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Because Jia's mother has always been not optimistic about the love between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, both of them were not small at that time, and it was not appropriate for the two to be so close, they would be gossiped about by others, and their reputation was not good. The two of them have long fallen into the eyes of others, everyone knows that there is affection between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, but although Jia's mother likes Lin Daiyu, she doesn't want Jia Baoyu to marry Lin Daiyu. On the contrary, Jia's mother took a fancy to Xue Baochai, and Jia's mother wanted to match Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu, so Lin Daiyu's behavior of feeding Jia Baoyu to drink was even more inappropriate.
Although Lin Daiyu fed Jia Baoyu the wine at the family banquet, there were more people waiting, and no one could say whether someone would spread the news. Moreover, Jiafu has always had some bad subordinates who will spread the news between the masters. Who is not a person who lives in Jiafu?
Who can't see the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu? But Jia's mother has always disagreed with the love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, so the behavior of the two of them feeding wine in front of the public made Jia's mother unbearable.
In order to cover up the relationship between the two and to deceive herself, Jia Mu also lied later, saying that there was no free love in Jiafu. In fact, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are in free love, but Jia's mother doesn't want to admit it. Mother Jia said in front of everyone that there was no such thing as free love in Jiafu, she was completely deceiving herself, and wanted others to think that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu were just brothers and sisters.
But everyone is a human spirit, they know what Jia Mu means, and they don't refute her, but everyone's hearts are like mirrors.
Maybe Jia's mother's words played a role, after this Lantern Festival, the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu was not as obvious as before. There was no such intimate behavior between the two, and even Jia Baoyu learned to think about the relationship between herself and Lin Daiyu. The relationship between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu was not supported by most people, and after considering many factors, Jia Baoyu still chose to converge.
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Mother Jia doesn't like Lin Daiyu, she doesn't want Lin Daiyu to be so close to her grandson, she saw that Lin Daiyu liked Baoyu more and more, she panicked, she was a little worried. In addition, she also felt that Lin Daiyu was pushing herself a little too much, so that she could express her opinions.
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I think it may be because Jia Baoyu's health is not good and he is not suitable for drinking, so Lin Daiyu fed Jia Baoyu wine, and Jia's mother was very shocked and scared, so she had such a reaction.
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In fact, anyone who has watched "Dream of Red Mansions" knows that Lin Daiyu fed Jia Baoyu half a glass of wine in the play, but this behavior frightened Jia's mother, because the feudal etiquette at that time was too serious. Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's behavior has surpassed ordinary brothers and sisters, and will make Zen bench fighters gossip. <>
First, because the behavior of the two is a little too close
The cause of the incident was that Jia's mother asked Jia Baoyu to pour wine for these sisters, and these sisters also drank it, but when it was poured to Daiyu, Lin Daiyu not only did not drink the wine, but also asked Jia Baoyu to help drink it. In fact, this kind of behavior is nothing in today's society, and it is also a very common thing, but in the past, whether it is husband and wife, or between parents, children, brothers and sisters, there are many rules, especially between strange men and strange women, there are many barriers. In addition, this behavior is very intimate to outsiders, and it will also fall on the tongue.
Second, Jia Mu was not frightened
In addition, this behavior of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu can be regarded as making their relationship public in public. It can also be seen that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu have mutual affection for each other, and compared to some other sisters, they dare not flirt with Baoyu like this. In addition, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu's behavior was actually very bold at that time, and it can also reflect the vision of He Mo who doesn't care about the world.
Because for them, this is a way of declaring, and the two people are relatively young, which can also be regarded as a simple child's behavior. <>
III. Conclusion
And Jia's mother was not frightened, after discovering this matter, she also used a few words to brush over this matter, it can be seen that Jia Baoyu is different from Lin Daiyu and other sisters. Another unruly Jia Baoyu has repeatedly broken the ring for Lin Daiyu, and it can be seen that Jia Baoyu likes Lin Daiyu very much. However, this drama is a tragedy after all, and Lin Daiyu is also frail and sickly, so the two people who love each other did not come together, so the drama "Dream of Red Mansions" also left a deep impression on many people, and at the same time, they were able to learn a lot of things.
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Because Lin Daiyu's behavior can be said to be provoking Jia's mother, she shouted that Jia's mother was very unaccustomed to this behavior, and thought that this incident would bring a bad impact on Baoyu, so she was frightened
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Because at that time, Jia's mother was afraid of what would happen between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, and Jia's mother wanted to match Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai.
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did not frighten Jia's mother, Jia's mother did not exist in this matter, Jia has always hoped that Lin Daiyu would marry Jia Baoyu.
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I cried twenty times in total. But it is certain that it is definitely not all for Baoyu. The most obvious time, "Seeing Tuyi Fengqing Thinking of His Hometown", Xue Pan brought back some special products, and Baochai distributed them to everyone in Jiafu, doubling Daiyu's.
Daiyu was very moved and happy at first, but she cried when she looked at it, because this is a specialty of her hometown, and she wants to cry when she is homesick.
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Lin Daiyu cried many times in the book, and she couldn't calculate the specific number, not every time because of Jia Baoyu, sometimes she cried because of other things.
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She cried more times than she could count, but not every time it was because of Jia Baoyu, and because the maids bullied her or teased her, but she was angry and cried.
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Because Daiyu, like Baoyu, has resistance and uncompromising against feudal forces.
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