What is it like to have a smart child?

What's the experience? I just feel that if I have any regrets, then they are all filled. I seem to have grown up in a daze when I was a child, and when I recall my childhood or youth, there are always a lot of unrealistic places.

It's like having a dream, or being groggy and watching a movie. With a child, watching her grow up every day is like going through the process of growing up again. Watching her read the story reminds her of the story she read when she was a child.

Watching her play the piano, I remembered that I learned the piano when I was a child. Taking her on a trip also seems to recall that he was wandering around as a child. Before I didn't have her, I was always thinking about my broken and incomparable growth time, Why am I the way I am.

On such a basis there will be a lot of conjecture, a lot of doubts, a lot of uncertainties. However, with her, I grew up little by little from a small dough, and every day is different, with similar eyebrows and eyes to you, and a similar personality. But the preferences are different.

Then all the doubts about you are explained. Oh, that's how you grew up like her. It is the pull of time, the nourishment of stories, and the love of elders.

You gain a sense of steadiness, feel the true temperature of life, and don't worry about passing away with the wind one day, and you don't need to doubt the value of your existence. However, it doesn't seem to have anything to do with being smart and beautiful, haha The existence of every life is unique, and it is lucky to be able to come to the world for a walk! Happy Children's Day to all children

complained to his three-year-old and four-month-old daughter: Baby, dad is so hungry, your mother doesn't cook for dad. Daughter:

I'll make it for you. Ran over and took my mother's hand: Mom's baba is so hungry, I will cook for it.

Mom waved: Go, go, go. Ran to the refrigerator, opened the refrigerator, took out the noodles and jumped to the kitchen, and there were words in his mouth:

I help my dad cook, I can do it, I'm a big kid...Go to the kitchen, take a basin and take half a bowl of water, and pour it into the pot (who told her the process?). Then shout: Mom, Mom, fire, I can't get it.

Her mother came over and lit a fire. She ran out again and opened the refrigerator: Dad wanted tomatoes.

Take a tomato and go into the kitchen: Mom helped me cut it, (the kitchen knife) is dangerous. (I told her earlier that she couldn't hold a kitchen knife, it was dangerous, and I thought she didn't remember.)

Mom is cutting tomatoes, she is about to take noodles and put them in the pot on the side, Mom: Baby can't put it first, the water is not boiling, boiling water is very dangerous, Mom will help you put it well. Daughter:

All right. The noodles are cooked, and my mother is scooping up the noodles, and she runs out: Dad and Dad are cooked and eaten.

During the meal, he confessed vigorously: Dad, Dad, I made it, I grew up, and I can cook for Dad. Dad, can I still cook for you?

Dad, I'll make you rice tomorrow. After eating: Dad, I'm going to wash the dishes, so ?..

Daddy, I can wash the dishes. Holding his bowl in both hands, he carefully went to the sink, stepped on the small stool, and picked up the plastic gloves: Dad put them on for me.

Lift the faucet, take the bowl and wipe it under the faucet, half paid, Dad, I'm done washing. And then the excitement of the whole night, kept selling cute: Dad, am I cute?

Dad, I'll make you rice, Dad, will I wash the dishes? Dad, I grew up.

I couldn't be happier I accompany her every day to make delicious food, tease her father, dress her in all kinds of beautiful little dresses, comb her beautiful hairstyle, and go shopping with her with a 300% return rate. Teach her to play games, urge her to practice skills, she has become a smart god to take me to play, and I will accompany her to learn something according to her interests in the future, **Art or academic can be, I enjoy my time with her. I've taught her how to protect herself, how to deal with the pursuits of the stinky boys, and so on.

Come on my mom's behalf. To outsiders: My daughter is a doctor!

Very smart and beautiful, like me! ......Haha, how can it be as good as you say? Haha......To me:

It's because I gave birth to a daughter that I was looked down upon by your grandmother and bullied by your aunt! ......You're so useless! ......You don't respect me at all!

