Premarital phobia, I don t want to get married!!!!!!!!!

85 is 23 years old, and my boyfriend is 27 years old! You're still young, and since you still want to have a good time for a while, then don't get married yet, and then get married after playing for another 2 years, and the family plans to ask for your opinions.

Everyone will always grow up, you are thinking too much now, in fact, the old man is not so difficult to say, usually accompany the old man to nag, the old man will not embarrass you, you are the junior, let the elders more should be.

In fact, cooking is a kind of fun, how happy it is to eat what you cook, if you don't understand, you can learn from your mother-in-law! It doesn't take up a lot of time.

Of course, you have responsibilities when you get married, but it's not all centered on your husband, you need to take care of it, but you can't take care of it every minute and every second. You still have your own personal freedom, space. Time.

If you are a mother for the first time, of course, you will not take care of the baby, and you are afraid that it is normal now, but when you are pregnant, you will not think about this.

In short, if you don't want to get married, you have to get married later.

ps, I hate to do laundry and buy a washing machine, it's very simple.

You can tell from your ID.

You're not a good daughter-in-law.

Ha ha. Just at your ID....

It's not a lady.

Then wait. If you get married in a hurry, it will be even more troublesome if you want to divorce in the future. Especially having a baby.

Yes! You are no longer a child, some things can no longer be done, some things you have always liked are suddenly found to be just children's songs, and some friendships seem to be about to disappear! Suddenly, you can't afford to play anymore, haven't you realized your dreams yet?!

Hehe, I'm in a hurry, and I didn't think about getting married right now! Dumbfounded, everyone has a life....Wishing you happiness! Remember that you are an adult!!

Hahahahahaha

The landlord's post is so cute, it's obvious that it's not yet time to get married, so don't be in a hurry.

The tragedy of many families is because of early marriage, waiting, playing for a few years.

You don't think so when you become a mother, isn't it said that the greatness of a woman is in the birth canal.

Deciding to get married is to be mentally prepared.

In the stage of marriage discussion, it is mainly doubtful and fearful about the durability of marriage. The "symptoms" such as fear, nervousness, and anxiety that appear in the first month or week before the marriage are different from the first stage in that the reason for the "fear of marriage" at this time is the "expansion" of the difficulty of life after marriage. too busy with a career to take on the responsibilities of marriage; a system of beliefs and values for timely fun; If you have a history of failed marriages, you are afraid of being hurt again, or you are worried about remarriage disputes due to the children of both parties.

Premarital cohabitation is also one of the factors that contribute to marital fear.

Nowadays, people are generally tolerant of cohabitation, so cohabitation is becoming more and more common, which makes the expectation of marriage among unmarried young people in the past weaken to a considerable extent. Young people show their fear of marriage by losing their novelty about marriage as a result of cohabitation, and instead thinking more about their marital responsibilities.

The usual "symptoms" of marital phobia are: anxiety, irritability, irritability, or distantness, coldness, and reticence, which can have a negative impact on an individual's life and work.

1. An open attitude and good communication, this method is especially suitable for those "patients" who are skeptical about the marriage motives of their romantic partners.

2. Changing irrational perceptions, this method is especially suitable for those "patients" who have been imprisoned in the shadow of past failures and have not been able to be released for a long time.

3. Accept systematic psychological counseling, and receive some relaxation training or direct use of meditation desensitization under the professional guidance of psychological counselors**.

The mind is doing weird, and it depends on how you deal with it.

Marriage-phobic people worry that they will not be able to avoid the vulgar ending of marriage in the end, and who can predict whether the long future will be happy or not. Perhaps one day, marriage-phobes gritted their teeth and persuaded themselves to overcome their marital phobia and walk on the red carpet with trepidation and trepidation, but the huge psychological barrier can still give them a strong sense of loss. Despite repeatedly emphasizing to myself that marriage is not as scary as I imagined, the feeling of pressure or fear still lingers.

Marriage-phobic people say: Love makes people unable to sleep, marriage makes people doze off! The only way to prolong love is to postpone marriage! The historical significance of marriage is that the "red thread" connecting two people will become a rope from now on!

Women have the attributes of water, men have the attributes of fire, and marriage is an attempt to make fire and water compatible!

Here, I would like to remind those who are afraid of marriage not to forget the old saying: marriage is a pair of shoes, and only you know whether they are suitable or not. If you refuse to wear shoes, you may avoid blisters due to ill-fitting shoes, but you may also step on nails because you walk barefoot, and at that point, you may realize that marriage is also a protection for love.

A happy married life is the best way to have a "fear of marriage".