My boyfriend ran away from me because of the salary cut, and my boyfriend lost his self confidence b

I think he should care about you, so when you mention feelings, he will ignore you because he knows that everyone will be sad in this way. He doesn't have the financial foundation to give you, but he still wants to love you, and he understands your heart, so he doesn't want to mention it.

I don't think you should mention emotional things at this time, after all, everyone's unhappiness is caused by the deep feelings between the two, at this time, I think you should act as a friend, to care about him, let him see, you like him not because he has no economic foundation, let him build up self-confidence, and then I think through your performance he will be very moved, and will love you more. At this point you can wait for him to chase you, this is a little bit of advice from me, I hope it can be useful to you.

Forgive me for taking the liberty of asking you, do you think you will be together in the future? I mean marriage and married life, if your answer is yes, then you ask him if he still loves you, you don't care about the good or bad of his current living standard, what you want is a man who cares about and loves you all his life, not a money jar, if your answer is no or even you don't know yourself, then please let him go, this is the best choice.

There are always setbacks in life, but you need to treat them with a normal heart: the five-year relationship is really not easy, he loves you so much, I also hope that you can use your best efforts to help him share a little, the pressure of men is really great, this is what you women can not understand, here I sincerely hope that you get along. Because I also broke up with my girlfriend of five years, I really don't want you to follow in my footsteps.

Cherish the present. Don't do anything you regret.

Silently care for and encourage him! Men also need face! Give him some time, and if you really love him, believe him!

He feels like he's with you.

It's too much pressure.

Hey, trouble.

Your suspicion once added another layer of frost to his soul, action represents everything, do everything you can, take care of him in every detail and be considerate of her, use your actions to tell him that you love him! Willing to accompany him through this crisis! You are two people and one person, firmly use your words and deeds to make him understand that this is a test of your love, and you will definitely be able to get through the crisis and come out!!

A man's self-esteem is very strong, you have to be a good backing for him, but also give him face, tell him, you are great! With a snack. Your love and deeds, as well as your confidence and determination to walk him through this time, are important and I believe he will see them.

It can be seen that he is not really breaking up with you, on the contrary, he needs you the most, but he will feel that it will make you unhappy, and he will blame himself, showing that he actually cares about you and values you, is very responsible, and hopes to make you happy and worry-free. Your self-confidence and steadfastness will also affect him, do you understand how to do it? Just to give you a general direction, there are many details, more attentive, I wish you to see a brighter rainbow after the storm!

Character and motivation are important, and money is secondary. As long as you don't lose faith, everything can be done slowly.

A girl's attitude can change a man.

Don't think he's poor and incompetent.

Always encourage him.

Give him a **.

We go to the movies together when we have free time.

Take the initiative to snuggle up to him and walk proudly on the street.

Make him happy. There are not many pursuits in a person's life.

When you look back one day and regret it, that's the saddest thing.

So do your best.

Take good hold of it.

Bless you all.

Tell him what you wrote here, and give me the points, and that's it.

Yes, many women now play when they have money, and they flash immediately if they don't have money.

So it's normal for a man to have this in his heart

Finance will pass, this time is the time to test your feelings, if you can survive this time, then I don't need to say!! Hurry up and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau......

I don't see any difficulty. If only you told him that.

However, if he still thinks that it is better to break up, is your previous suspicion actually true?

The financial crisis has had some impact on everyone, and my bonus has dropped a lot, and the key is to let him not put pressure on himself! It's not that you give him some money to spend or something, this will be counterproductive, tell him that the current environment is not good, and there are many people who have cut their salaries, and they can't count the employment rate of college students in Guangdong Province in January, and the graduate students are only about 1 month, and a lot of people are not working, so don't care too much about putting the data out, I believe he will understand and accept the current situation!

Our wives in Shanghai are generally in charge of money, and my husband is responsible for buying rice, vegetables, cooking and cooking, and my husband is tracheitis. It is recommended that you ask your boyfriend for his salary, and only by controlling his money can you control his person. You have to hold on to the economic power!

If you have children, then you must control your financial power, and you can only give your husband an allowance money, buy a cigarette or something, and you can't let him manage the money.

If I met a man like that, I decided not to. My boyfriend and I also live together, and our wages are handed over to me for safekeeping, and he is still happy with 20 yuan of pocket money every day. As for the rent, one person pays the rent and the other person is responsible for the daily expenses, so the match is just right, we have just come out of college, the salary is not high, but we have a good time.

It's normal to share responsibilities, but only if it's based on a family, and you're just in a relationship that isn't protected by law. He has no right to ask for your salary, and neither do you. But most of today's young people live together, so you can share half of it, but he has no right to possess and manage your belongings.

This problem should be divided into two, and two people must share the responsibility when they encounter something together.

First of all, you don't trust each other, at least he doesn't believe you.

The opening of the man who pays the rent to ask a woman for money shows that the man is selfish, and he doesn't want to pay anything for you, and it can also show that the man is incompetent and not open-minded.

If it's once in a while you can give it to prove that you can also give it if it's recurring, then you're not interesting.

You have to be responsible for what you do, why are you renting a house with him if you are not married? How do I pay my rent? Half of one person or you pay in full, you can pay as much as you want, why pay him a salary?

