Someone is desperate because of something, what would you be desperate for??

Start small and start with the details. First of all, restore your confidence and rekindle your zest for life! Here are some suggestions you can take:

1. Do what you like to do, do what you are good at, regain the joy of success, regain lost confidence, and find forward momentum and direction;

2. When the heart is tired, people will rest when they are troubled, let the soul travel, you can climb the mountain, see the sea, feel the magnificent scenery, embrace nature, and integrate into nature;

3. You can do some favorite sports to vent, and running, walking and basketball are recommended. Running can exercise the body, exercise and improve people's will and endurance; Walking can make people relax and relax; Basketball can make people learn to cooperate, enhance team awareness and collective concept;

4. You can find a close friend to get together, have a few drinks, confide in friends, and let the warm friendship dispel your inner boredom, depression and loneliness;

5. Chat with your family more, or play **, strengthen communication, enhance feelings, and tell your family that I love them;

6. Find a soulmate, let love sublimate your emotions, embellish your life, and illuminate your soul;

7. If there are any troubles that are inconvenient to talk to friends and family members, you can chat with strangers on the Internet, confide in them, and find new friends;

8. Keep a diary online and write down the bits and pieces of life;

9. You can go shopping with three or five confidants, maybe there are unexpected bargains or unexpected delicacies waiting for you, from which you can harvest unexpected surprises;

10. Study hard, find the joy of learning, make continuous progress, improve your academic performance, read more relevant books in combination with your own interests, plan your professional and employment path, and plan your life path;

11. You can properly ** your favorite TV series with your family, and at the same time, you can chat with your family and enhance your feelings;

12. You can read the books you are interested in, broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, enrich your knowledge, and lay a good foundation for study and work;

13. You can practice calligraphy, painting, piano or other musical instruments, cultivate sentiment and increase temperament;

14. Advocate green surfing, watch the news, play games appropriately, but not indulge, so that you can pass the time;

15. Do housework properly at home, so that you can not only maintain hygiene, but also get the praise of your family and the joy of life.

I think which people will meet in their lives are destined, some people are sent by God to teach you some truths, he and I may not be together in the previous life, God gave another chance in this life, or failed to go to the end, there is no fate, so be it.

Everything in this life is cause and effect in past lives. The cause of the past life, the effect of the present life, every encounter is a predestined cause and effect.

Life is a wandering journey, no matter who you meet during the journey, it is not an accident, but a beautiful fate, which is the cause of the past life and the fruit of this life.

Fate

Fate, also fate; Those who are far away are the cause, and those who are near are the cause. There is no qualitative change between the cause and the cause, only a quantitative change. It is an invisible connection between people; It is the opportunity and possibility of some kind of inevitable encounter, including all emotions.

In love, the fate of two people falling in love is composed of many coincidences, many coincidences, many suddenness, some accidents, and some inevitability.

Later generations are known as the silk thread of fate entanglement, it comes from a religious concept, Confucianism and Taoism do not highlight the leading nature of fate, but there will also be fate and opportunity.

It's a true story. In the countryside of our hometown, the style of playing mahjong is prevalent. As soon as the farming season is over, the sound of mahjong can always be heard everywhere in the village.

Near my hometown, an old couple with two sons and two daughters-in-law work outside the home all the year round, leaving two grandchildren and one granddaughter to the old couple. The old lady, obsessed with mahjong, indulged in mahjong as soon as the busy farming season passed, and often locked her grandchildren in the yard and let them play in the yard by themselves. Two grandchildren are 6 years old and 4 years old, and the granddaughter is 7 years old.

As soon as the gate was locked, the three children were encircled in the yard and played by themselves, and the old lady went to the neighbor's house to play mahjong, but it was all right. Until this day, something big happened!

On this day, the old man went out to work in the fields. The old lady locked them up as usual, and still went to the neighbor's house to play cards. Three children stayed at home.

There is a well in the yard, which is usually covered with a manhole cover all the time. Somehow, the manhole cover for this day forgot to cover. And so tragedy struck.

The first thing I found was the old man who was working in the fields, and when the old man came home, he saw that the old lady had not returned, and the three children were gone. Looking around the yard, I found that all three children had drowned in the well. I was paralyzed.

After a long time, the old man gradually came to his senses. I moved a chair and sat in the yard, smoking a cigarette while waiting for the old lady to come back. Wait, wait, until it was dark, the old lady didn't come back.

I saw the old man sitting in the dark, motionless, and did not understand what was going on. The old man said that something had happened in the house, and all three children had drowned. The tone is calm, as if he is telling someone else's story.

