Should I continue like this or change people inside, and ask well wishers for guidance and guidance

Updated on society 2024-04-20
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Actually, you are very reluctant to him. Whether you want to change or not, in fact, you don't know, but the contradiction, the contradiction is in your age, and half a year of dating time, and the contradiction is the pressure around you. I have only one piece of advice, if before marriage, you think he is very cautious, very arrogant, and maybe has other shortcomings, then after marriage, this feeling will be more obvious.

    When he is a soldier, you will definitely not have much contact, and until you fully understand him, let alone get married. It's about protecting yourself. I hope you are happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Human life is like the flowers of nature, life is a beginning, from the evolution of time is like the trunk of the annual ring, a growth ring is a mark. Every ring has something different going on, and every day, it's going to be different. The inconsistency of things and the change of mood are all a state of being born by the environment in this world.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe you've been bothered by something lately, so you do your best to solve it, and if it doesn't work, don't force yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People are confused and stuck, so go out for a walk.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's very similar to me, but I'm not as serious as you, since I can't find a friend in reality, you can find it on the Internet, find a good-hearted person, talk about your heart, just say it Actually, and, don't fall into this kind of thinking, usually exercise more, find a close friend, make friends with your heart, if you always ignore others, how can others pay attention to you, and what, is to usually do something meaningful, read more positive books, and then find a girlfriend, divert attention, If you want to improve your skills, that's it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Actually, you shouldn't think like that, but you're still fine. Since some things have changed, let them be, and let them pass! Their reproach treats it as a white cloud and lets it drift away, and from now on you have to change your ways, forget the past, forget the present, and imagine the future... Whether you are studying or working in the future, you should look forward!

    The future is still very good, and I will be your first friend in the future. Make a few more friends, good friends, of course.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No one can understand you?

    Do you know yourself?

    It's not that others don't want to communicate with you, it's that you've locked your heart.

    Red dust is like smoke, and everyone has their own unique personality.

    Please mistakenly take yourself too seriously, this is not a gamer, where can you play the game.

    Don't expect others to get to know you. Because no one else expects you to get to know him.

    Don't expect others to give you warm hands, because you haven't given others an understanding heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is strikingly similar to my own experience, and with my QQ, we can enlighten each other 411398053

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Go to a psychiatrist and don't overthink it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Good news for you! I look so much like you! I also don't like basketball, football, and I'm not good at mechanics, so I'm very introverted.

    But I feel like I rarely have problems with this aspect, like a girl, and that's what people gave me in elementary school. But now, I haven't seen anyone say anything about me to my face. I don't think anyone will say anything about you to your face!

    So, your worries are your own. Hehe, of course, this is not exactly your reason, the body is given by your parents, and the character is set when you are born, not if you want to change it, so you have to pay attention! In addition, it's not that you don't like to play basketball or machinery to judge a boy as girlish, you should talk to a good friend to see what other people's ideas come from, from the tone of speech or certain actions, only by understanding where the specific problem is, can you fundamentally find the problem, but whether you are willing to change, and whether you can change it is still unknown, but I believe you can!

    Having many friends of the opposite sex is your advantage, you have to make full use of it, and seeing the crux of the problem through their mouths is very helpful to help you change! Of course, change is one thing, on the other hand, you don't give up on yourself because of other people's jokes or truths, you have to understand that everyone has their own personality and characteristics, and they also have their own lives, don't be influenced by their language, it's important to make your own decisions! When you look down on their words, constantly changing yourself is the effective and correct way!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your natural personality doesn't need to change, a radish and a pit, I just like you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are not confident enough, change yourself slowly in a different environment. If you are old in an environment, your atmosphere will not be active, and the new environment can show a different self, and it is OK to think more about your own advantages, and self-confidence is very important.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's been like this for more than 20 years, and if your personality is not easy to change, just recognize yourself. It doesn't matter if you don't have a mother on the surface. There is a male artist named Guo Xin in Taiwan, who is recognized as a sissy.

    People also have girlfriends and live a normal life. Don't deliberately do things you don't like, just be happy. A hundred people have a hundred people's point of view, can you take care of everyone, so live for yourself, there is no masculinity without masculinity.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay, it's okay, everyone is different, what's the point if it's all the same! You can be a genius man! That's also very pleasing to girls!

    You have to be confident, you are a man, not a woman, what are you afraid of? Don't be afraid. I'm very confident, a little narcissistic with confidence, I always think I'm beautiful, but it's not really good! Hey!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can think about the advantages of your own personality, such as when it comes to work, people with your personality generally come up with better or more acceptable ways than others.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do what men do and get used to it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Are you trying to learn bad pixels? Have you ever seen an extinct good man?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not bad to open ** at home, and you need the guidance of someone who knows this experience, and it will get better slowly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Find the right one for you. Local sourcing products can be used for e-commerce.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This kind of person, even if you don't agree with them, they will break up with you when you graduate.

    You are not all the way, it is better to hate your heart as soon as possible, so as to save them from mistaking you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What you said upstairs is right, break them off as soon as possible, but don't be too direct, it's gradually estranged, don't take the initiative to look for them, they look for you and you just say that there is something at home, or you want to make up homework or something, or your parents want you to do something, and you don't have time to go to them.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can never break up your friendship!

    When you don't want to play with them, make a smart excuse.

    So that you have friends, and you don't offend anyone!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Just cut it off. Do you think it will be good for relationships? Since there is discord, either, compromise and seek perfection. Or, cut it in two. Or is it the latter that is more sensible.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Tell them how you felt that day and ask if it was intentional.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Slip away when you have the chance. Take your parents out as shields. After a while, they will naturally be estranged.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You don't need to tell them to break up your relationship, just slowly distance yourself from them, and try not to take the initiative to find them.

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