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First of all. You have to be calm, you ask yourself, why do you want to sit on the sidelines? Find out the cause of the problem, then solve it, and correct your wrong thinking.
You can't be a cold eyer when you encounter something, you think about it if you encounter something and no one helps you, you are all watching coldly, you will definitely be very helpless, and you should be kind. People are doing it, and the sky is watching.
Secondly. Give it a try, force yourself not to be a blind eye, and try to be zealous to help others. When you feel appreciated by others, you are more motivated.
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I think you may need to find warm-hearted people to make friends with them, socialize with optimistic friends through reading, travel, etc., get out of the limitations of your own thinking, slowly learn to change yourself, help others, play with more warm-hearted people for a while, influence yourself from daily life from time to time, change your life habits, after a long period of contact, you will not become so cold-eyed, because they have changed you from habits, and changed you from cognition.
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With such a character, you must change, no matter what happens, don't look coldly, if you can help, you must help others, you must have a heart, such a person can be regarded as a qualified person.
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If you want to change something, you can look at things calmly, think calmly, analyze problems from multiple angles, and see if you can take the initiative to help others.
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You can usually watch more heart-warming deeds, such as a small act of giving up your seat on the bus. When a colleague or friend is in trouble, they will be grateful if they can help you. This feeling of helping others is really good for you.
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Usually people always hang high and have nothing to do with themselves, and like to be the masses who eat melons and watch coldly. But if things fall on your head, how much you want someone to help, so know how to empathize and understand that if it is me who is in trouble, that feeling will make you no longer indifferent, but enthusiastic.
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This is a moral attitude to do things, and there is no clear legal provision, I feel that there is no need to change, there are many people in this society who need help in difficulties, we should not stand by and look at it, we should give help as much as we can.
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I wonder if I would have done the same thing if it was my own relatives or if I had encountered the same thing.
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It's too noisy next door, it's true that they don't affect other people's rest, you can just go and communicate with them directly.
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Because this is a public place, he is reminded to pay attention to his behavior and not to interfere with the rest of others.
To be calm, just remember one thing and do it: it is to restrain your first reaction, and if you encounter any accident that is not immediately fatal, slow down and react. The action is slow and half a beat but it is effective, it is called"It seems to be slow and fast"。
Don't say it's useless, let's talk about it practically, I hope my experience can help you : >>>More
Hello friends, the invisible troubles are brought about by life and society, as if you see anything, you think of anything, you will have troubles, and the solution to this is to enrich yourself happily every day, and every day you have to have continuous things to complete yourself, so that you can first solve the troubles in your life, and the troubles in society should often participate in meaningful activities, make yourself feel not very lonely, let the society accept you, and help everyone around you to live like this You should also set your dreams and goals from time to time, establish your own career and studies, find more interesting things and items, regulate your sensitive nerves and your brain, and also have enough rest time, often do some exercises with reason for your brain, change your view of the world, treat your outlook on life, society, and world view correctly Here, I wish you happiness every day, happiness every day.
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