Do you owe him? If he insists on doing this, you will only have two paths, either break up with him and go your separate ways, or you will be his slave for the rest of your life, but it is unknown whether he will want you for the rest of your life.

Why give it to him, I'll wipe my eyes a lot.

Be clever and have a heart to guard against people.

It's not easy to make money.

When you have a child, it is estimated that he will go to test his DNA, in a word, for his own future happiness, leave early.

You're not trying to get away from it, you're going to get away from him.

You'd better get married, it's not appropriate.

It's okay not to live with him.

If you want a salary, you need a salary, and you also need a salary receipt, which is a bit excessive, is it married?

If you don't think about money, 1, zippo 2, tie (brand) 3, men's skin care products (set) 4, watch (must be good) 5, men's perfume.

If you want to move him, 1. Usually accumulate warm and considerate text messages that have been sent to him, or that he has passed to you, and then write them in a small book.

2. Make your own cakes or chocolates (there are many DIY shops nowadays) 3. What he recently told you he wants (show that you remember what he said) 4. Buy blank T-shirts and hand-painted paints, and secretly paint them for him at home, this dress is unique and he will like it, especially if you have to write some words or patterns on it that only you can understand.

If it's something you want to share with him:

That's the couple's stuff: couple's bracelets, couple's mugs, couple's slippers.

Give yourself to her, it is enough.

For men, having a woman's heart is equivalent to the whole world.

Send him a leash, this has a lot of meaning! And it's liked by men, don't forget to give me extra points!

It's not good to make any specific suggestions, so go to the store and see what you like and buy what you like. It's better to buy a pair and give him one for yourself. **In my space.

I think buying gifts for my parents first...

Of course, it's okay to buy something your boyfriend likes, or something cheap and memorable, or treat him to a meal.

Good girl, how can I not touch it.

To tie up 1 man, you must first tie his stomach.

You can choose to repay 2,000 yuan per month and repay it in six years. In this way, you can still have the strength to deal with it. Which bank depends on the city you're in, your location, and the specific services. Generally speaking, the insurance coefficient of state-owned banks is higher, and the services of commercial banks are better.

1. Confirm who can be the first house and whose name to buy it in, and the interest rate may be discounted 2. The salary income certificate should be able to open a little higher.

3. If two people buy together, you can use more provident fund loans, calculate the same 1, which interest rate is lower 4, you can't go to the bank yourself, find a loan company to find a way.

When I bought a house, I also went to all the banks. The result is the same interest rate discount, as CML22461 says, the commercial service is better.

The one closest to home is good and convenient.

Girl, are you kidding? You don't have a job to keep your boyfriend and you dislike him for having a low salary? And then ask to buy a car for 150,000?

Are you a rich second generation? Or do you have a mine at home? Or is it a country and a city?

Girl, either you make 2 or you dream!

Hehe, I'm 22 years old, just working, in a monopoly state-owned enterprise, the salary is not as high as your boyfriend, fortunately, the family is better, the house does not need a loan, and the car is 200,000. But I'm looking for a girlfriend, and I can't look down on you at all. Either you are kind and simple, and your job is stable, or if not, you can find the right person.

You are suitable for finding an old man in his forties and fifties, and then make 2 milks. Thank you.

First of all, you have to think about it, do you really love him? Does he love you so much? I don't think the relationship between two people can be measured by money. This is just my personal opinion, and I hope you will think twice!!

Dude on the 10th floor, I admire you The landlord is too superficial, you should do crying in a BMW, this is the life you want

You treat men as wallets, and men treat you as objects, which is the so-called cycle of cause and effect, and retribution is unpleasant.

There are empty seats on the table Women who have lost their feet!

It seems that you like money more than he himself.

I'm so sorry for your boyfriend.

It's a brain-dead again.,Oh got it.。。

That's right, if you fall, find a coal boss.

Landlord, you're here to be funny...

Well, my friend is there, only 1800 yuan a month, and it's not a regular job, but it's easier for girls to go in, if you're okay for the time being, you can try!

The salary is not too high, but the most attractive thing is the benefits, which are almost all paid at the highest standard of your salary ratio, so it feels very good.

Wages are one thing. You have to be able to support yourself.

Belch! This is his freedom.

Your willingness to announce it doesn't mean that people are obligated to tell you!

Maybe he is afraid that you will look down on him and should make your point of view.

This thing 、、、 come out with a drink!

Why are you asking so much?

If you want to have a relationship, if you really want to have a relationship, you don't seem to care about everything.

Of course, you have to insist, every relationship is not easy, I believe that even if you break up with him, you can't let go of him without 5 years.

Nothing else is a problem, a high salary is not a problem, the question is do you still love him? When you enter society, there must be many people around you who are better than your boyfriend, have you ever disliked him? Have you ever been tempted by other male ** and worshipped? Maybe it's just that the feelings are weak...

Love really needs courage You will have to face more difficulties in the future Only in this way can the feelings of the two of you be vividly reflected Learn how many great men were defeated during the following revolution, and their husbands and wives did not give up on anyone!

You are now confused In the face of reality, everything seems very small Bravely face your own heart, more important than anything else! ~

Hey, that's interesting, because you're currently paid more than him? It's not that I'm tired of it for a long time, so let's find a reason to convince myself.