The old lady didn't believe it, and stuck her head out with a flashlight to look into the well. At this time, the old man, who had not moved, suddenly came over and pushed the old lady into the well. Ignoring the old lady's call, he did not close the manhole cover until there was no movement in the well.

That night, the old man also drank pesticides, and all five of them died in one day. It's embarrassing. Some people say that the old man should have seen that all three children had died, and he couldn't explain to his two sons, and he was completely desperate.

At the same time, he hated the old lady and indulged in playing cards, which led to the tragedy, so he pushed the old lady into the well.

If the old lady didn't indulge in playing cards, take good care of the children, or cover the manhole cover before leaving, she might not have such a tragedy. It's a pity that there aren't so many ifs in the world. May there be fewer such tragedies in the world.

Love is deep, hate is deep. How much a woman loves you at the beginning, and how much she hates you when she breaks up. Everything happens for a reason, and women are disappointed in you, many times because of a man's change of heart.

is no longer as careful as in the past, and slowly becomes numb to each other's feelings. A woman's mind is very delicate and can be keenly aware of these changes. Grief is greater than heart death, when a woman no longer has hope in this relationship, what are the manifestations?

1. No more arguing with you.

In the past, women felt that you didn't care enough about her, and would use tantrums to get your attention. But now it's meaningless, if you don't love, you don't love, and you can't force emotional things. When a woman wants to understand this truth and sees your true face, it is time to die for you.

And this just satisfies the hearts of many scumbags and forces away the women who love them the most.

2. Don't interfere in your life.

She wants to be her truest self and live a free and happy life from now on. Instead of being with someone who doesn't love you and feeling tired and tired every day, it's better to love yourself. She doesn't interfere in your life, whether you come home late or stay up late, it has nothing to do with her, because you no longer belong to her world.

3. No more crying alone.

In a relationship, many women tend to be more easily hurt, and those women who are already very strong in their hearts are only after crying and hurting, and then gradually build a high wall of rejection in the depths of their hearts. When a woman no longer loves you so much, and she won't be sad for you alone, there is no one who doesn't want a happy life, since being together is a pain, it is better to break up happily.

4. Be strong in front of you.

You can't give her a sense of care and security, and being with you is always scared, and the future is a luxury. There is no guarantee at all in this kind of love, and a promise seems so pale and powerless. Since this man can't be relied on, he can only rely on himself, become stronger, keep learning and growing, and meet better people.

When a woman is completely disappointed, it is not because she doesn't love you anymore, but because you don't deserve her love.

There are many ways to show people when they are desperate. The first and most common type is to cry and fuss and not be able to control yourself, because people can't manage their emotions when they are desperate. The second is not to say a word, and to be silent.

In fact, it is a manifestation of mourning more than heart death; The third type is more unusual and rare, that is, not crying but laughing, in fact, it is too desperate to express, and the mood has collapsed.

Incontinence. When people are desperate, they can't control their urine and urine. The whole body is weak, and when you are very desperate, the muscles of the whole body will be weak and relaxed, and there is no strength to escape.

When I am particularly desperate now, I am often very disappointed in life, and my mood will be very low, and I will often cry and be sad, and I will also have some feelings of inferiority, feeling that life has no meaning.

When people are very desperate, they will give up on themselves, they will not be interested in anything, they will feel hopeless, mentally and physically, they will feel sluggish, depressed, and feel uncertain about their future.

Perseverance in the face of adversity, facing difficulties head-on, trying to overcome all difficulties, and finally getting out of the difficulties. People who have experienced despair will face it bravely and try their best to overcome the difficulties in front of them and let themselves come out of despair. People who have experienced despair and come out of despair are truly strong.

not interested in everything; Emotionally unstable, irritable, and easily depressed; There will be suicidal tendencies, no purpose and no hope.

When I was in despair, I didn't want to talk, I didn't want to eat. I just want to be alone and quietly think about my happy things. Stop thinking about unhappy things.

Don't want to talk to anyone. If you are wronged, you will feel that you can't support it. If it's serious, you may even want to commit suicide.

Running 800 meters in one go, I was physically and mentally exhausted, it was so uncomfortable, and I felt desperate if I couldn't finish it.

In addition, when there is no one to respond to major events, they are also desperate.

Probably when I fell out of love, I thought the other party could understand me and tolerate me, but I didn't expect him to be able to break up because of a little thing, and he didn't give you any chance to explain, once he said "I won't leave you anyway", "I don't care about your little temper" have become empty words, at that moment I felt that love was really boring, and I was so desperate that I accepted the breakup he said.

Personally, I think that these things will make me feel very desperate, that is, my hard work has been exchanged for it, and other people's doubts and disbeliefs, at this time I am very desperate, and I have paid so much, but others have been denying themselves.