Will you stay in a city with more opportunities or go to your hometown to do a decent job? Why?

I must have chosen to go back to my hometown, and I have never been a person who wants to fight hard, and Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen have never been attractive to me. The prosperity and opportunities of the big city are not what I want, I want to go back to Qingdao after graduating from the doctorate to be quiet, the work pressure is not great, the pace of life is not rushed, and a few stops away from work is the ...... of my parents' houseI don't want to be alone in a big city, I feel sad and look around, I can only cry with a pillow, I'm not a strong person, going back to my hometown to work is like having a stable rear for me, with a solid backing, you can be coquettish or occasionally unreasonable. I can't give what I want in these big cities, and I will have a lot of effort to give what the big cities want, so I have always felt that going back to Qingdao can basically be regarded as the premise of everything.

From my personal experience, it is recommended to stay in the big city for a few years, Shanghai as an international metropolis, than many cities have more differences, opportunities are good, ability training is good, and living in the big city as a recent college graduate, more able to experience the warmth and coldness of the society, so that their horizons are broader, will be of great help to your future life and work, if you return to your hometown now, into the system, you will find that at most 5 years, you will not be adapting to a challenging life, Willing to live a fixed 9-to-5 life is not conducive to personal career planning.

To go or to stay has always been a question, and it has also become a confusion for our generation. From the perspective of staying, it is necessary to figure out what kind of opportunities are more abundant in big cities. Generally speaking, life needs to have inheritance and development, regardless of urban development, from a personal point of view, the hard work of our parents creates the foundation for our future growth, and leaving all this to pursue our dreams in a big city means starting from scratch, carrying a head on both shoulders, we discard the accumulation of our fathers (the accumulation in this not only refers to money, but also connections, familiarity with a place, culture, etc.).

It is true that there will be many opportunities for part-time jobs, but from the perspective of the entire pyramid, most of them are still ordinary. It is very important to stay in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and you must think about it yourself.

My own personal experience is that if you work hard in a big city after graduation, you will have more opportunities in a big city if you are young and have the spirit of struggle. When you have an economic foundation and start a family, you can pick up your parents or go home to accompany your parents, and with the economic foundation and life experience, you will be more mature at this time, you can give your parents better care, and it will be easier to communicate with your parents, and you will not be as rebellious as when you were young.

Of course, if parents are not in good health and need their children to be taken care of, this is a different matter.

I think that no matter whether you go or stay, the most important thing is to make this decision as soon as possible, and stick to it if you make a good decision, no matter which path you take, you will have a bright future. The most terrible thing is to be indecisive, that is a real waste of life, and the years will tell you how serious the consequences of indecision are.

I'm also very entangled in such a problem, I've been home for a year, this year, I've lived a completely different life than before, 9 to 5, weekends and weekends, seemingly carefree, but I also know what I want, I took the accounting certificate, and I also took the assistant accountant, I never thought that returning to my hometown from the big city was an escape, yes but cowardice, or something else, I have parents at home, a home, and if we want, we can have a job, life or more.

Big cities, big cities are well developed, if you are in your hometown, there are opportunities for development, but there are very few.

At this stage, it is best to stay in your hometown, which has this entrepreneurship, this advantage and loan, and then take a look, this is the country's major policy.

When we graduate from school, we have to start our working life. ......While choosing a job, we are also choosing the city where we live, and most people will choose a city with better conditions and higher wages. But there is also a city where the conditions are not necessarily the best and the wages are not necessarily the highest, but they are still willing to stay and live there.

This city is its home city. ......The reason why I am willing to stay in my hometown city to work and live is because I like my hometown and it is difficult to leave my hometown, I can get help from my relatives and friends to develop in my parents' city, and I am more familiar with my hometown city and it is more conducive to my own development. 1. Everyone has a unique feeling for their hometown, and it is difficult to leave their homeland.

As the saying goes, one side of the water and one side of the people. Each of us has a very unique relationship with our home city. Because of this, when we choose a job after graduation, as long as we can find a suitable job in our hometown city, we will give priority to returning to our hometown for development.

This is a concrete manifestation of his deep affection for his home city. ......In fact, many people stay in their home cities because of the concept of "hard to leave their homeland" and "returning to their roots", even if the salary is not high. 2. You can get the help of relatives and friends to develop in your hometown, and the development will be smoother.

In your hometown, with family and friends, you can live happily. ......But that's not the most important issue. The crux of the problem is to get more help in your career development through the help of family and friends.

In fact, it is very beneficial for oneself to get a better career development through the help of family and friends in your home city than to work alone in other cities, even if the income is not high in the short term, it is worth staying. 3. I am more familiar with the environment of my hometown, which is more conducive to my career. We have lived in our hometown city since we were children, and we are very familiar with every plant and tree here.

And it is precisely because of the familiarity of the Zhizu Lu that we can provide great help for our career development, and we can be like a fish in water in our hometown city and better develop our careers. Although the income is not high in reality, it is more comfortable to work from home and the cost of living is lower, so it is generally a more beneficial choice for yourself. ......Because of this, even if his hometown city cannot provide him with a higher salary, he is willing to stay and live and work.

Not long ago, my friend Sister Chen's daughter came back from graduating from graduate school in Qingxiwai, and was about to return to a third-tier city.

Parents work next to them, so relatives and friends around them have different opinions. Some people regretted it, saying: "I finally studied abroad, and after gaining knowledge, I should go to the big city to make a difference."