So many people die every day, why don't you die?! ...Do you see you look like me? are all like your grandma, none of the children born by your grandma are beautiful, they are all crooked melons and cracked dates!

To Da Meng: You don't know, your mother didn't clean up at all when she was a child, she was stupid, and her grades were not good! (Not really!)

Or are you smart! Your mother's fried food is also unpalatable! It's still delicious to be fried by grandma, isn't it?

You see you are so handsome, like grandpa, like grandma! By the way, you have to learn from your little uncle, you see how powerful he is, with more than 680 points in the college entrance examination! What the?

Are you going to learn from your mom? Learn what she does, you didn't see her college entrance examination! You didn't see your little uncle?

It's okay, when you come to grandma's house, grandma will take you to find him and learn from him! Hey, how did you go? (Good go!)

To Meng Dad: Don't look at her beautiful now, when she is thirty or forty, her body is so swollen that she is not as good as me! Now I can't figure out if I'm qualified to answer this question.

When I was two years old, I was cooking in the kitchen and she watched the adventures of her beloved Dora in the living room. I cut my finger and whispered "oops", but the child who was watching TV intently heard it and immediately ran over from the living room: Mom, what's wrong with you?

Seeing me sitting on the kitchen chair with my wound pinched, she sat down next to me, and I said, "Mommy is fine, you can continue watching TV." She shook her head:

No, Mom is hurt, and I'm here to stay with you.

When I was in my early twos, I would look in the mirror and ask, "Dad, do you think I'm pretty?" Then he asked, "Dad, did you say I was your own child?" In the eyes of all fathers, their daughters are smart, cute and beautiful.

The wife is like jade, the daughter is like a flower, the call of the early morning and the gossip under the lamp, thinking about it, will make people stupid; - Don't ask me how I feel, older unmarried man. Dai Wangshu wrote, it's best not to ask Dai Wangshu in a hurry, he has been dead for decades. So why am I writing this? Well, that's true.

Some children are very clever, they can read the faces of adults, and then they can do something to get praise from adults. Such children seem to be smart, but this kind of child is not born, but is cultivated by parents, so parents must pay attention to the cultivation of their children, so that they can make their children smarter and smarter.

Many parents envy other people's children, thinking that other people's children are very good, looking smart and clever, but we need Brother You to know that these children are not born, but are cultivated through parents or nature. So we don't envy other people's children, we must learn the methods of others to cultivate children, so that we can promote the growth and development of our own children, and make our children look very good, so that we don't have to envy other people's children, but to praise our own children, so that our children are getting better and better. Parents can not force children to learn when teaching children, because children also have some rebellious psychology, if parents force children to learn, it is possible to make children have some boredom emotions, so that children do not want to learn at all, so parents should guide children to tell the importance of learning, so that children become smart.

We must know that every child is different, we can't copy other people's methods of educating children, we must review this method, and then see if this method is inconsistent with our children's personality, if it does not match, we should improve this method to a certain extent, so that this method becomes very suitable for our children. After finding a way to educate their children, parents can use this method to educate their children, so that they can also make their children become better and better.

Because these children are affected by genetic factors, and these children are more intelligent than Hu Liang since childhood, parents pay great attention to the cultivation of children's potential, and the children's learning ability is relatively strong, and the degree of specialization is particularly high.

This is inseparable from the education of parents. Parents should let their children read more books. It can broaden the child's mind and let the child accept all kinds of new things. Take your children out for a walk and see the beauty of nature.

If the main Qiao Ant is because the child has been exposed to a good education when he is young, and because he has read a lot of books, he will have more benefits in the simplified paragraph, and he can also have more changes and differences.

The main reason is that these children have received a good education from Qisen Li when they are young, and secondly, because he has more growth and more understanding, so Chunmo can play such a role.

Some children seem to be smart, in fact, because these children are very good at communicating with others, and such children like to communicate with others very much, so everyone will think that such children are very smart. Everyone wants their children to be smart people, so parents must also adopt appropriate methods to educate their children.

