid of losses, I believe everyone likes to contact with such people, take Zheng Yin!

Humorous and funny. Usually read more books, learn more knowledge, master some language communication skills, cultivate a wide range of hobbies, and make yourself an interesting and interesting person.

Make yourself a useful person. People are always willing to be close to people who are more capable than themselves, because in this way, they can not only get help when they are in trouble, but also motivate themselves to become better. Therefore, if you want to make yourself popular, you must work hard to enrich yourself, make yourself better, and make yourself a useful person.

Despise copying! Good popularity is what you usually do, so that everyone is satisfied! If it's better in the relationship, everyone likes it! `

But there is a point.

Everyone's popularity is not complete, that is, it cannot be perfect!

Do you know who I am, in fact, I'm not as popular as you, but I don't have a lot of friends now, in fact, this kind of thing is popularity, mainly depends on whether your personality is cheerful, of course, you are not beautiful, and handsome or not, but this is not the main thing, as long as you have a tolerant heart, and a kind heart, you will make friends no matter what, you say that I am right, I wish you to make more friends.

The more we know how to respect others, the more we know how to care for others, the more naturally others will care about you.

Favors are actually a kind of investment, and it has long been said that learning to invest in favors is the most needed social etiquette for adults. Sending warmth and care within the scope of our ability can invisibly help us increase our popularity.

However, I would like to remind you that the effect of giving favors is not the same as over-pleasing others. The effect of giving favors is based on the scope of one's own ability, and it is a situation of mutual equality and mutual assistance.

Article**3 and excessive pleasing of others is a forgetting of self-worth, and it is a practice of inner humility in exchange for self-esteem by pleasing others.

The more we know how not to care about these things, the more we can let others see our inner generosity and self-cultivation.

When we interact with people, we must know how to suppress first and then promote, know how to lower the thoughts of others first, and then provide better results, so that others will see your reliable quality more.

The face-saving effect is the unspoken rule of interpersonal communication, and some people have low emotional intelligence, which is often due to not knowing how to give face to others, liking to criticize others, and even criticizing others in front of many people, these are not the practices of saving face.

Good luck and happiness.