Some people also said: "Girls should stay with their parents." In the future, when the parents are old, there will be a care, "In short, everything is said, and they all start from their own standpoint."

But everyone has a choice to live their own lifestyle, there is no good or bad, only suitable is the best choice. There are pros and cons to big cities, first of all, there are many employment opportunities, fast development, suitable for young people to start a business, work hard, have a wide range of knowledge, and have a high salary.

Secondly, the disadvantages: the work place is far away from the residence, it takes a long time to commute to and from work, and the competition is fierce. Young people need to be able to endure hardships, have a strong desire to change their fate, and survive the most difficult stage in order to usher in the opportunity to gain a foothold.

Those who are more introverted and pursue a quiet life are not well suited to the fast pace of big cities.

Sister Huang's only daughter is studying in the UK.

After graduating, I worked for a foreign company for two years. 26 years old, busy with work and no time to talk to the object, under the persuasion of his mother, he also returned to his parents, and is currently working as a teacher in a middle school, living a stable life, Sister Huang has a smile on her face.

After graduating from studying abroad, Sister Ling's son applied for a job in a Shanghai company, responsible for the training of unit personnel, often worked overtime until late at night, and usually organized activities and wrote plans, and the young man in his 30s had no time to talk about love, which made Sister Ling worried. Seeing Sister Chen's daughter come back, she was always very envious, and said: "It's good that the child is still back, it's best to have a stable job, don't look for a job that is too tiring."

As the saying goes: others only care about whether you fly high or not, but never care whether you are tired of flying.

Sister Chen is open-minded, she said that her daughter is willing to stay in the field, and she will not hold back, and she is willing to come back. But the daughter is willing to guard her parents, find a stable job first, accumulate some work experience, and then go to other places for development in a few years. Sister Chen once joked:

If the daughter stays in the big city, she will reach retirement age.

You can live with your daughter, or stay by your parents' side. As long as the daughter feels happy and lives happily, it is the same everywhere. ”

It is a blessing for children to return to their parents, and it is also acceptable for parents to develop outside the home as the ultimate way for parents to see their children drift away. The concept of parents in the new era: raising children is an obligation, pay more attention to physical health, rely on yourself to support the elderly, and raise children without preventing old age.

Nowadays, more and more overseas students, 985 or 211 college graduates give up working in big cities and choose to return to their hometowns to work in third-tier cities, just wanting to live a stable life.

Don't care about what others think and say. People live for themselves, and the best way to live is what they like, because the future path of life is to walk by themselves.

Returning to their home to work and live has always been a dream for many people, but there are many factors that prevent them from achieving this wish. Here are some common reasons:

First, there are not enough job opportunities. Although there is a "talent shortage" in some cities, many rural areas still face a shortage of employment opportunities, especially for those who want to develop their careers.

Secondly, living conditions and public services are inadequate. Rural areas have inadequate infrastructure and public services, including healthcare, education, and transportation, compared to urban areas, which is why some people are discouraged.

Third, the limitations of social circles. The social circle in rural areas is relatively narrow compared to in urban areas, and people may feel lonely and lack social support. Bend-Chang.

Fourth, the income level is low. While the cost of living may be lower, wages in rural areas are much lower than in urban areas, which can be a barrier for some people to return to their hometowns to start businesses or find employment.

Fifth, differences in culture and living habits. There are significant differences in culture and lifestyle between urban and rural areas, and for some people, adapting to this different lifestyle may take time and effort.

In summary, while returning to work and life is an attractive option for many, there are many challenges and obstacles to face. However, with the introduction of investment and various policies, it is believed that more people will choose to return to rural development in the future.

I feel like my hometown.

Now there are very few cities where people can live with this kind of low salary, because life requires costs, even if the consumption level of small cities is not high, but they still have to live. On the contrary, many people want to live in a big city, even if the salary is not high, why? 1.

The salary in big cities is not high, but compared with the weak and small cities in their hometowns, they are still relatively high, even if the costs of food and housing are removed, the income is still relatively high. 2.Due to the choice of major or employment direction, jobs are only available in big cities, maybe these students want to go back to their hometowns after graduation, but if they study similar to artificial intelligence, big data, Internet operations, finance, pet medicine, medical beauty, etc., the jobs that can be provided in small places are very limited, or even no, most of the students of these majors still need to seek a position in a big city after graduation.

3.Because of the dreams of youth. After graduating from college, the first thing you may want to do is to stay in a big city or go to a big city to develop, and if you go home after graduation, it seems that you have failed and have no face.

This kind of psychology is not ruled out, but in fact, it is still relatively difficult for this kind of psychology to stay. There is also a secret determination in my heart from the beginning of the beginning, I must make some achievements, work hard, and there is a high probability that there will be a good result in the end. 4.

From the beginning, I saw the reality very clearly, thinking that I would return to my hometown after graduation, have a stable and decent job, and live a simple life. But the reality is not smooth enough, did not get in, and then recycle back to 1 and big cities do have more employment opportunities, the opportunity to choose better positions, I have to admit that the ceiling of state organs, the vast majority of central enterprises and state-owned enterprises are in first-tier cities, large well-known private enterprises and foreign companies headquarters are also concentrated in big cities, want to have a better future, the starting point at the beginning is very important, so even if the initial salary is relatively low, it does not prevent people with lofty ideals from choosing and working hard for the future.

6.Abundant life. Even if there is nothing else, the work is indeed average, and the big city can still hide a lot of surprises and colorful experiences at any time in ordinary life.