Everyone wants children to become smarter, so parents must pay attention to their own education methods, so as to make their babies more excellent. Therefore, there are many problems that we need to pay attention to, parents must care more about their children in life, and they must accompany their children, because at this time children are very eager to be accompanied by their parents. If you really want your child to be a smart person, then parents must let their children form a series of good behavior habits at this time, and let their children form good qualities.

If someone else's child behaves well, then parents may also feel very happy at this time. If the child is very fond of communicating with others, then people may also think that such a child is very intelligent, because they will think that the child has a good personality. If a child is very fond of thinking, then people may also think that such a child is very smart.

I think that in fact, children are very fond of thinking, and children always like to be whimsical at this time, so parents must also guide their children at this time, and must be children's questions.

Parents have a great influence on their children, so parents must guide their children in life and adopt appropriate methods to educate their children. But at this time, the child is relatively young, so the child does not know whether his behavior is right at this time, so parents must guide the child.

Because parents attach great importance to their children's education, they have created a particularly good family environment for their children, and they usually do not give their children particularly much pressure on learning, and pay attention to the combination of work and rest, which is also affected by genetic factors, and the family atmosphere is particularly good.

Because they inherited the IQ of their parents, and their parents are very smart, so the children will also be very smart, plus the nurture, so these children will be very good.

They are very calm when they encounter things, and they also know how to respect others when facing others, and they will think about problems for themselves when they encounter things.

There are three characteristics of a real child's intelligence: smart eyes, strong hands-on ability, and fast reaction ability.

1. Look into the child's eyes

People say that "eyes are the windows of the soul", a pair of good-looking eyes can not only enhance the overall appearance of the Mianzhou Laxun Department, but also play a role in the effect of eyebrows and empathy. And from a person's eyes, you can see what he thinks and his living habits, and the first facial features that some people who can look at are the eyes.

Children's eyes, on the other hand, convey more information, and before they have a mature language system, their eyes can express their emotions and thoughts even better than their words. The eyes of smart children are firm and smart, their eyes are full of curiosity about the world, and they can always see a lot of good things in their eyes.

2. Look at the child's hands-on ability

If the eye is the window to the soul, then the hand is the tissue closest to the heart. A person's way of thinking can be judged by the dexterity of his fingers, and children who like to use their hands and have strong hands-on ability will also have a relatively more flexible mind.

They are more practical than the average child, and are keen to solve their own unknowns about the world through their own efforts, and children with strong hands-on ability have a bad characteristic: before they realize the correct way to do it, their destructive power is unimaginable.

Some children are very active when they are young, and the destructive power is very strong, if their children are like this, parents should not be in a hurry, to guide the child's hands-on ability in the right direction.

3. Carefully observe your child's responsiveness

The coordination between the child's brain and hands can be seen from the child's reaction ability, and the brain's dominance of the five senses can also be seen. Children's reflexes are the sum of all abilities, and children with strong reflexes are relatively outstanding in their way of thinking and various abilities.

This is why many parents choose to focus on cultivating their children's reaction skills, only by cultivating children's good reaction skills, their concentration and language skills will be improved accordingly.

Smart children are quietly cultivated:

1. Don't suppress their intelligence traits

First of all, parents must not suppress some manifestations of intelligence, although sometimes, they will bring endless trouble and distress to parents. For example, your child often talks after you and asks you all kinds of questions, and if you really don't have time, tell him to talk later, instead of viciously annoying him.

In front of the child, the parent has natural authority, and once the parent suppresses his intelligent trait, the child will converge this trait and gradually bury it.

2. Teach students according to their aptitude

There are many dimensions to the difference between different smart traits and cultivating intelligence, some children may be very quick to react, some are very deep in thinking about problems, and some are strong in spatial conception.

Different intelligent traits are cultivated in different directions and methods. Only by teaching children according to their aptitude can we better tap the potential of children and truly let their intelligence reveal their "true colors".