How to comfort a girl who has fallen out of love, how to comfort a girl who has fallen out of love

You don't just want to be comforted, you want to take his boyfriend's place, don't you?

Send her a love poem "love", have you ever seen it? There are a lot of philosophical words in it. Just search for it.

It's OK to help her introduce one.

First of all, we need to understand the personality and wishes of our friends, everyone has different personalities and different styles of doing things. Some people like not to say anything after falling out of love, and some people like to find friends to vent and vomit quickly, so we have to do different measures according to different friends.

If your friend has a straightforward personality and likes to vomit quickly, you can find a suitable place, such as home, and buy a few bottles of wine; For example, barbecue stalls, skewers, and beer; Then you start and listen quietly, and be a quiet emotional trash can.

If your friend is introverted, encounters things, especially unpleasant things, and likes to be bored in your heart, then you can say nothing, just go to a KTV box, and a few people are crazy about singing; You can make an appointment together and go out to eat.

If you have other hobbies, such as swimming, such as yoga, such as dancing, such as jogging, such as playing guitar, such as playground madness. Wait, when you fall out of love, you can ask them to spend more energy on these hobbies, so that they can not only strive for excellence, but also be less sad about the lovelorn.

What needs to be shared here is that no matter what kind of personality your friend belongs to, no matter whether he has the intention to talk about his love or not, once he falls out of love, he will inevitably be hurt and sentimental, and venting is definitely needed. It's just that everyone has a different way of venting, and you have to find the right way to comfort them.

There is one more point that needs everyone's attention. When you are out of love, when your friend says something about your ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend that makes you express your opinion, don't say bad things about the other person, and try to use a pertinent tone. This kind of bad thing about an ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend can only be said by the parties themselves, as friends, we say it, maybe it will make friends disgusted, and even speak ill of each other, after all, when you fall out of love, anything can happen.

The girl you like is out of love, and the best way to comfort her is to accompany her silently. Listen to her confide, only when the girl vents her bad emotions will she be well released.

Tell me about my experiences:

My third cousin is a person who is more in love, and he is the child of my second aunt's family. Maybe it's because I've experienced a lot, or I've read a lot of books in this area, so I'm really handy in falling in love.

He liked a girl in the class, but because the girl was in love, he didn't bother, just silently blessed him. Later, as time changed, suddenly the girl became depressed, and my cousin learned through others that she had fallen out of love. At this time, the cousin was not in a hurry, but just comforted her like an ordinary friend, accompanied her, and let the girl confide.

Slowly as time passed, the girl's mood was relieved, and the two of them were able to chat normally. At this time, the cousin showed love and concern, instead of staying at the level of understanding at the beginning. The girl also felt that her cousin was kind to her, but her cousin didn't want to be a spare tire, so he mastered it just right, and after about five months, the two of them were together smoothly.

In short, comforting a girl does require skill, not in a hurry, from the initial understanding of listening, slowly becoming loving, this is a good process. Because people are in the process of getting along, their feelings are warmed up.