What is maturity, what is maturity, what is maturity

Maybe you're too young, and you'll understand when you're also a mother.

Then think about it, if you are a mother and your daughter comes home at 1 o'clock in the middle of the night, what will you think, you yourself have the answer.

Or, you can try to prepare a big dinner and wait for your boyfriend, and he comes home late and doesn't even call you. That's it, if you're hungry once, you'll know why your mother is angry like that.

Hehe. You should understand her.

When I was a child, I thought my parents were the greatest.

When I was a teenager, I thought I was the greatest.

When I was in my twenties, I felt so stressful about my life. Or yourself is the most important.

When I was in my thirties, I felt really tired of being a parent.

When I was forty or fifty years old, I felt that I should really treat my parents well, but unfortunately my parents are no longer there.

In fact, you think that there are many times when your parents scold you for not doing it right. But you should know that your parents are like this, and they also want you to be better.

Live well. Smile more at your mother. Buy her something. She will feel very happy.

You tell me?

Your mother did this to you for you, but she probably didn't want to do this to you.

The first thing you have to think about is that she scolds you for your own good, and why does she scold you? You have to think about what's wrong with you. You go out like this is not mature but impulsive, you should be considerate of the hard work of being a mother, after all, she is the person you love the most, go home.

A truly mature partner will not refuse to communicate as soon as they encounter a problem.

Hello, what should Zen Qing mature look like? There are many manifestations of a person's true maturity: First:

Be calm and calm, do things in an orderly manner, know how to plan for a rainy day, and know how to strategize! The second suspicion: treat people more securely, speak modestly and politely, will not be aggressive, and will not be domineering, which is embarrassing!

Third: for yourself, there are certain requirements, and you will be very self-disciplined, very conscious, responsible, and more enterprising! Fourth:

Don't worry about some small things, let alone bother with someone to argue with or something like that, know how to be tolerant and generous.

1. Maturity means that you are no longer deceived by yourself, and you also know how to protect yourself and no longer hurt others.

2. Maturity is to look back at the dust of the horse's hooves, and still be able to know your past path and future direction.

3. Maturity is to know the limitations of one's ignorance and ability, and to understand one's own shortcomings.

4. Maturity is to know how to take responsibility, know how to take responsibility, and no longer be capricious.

5. Maturity is knowing that the past will pass.

6. Maturity is to know how to be one step faster and one step slower.

7. Mature, is friendly but not pandering.

8. Maturity is appreciating others.

9. Maturity is strong.

10. Maturity is often to find that you are not mature.

Hello. It is said that mature people must have these points, one dismantling the ruler two, three, four...Everyone's writing standards are different, such as:

More and more able to control their emotions.

I know more and more about getting along with myself.

More and more accepting of the changes and impermanence of the world.

If understood in this way, the mature understanding will fall into the details, endlessly, and easily appear one-sided.

The encyclopedia's definition of maturity goes like this:

Maturity refers to the whole process in which an individual develops at different speeds and forms physiologically and psychologically, and goes through several stages to reach a state of completeness. Maturity refers to the change of people's thinking and concepts, from naivety to a higher level, and the perception of things and things is more rational, and this process is often accompanied by changes in the surrounding environment, including the influence of other people.

From this definition, maturity refers to the improvement of one's thinking and becoming more rational. When we say that a person is mature, we mean that a person has a rational mind. So how do you generate a rational mind?

There is also a saying in the Bible about maturity:

Rom 5:3-5 Not only that, but also rejoicing in tribulation. For we know that affliction produces patience, and patience produces sophistication, and sophistication begets hope, and hope is not to shame; For the Holy Spirit who has been given to us has poured out the love of God in our hearts.

Sophisticated here means mature, and his original Greek word refers to a tempered personality. According to the biblical understanding, a person must endure in the midst of afflictions in order to become mature. The purpose of maturity is to gain hope, that is, reliable assurance of the future, not unfounded illusions.

Therefore, a mature person is a man with a tempered personality who has a reliable and assured hope for the future.

According to this understanding, when Sun Yang said "you loser, i win" to his opponent Houghton, when Sun Yang received the ruling of the Court of Arbitration for Sport, he sent "shocked, angry, incomprehensible!" We feel that such words are not what a person with a tempered personality would say. A person with a well-honed personality must be a person who respects people, not tramples on the feelings of others, even if he is your competitor; It must be a person who can rationally express his feelings and wishes, not someone who cannot control his emotions.

A person with a tempered personality should be a person who has true wisdom in life and understands the value and meaning of life.

In fact, why Li Na and Yao Ming are considered mature people may be because their personalities are recognized. And I believe that such a personality can only be produced after a difficult tempering. Their experiences of growing up in life may give us some inspiration.

We don't deliberately look for afflictions, but if we fall into tribulations, we should rejoice and actively seize such opportunities to hone our personality and make it our wealth, and eventually make ourselves more and more mature.

Hope mine is helpful to you and thank you.