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Hehe, in fact, everyone's mind has flashed the same thought as you.

In fact, you are too careful, you should treat life correctly, and nothing can be explained if you don't hit ** or something like that. At the very least, it can't be said that your popularity is not good, and it has nothing to do with your character. This is a normal psychological phenomenon of people.

Maybe so-and-so is trying to send you a text message, maybe she's thinking: Hey, it's not interesting to send a text message, at most say hello. Then I canceled the idea of contacting you.

It may also be that you give others the impression that they are particularly serious and righteous, so even if they call you, there is nothing to talk about when talking to you.

Don't think about it, it's normal, don't burden yourself. Everything is done smoothly and naturally.

It's normal. Maybe it will be better after a while.

Some time ago, no one paid attention to me for two or three months.

Now maybe they are free, and they think of me again, and they all take the initiative to give me ** complaints and greetings to me intermittently. Hehe.

Don't worry, they're busy. How old are you** to contact feelings, it's also very good.

Reveal your emotions to your classmates and friends. Sometimes people may be busy, or you may feel like you don't like people to disturb you.

Making friends is a word.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

It takes time to learn the sophistication of human feelings and the way to deal with the world.

Usually you can read some books about this (less but fine, there are too many such books on the market now), I recommend you to read "I Didn't Teach You to Cheat", this work is an important part of the author Liu Yong's "life studies".

And you have to grow in practice

This kind of thing can't be taught by others, so I think about it slowly.

Take a good look at the characters in the four great Chinese novels, and you will definitely be able to quickly improve your understanding of human feelings and ways of dealing with the world. In particular, doing an in-depth study of the personalities of the characters in the Water Margin and the Romance of the Three Kingdoms will definitely play a role in quickly raising your awareness.

A person with a real temperament never shows off everything he has, he doesn't tell people what books he has read, how many places he has been, and how capable he is, because he has no inferiority complex.

I think it has a lot to do with homeschooling. Because today's children are the treasures of the family, everything is accommodating to the children of the family, therefore, the child will not think about others in his interactions with others, and he will have to be let by others, so he seems to not understand the world.

Moreover, everyone's life is very good, and when there is no special need for help from others, there are fewer things to do to help others, and they will not care about others. So isn't it now to do something to help the poor and help the children, so that the children can go to remote areas to experience the difficult life of others?

It is not that the child's sense of human affection is weak, but the reason of adults, some parents send their children out to study at a very young age, thinking that this can get ahead, don't you know that although they have learned some knowledge, the generation gap between parents and children is slowly generating. You can't blame children, you can only blame adults.

Material civilization is developing too fast, and spiritual civilization cannot keep up. Under the impact of material desires, the spirit collapsed. Life is not as happy as before, and people gradually can't believe in love. Look at the home cooking, it's good.

From the perspective of Buddhism, every child is reincarnated from a different way, and they are born crying, which is very painful, because they all come with their own sinful karma, raising children is simply the most tedious and hard thing in the world, coupled with the current social atmosphere and conditions, it is really difficult to ensure that children are happy for a lifetime. Sense of human feelings.

There are no smooth sailing in life, there are ups and downs, so you must balance your mentality, you must be more and more courageous, no matter when, do not give up the belief in your heart, insist on facing it bravely, there is no big deal, take every setback as an opportunity to grow, so that you will grow faster and stronger.

What is the frustration? People live to struggle with setbacks. Hope you get better soon! Good luck in the Year of the Rabbit.

Everyone encounters it every day.

Hello, I'm familiar with this aspect. Frustration is a common psychological phenomenon in people, which can cause changes in people's behavior. For example, it can be aggressive at times, and it can also be agitated.

There is a psychologist who said that a person, without any hindrance, will always remain in a state of contentment, mediocrity, stupid and confused, like a cow. On the contrary, setbacks can sharpen one's will, enable one to learn from failures, and strengthen one's ability to adapt. It is inevitable in people's daily lives, but everyone's tolerance is different.

Some people are not discouraged even when they encounter serious setbacks. Some people will be depressed and depressed when they encounter a small setback. Some people can endure and overcome many setbacks at work, but they can't stand the damage to their self-esteem.

Some people are at a loss for the environment, but they can endure the humiliation of others. There are many factors that contribute to frustration tolerance that are related to the environment. If a person has had smooth sailing from childhood to adulthood and all his desires can be successfully satisfied, his frustration tolerance will be low.

If a person owes Ke all his life, then he has a strong tolerance. Since childhood, children can not give too many setbacks or too little to children, too few setbacks do not know how to deal with them in later life, too many setbacks will affect the development of personality, and it is easy to form personality characteristics such as low self-esteem and cowardice. I'm going to tell you something.

