How can parents and teachers communicate well?

Education is now a very important topic for every family. <>

Because children are the hope of every family, every family hopes to train their children to become talents, but some children perform well in school, and some students perform very well in school.

If you want to discipline your child, first of all, you need to know what advantages and disadvantages your child has. How did you do in class? Did you listen carefully to the teacher's lectures at school?

Therefore, it is necessary to communicate with the teacher in a timely manner, so that you can understand the student's performance at home, what kind of temperament and temperament you have at home, and whether you have completed your homework seriously.

This is also very important for the teacher, who can develop a learning plan based on the child's performance at home and at school.

However, with the development of society, there is a great gap between many teachers and parents, and they do not know each other very well, so the lack of communication between parents and teachers has become the top priority in today's education industry.

In fact, teachers also hope that parents can communicate more with teachers, and with the joint efforts of home and school, children will become better!

If the child has any shortcomings, or is incorrect, after communicating with each other at home and school, at home and at school, start to let the child get rid of this bad problem.

Whether it is in life or in learning, let children do it and do it perfectly.

Nowadays, communication tools are becoming more and more developed, and parents can communicate with teachers on WeChat, QQ, or by calling ** or going to school.

No matter which method of communication is used, I believe that teachers and parents are more reasonable. You can come up with a perfect plan to target your child and make him better.

In fact, the premise of communication is to have the same purpose and wish, as long as teachers and parents have the desire to consider the future of their children, when communicating, consider things from the other party's point of view.

First of all, parents, as parents, trust more to teachers. This kind of parents are generally divided into two situations, always afraid that the teacher will be too strict with the child and worried that the teacher will not care about their child. The teacher's responsibility is to teach and educate people, and where the child is not doing right, he will definitely criticize education.

At this time, the first type of parents think that the teacher is bullying their children because they are too strong in motherhood, and parents who are like this kind of excitement, let alone don't communicate with the teacher, and it's lucky not to quarrel. In addition, each teacher and each school have their own different education methods, and some teachers may like to educate people with morality and will not put too much pressure on students in other aspects. The second type of parents will think that the teacher is irresponsible, and we can understand the mood of hoping that the child will become a dragon, but since we hand over the child to the teacher, then we don't need to be suspicious, and we don't doubt it.

If teachers educate their students as if they were their own children, I think that when communicating with parents, it will be more like communicating with parents, and of course the effect will be better. Teachers may be more interested in their children's academic performance than parents, as this is directly related to their salary evaluation. But when you are a teacher who teaches and educates people, you only care about teaching and neglect educating people, maybe your child's grades will not improve much, but it will make your child hate you, if your child inadvertently mentions that he doesn't like you in front of his parents.

Even if your intentions are good, I think parents will be upset.

The communication between parents and teachers must be for the good of the child, but now there is a very common phenomenon, that is, the teacher has a paragraph, because the child has made a mistake, and the purpose of directly asking the parents to take them is not very pure. Of course, they also want to reflect the child's bad things to the parents and hope that the child will correct it, but the parents' understanding is not so simple, they will think that the teacher is asking them for money. At this time, once a child's parent is invited to school, the parent will definitely prepare some red envelopes or gifts to meet the teacher.

Once the parent appears, and the teacher calls her to go over to the psychology of wanting to receive red envelopes, then the parents and the teacher must not communicate well.

Therefore, if you want parents to communicate well with teachers, you need parents to have a correct mentality, and make them think that teachers call them so that their children can do better, improve their academic performance, and improve all aspects. To change the wrong thinking of parents, they can't make him think that the teacher called him to receive red envelopes. There may be some teachers who deviate from this concept, but I believe that most teachers still communicate with parents for the good of their children, and the way to make a child excellent is to communicate with parents and teachers frequently.

Because the child is in the school is in the hands of his teacher, but he still relies on the parents at home, only the two parties cooperate with each other to let the child improve everything. <>

When the teacher calls the parents, he should explain to the parents that I called you just to reflect the recent situation of your child, not to let you criticize the child, nor to ask you for a red envelope, and to directly explain these words. When parents give red envelopes to teachers, the teacher's attitude of refusal must be resolute. In this way, parents will think that the teacher's purpose of looking for them is simpler, and they will face up to their child's mistakes.

Methods of communication between parents and teachers:

1. Find time.

Communicating with teachers and finding the right time is the key to success. A teacher has to manage dozens of children in the class, and also has to prepare lessons, attend classes, correct homework, plus school meetings and activities, almost busy. Before communicating with the teacher, parents can make an appointment with the teacher on WeChat or SMS.

2. Focused.

Many parents also communicate with teachers frequently, but most of the time they are chatting and the conversation is not focused. The focus of the conversation with the teacher should be the child's learning situation, character development, life situation, etc. When communicating, try to be concise and focused, so that the purpose is achieved without being annoying.

3. Don't be strong.

No matter what your status is, you should pay attention to your attitude when communicating with your teachers, and even if you disagree, you should adopt a gentle attitude and tactful words. Don't get emotional as soon as you come up, and open your mouth full of guns, not only do you not achieve the purpose of communication, but also leave a bad impression on the teacher, this kind of communication is basically ineffective communication.

4. Respect teachers.

When communicating with teachers, we must respect the profession of teachers. The state is very strict with the management of teachers, and it is not recommended to communicate with teachers by inviting guests and giving gifts, which will make teachers in a dilemma.

5. Cooperation. After communicating with the teacher, we will work together to study and improve the educational method. We need to understand and understand the difficulties of the teacher, and cooperate with the teacher's work, which is the purpose of communication.

