Can I wait until he turns back Continued 1 10

The experience of the landlord and mine is relatively similar, you have to understand that you are not a puppet that others can only think of when they are hurt. It's not a reserve army that others think of when they can't find comfort from their lovers. You wait for him to be able to, set a deadline for yourself, and don't let him dictate your life.

That's how I came, and after waiting for half a year, what he gave me was always the sentence "Wait for me, and when I find a suitable reason, I'll break up with her, and it's almost over!" "In the end, I chose to give up.

You have your way to go, you have your youth, you have to plan for the future for yourself, and endlessly waiting to be good to him will only make him get used to it and make him think that what you do for him is what you deserve. It's to compensate for your willfulness in the first place. Let him enjoy everything you do for him.

And he won't necessarily come back. Do you think it's worth it?

If he still loves you, why bother to find someone's faults? If he really loves you, he will definitely come back to you immediately. Now, what is it?

If you really can't let him go, give him the last chance, remember, it's the last time, oh, if he hurts you once, then don't think about it. You are definitely not love in his heart, maybe it is like a tool for healing, it is only temporary, not long-lasting.

I think if this kind of problem happened to someone else, you wouldn't be so confused.

Although you were with him first, your current identity is still a third party. It's not your fault, you're just trying to make up what you've lost.

But your boyfriend, he's hurting two girls like that.

I hope you can talk to him and don't let him do this kind of thing of stepping on two boats, for him, for you, and for that innocent girl.

In addition, although I know that it is not good to say this, I still have a little suspicion: your boyfriend may suspect that you have only become so good to win him back, so he does not dare to give up on that girl, and he is also borrowing that girl to enjoy your kindness to him.

Either way, it's up to you to do it!

Admire you, wait until I'm done with your question.

People are cheap by themselves.

Torture yourself.

My first love is probably the person I like the most. I liked him for three years and three months. A lot of things happened in between, and we had very happy times and very difficult moments together, including my parents who didn't have a good impression of him, didn't like him, and wanted me to break up with him.

But I kept holding on, and I thought I would wait until the day my parents relented. It's a pity that I didn't wait for the day when my parents let go, but for his new girlfriend. And his new girlfriend was already with him when we didn't break up.

All the previous likes of that socks turned into resentment, and I even thought about getting revenge on him. Of course, no.

As a result, I took the psychological counselor qualification certificate six months after I broke up. Why do you want to get a psychological counselor certificate? It was so painful, but the psychiatrist I could find couldn't cure my pain, so I thought about self-medicine.

Now that I think about it, I am really grateful to myself at that time, I made a wise choice, turned my grief and anger into motivation, and the loss of love made my second career a reality. Later, I met people who were as persistent and liking as I was at the beginning.

Having said that. In fact, the meaning I want to express is very simple: many times the arrangement that God gives you is the best arrangement. At any time, don't stop moving forward. Because the happiness that truly belongs to you is likely to be waiting for you just around the next corner.