Every one has setbacks, and how can they stand the test without setbacks? Maybe our mother used to let us have few setbacks, so you retreat in the face of setbacks and admit that you are a stupid and confused cow. If you don't back down, you can overcome the difficulties that will be more comfortable for you in the face of setbacks and be more attuned to your willpower.

Setbacks are inevitable for us, do you want to learn from them so stupid to live a smooth sailing life? How stupid those people are, on the contrary, you have setbacks that can be overcome, which proves that you are better than others, I have also had setbacks, and I want to back down every time, but don't I endure it? Since setbacks are coming, don't back down, retreat from such small things, and learn from failures so that you can adapt to your setbacks.

It's so tiring, remember that everyone has setbacks, you are not the only one who suffers, and children without parents are not also one to bear setbacks? They are much more painful than you. Overcome setbacks.

Remember what I said.

I think we still have to analyze the specific issues on a case-by-case basis, after all, we don't know the relationship between you and the other party and the reason for the matter, including what kind of repayment you can provide, and what kind of situation the other party should be considered

But at least, you can take care of each other more in your daily life, try to help each other with anything, and you can eat together and give some gifts during the holidays or something. That's all there is to it. Of course, the first Zhongchang should be within the scope of the principle and the personal ability to sell.

Help the other person when he needs it.

Treat him to dinner when he doesn't need help.

Always see if the other person needs you and try your best to help.

Understand each other's needs privately and try to meet them silently.

If he needs your help, you can help, you must be duty-bound, in fact, sometimes friends are used to trouble, he will not care so much with you.

Everyone gets tired, and no one can bear all the sadness and exhaustion for you, so there will always be a time when people have to learn to grow up on their own.

There are not so many assumptions in life, reality is a real slap in the face, there is no doubt about the pain that hits you, and there is no doubt about it, only to move forward.

Life is never planned, but taken step by step. Find something you love, do a little bit every day, and over time, you will see your own growth.

If a person's behavior is contrary to his own character, it is tantamount to following his example!! So just do your best, of course, your own shortcomings can be changed, and it is still necessary to learn from other people's behavior!!

As a person who has come over, I will be able to do it when I reach a certain age, and I don't have to make myself so uncomfortable.

It's hard to choose one or the other.

It is difficult to argue that the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable.

You should change your perspective, and your friends can think of you when they encounter difficulties, which also shows a kind of trust in you.

You should be happy.

You have a bit of low self-esteem, you should first build up self-confidence, what should be considered from an optimistic point of view, and learn to adjust your mentality in order to cope with this ever-changing life.

You don't need to have many real friends, one is enough, and more is troublesome, at least for me, and as for the ones you said, I think it's even a playmate. In addition, if you think that you are a friend, then give him (her) the minimum trust between friends, even if you are hurt in the future, the trust is withdrawn, and then you can remove him, why think so much. Complicated?!

As for the blessings, it is enough to send them out. And what you say about helping or something, you're using you, why don't you ask you to do it. Even if you are not a friend, others are in trouble, why not do you a favor, and don't lose a piece of meat.

If you call it a failure, then the only people who succeed are those who are zealous and kind-hearted. Success or failure is not at all divided in this way?!! It's not a match for character!

If you are not good at communicating with people, if you have a pet, if you lose confidence in the people you said above to those people who have lost confidence, then you are running away!

In fact, you don't have to think like this at all, there are so many people in the world, how can no one really want to be friends with you? Someday it will come across. If that's what you say, there will be no soulmates under that sky.

There's nothing wrong with your character. You don't have to deliberately change yourself, maybe it will make others dislike you more, it's better to be yourself! Don't assume that a friend is just a tool because of what others think of you or whatever.

Could it be that you are impatient to help others? If this is the case, then please treat others more sincerely, care for them, and love them! Over time, they will become good friends with you and will tolerate you.

Could it be that you are speaking too harshly when pointing out the wrong behavior of others? If so, then please be careful when you speak, sometimes trouble comes from the mouth!

Why be angry, if you want to open something, you can complain to the conductor, being angry is something that makes others happy and uncomfortable for yourself.

If I were you, I'd go up and ask the conductor why he didn't open the door, and say what he wanted to say right away.

I was moved by the lady who wanted to give up her seat, in this society want to give up a seat to someone else, it is really rare, today's society may only care about economic development, and forget the most basic moral construction of the people, is it necessary to abandon morality for economic development, it should not be like this, China's social and economic development is a bit extreme, maybe many people will regret it after a hundred difficulties.

Everyone thinks about it with empathy, and all problems are solved. But what you said about giving way is really touching and simple.