How should parents communicate properly with teachers? 1. Parents take the initiative to communicate Parents face their children one-on-one, but teachers need to face dozens or hundreds of students at the same time, and it is normal for teachers to be negligent sometimes. For this reason, as parents, we should still take the initiative to keep in touch with the teacher, keep abreast of the child's situation at school, and also give feedback on the child's situation at home, and cooperate with the teacher's work.

2. Trust and respect for teachers Trust and respect are the prerequisites for effective communication, parents should first trust and respect teachers, communicate in a timely manner when encountering problems, and do not question teachers in front of children when encountering conflicts, so as not to affect children's respect for teachers. 3. Parents are the first responsible persons for their children's education Parents have unshirkable responsibilities and obligations for their children's education and training. Parents should first make it clear that they are the first responsible person for their children's education, and take the initiative to maintain communication and interaction with teachers to jointly educate their children to develop in a better direction.

4. Control the frequency and time of communication Compared with the "shirking responsibility" of many parents, more parents are too worried about their children's situation, and they have to find a teacher every once in a while. It is good for parents to care about their children, but they should also pay attention to controlling the time and frequency, after all, the teacher needs to deal with more than just one parent, and pay attention to avoid the teacher's break time, the communication process is concise and to the point, and the other party's time is wasted. Message:

Children's education requires the joint efforts of parents and teachers, in addition to learning about the child's situation from the teacher, smart parents will also reflect the child's situation at home to the teacher in a timely manner, and communicate with each other, so as to educate the child together!

Parents and teachers can communicate with each other, they can send messages, and they can also go to the school to communicate with the teacher face-to-face about some of the student's situation and some problems he found.

Communicate based on the actual problem.

How do you communicate with the teacher? It should be communicated specifically according to some of the child's circumstances.

Sometimes we don't always communicate well, and there is a generation gap in terms of culture.

If the child's test score is poor, first of all, the teacher must be in a very bad mood, so he must bear the teacher's emotions first, so he saidYour child's poor test scores affect the class, and you must feel sad that the effort spent has not been rewarded. Then think about a solution that promises change, such as:

I plan to put some thought into finding out what my child is doing; Take the initiative to urge children to leave homework for each subject teacher every day, and first complete it carefully, so that children can learn to think actively. Then form a closer interaction with the teacher, understand the child's problems in school, and urge corrections. I hope that in the near future, he will form a good study method and improve his ranking in the next exam

By taking on emotions and committing to change, let the teacher know that you understand his hard work and are willing to cooperate with the teacher to make the child progress.

Children's growth is inseparable from family and school; It's all about making children grow up better. When you encounter the situation that the subject says, you have to communicate well. There must be a reason for bad grades, is it because you are not serious in class?

Or can't you remember the knowledge? Parents and teachers need to go to **.

If both parties understand and respect each other on the premise that they do not shirk their responsibilities and are responsible for the healthy growth of their children, then the communication between parents and teachers will not become so difficult.

Parents and teachers communicate, in fact, with the development of some means of communication, it is relatively easy for parents to communicate with teachers.

First of all, now the general teacher will build a WeChat group for students and students' parents, especially students, parents, they will establish a parent ***, the teacher will regularly post some of the school's homework and some school dynamics in the group, plus as long as you pay attention to the WeChat group in time. Of course, sometimes the teacher may send some children's individual situations to parents separately, and parents can communicate with the teacher step by step as long as they reply to the teacher's messages in a timely manner. Of course, a teacher may have to face several students, generally there are about 40 students in a class, and some teachers may also be responsible for the curriculum of several classes, so often the teacher is responsible for near, 100 students, so parents and teachers should pay attention to the communication, the teacher's time can be asked in advance when the teacher can facilitate communication, if you can communicate, it is best to communicate more conveniently and directly.

In addition, for the communication between parents and teachers, I think parents should be more proactive, usually pay more attention to observe the child's performance at home and in school, as well as the learning status of each course of the child, as well as whether the child has brought, there are some particularly sensitive places in the school, because after all, for parents there is only one child, that is, parents are 100% invested in their children, and for teachers, a teacher may be responsible for dozens of students, relative to each student, Even if the teacher is 100% committed, it will only be about 2% experience. Therefore, if you find that there is something wrong with your child, parents can take the initiative to communicate with the teacher, you can make an appointment with the teacher first, or you can go to school, anyway, the means of communication are still relatively developed.

In the communication with the teacher, pay more attention to listen to the teacher's evaluation of the child, as well as the child's performance in school, as a parent should actively cooperate with the teacher, be able to properly guide and pay attention to the child's growth, and work with the teacher to ** a better education method for the child.

What are the skills of teachers in communicating with parents?

Analyzing parents is homework.

Teachers communicate with different parents, who have different cultural levels, family backgrounds, and personality characteristics, so the tone and methods used to communicate with parents are also different. Before communicating with parents, do your homework before communicating.

That is, to have a certain understanding and analysis of parents, so that they can be confident and calmly deal with it. When dealing with grumpy parents, the tone should be softened, and those parents who are indifferent to their children need to be firm and ......

Communication is the way.

For more acute problems, it is a more rational measure to use ** communication, such as the teacher hit the student because of emotion at work, in this case, ** communication can be used to explain the reason to the parents.

Admit your mistakes and seek forgiveness from your parents to avoid any confrontation with your parents. When students make serious mistakes at school, communication can also ease the emotions of parents first, so as to avoid parents from fighting their children because of their emotions!