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Anonymous users2024-02-07In fact, it is your own fear psychology that is at fault, the next time you want to make some small decisions, set a rule for yourself, that is, 3 seconds to make a decision, in fact, there is no big right or wrong in many things, if you make a mistake, you can take it as an experience, and the next time you make a decision, you will know what to do. If you decide that it takes an average of 5 minutes to do something, how much time and energy you waste in the day is also very detrimental to your personal growth. So don't be afraid to make mistakes, it's a hundred times better to put the time you spend looking ahead and looking backward into the time you reflect later.
After all, many things can only be known if they are right, and the previous imagination is unreliable. Of course, having said all this, the most important thing is to have the courage to do this, and slowly adjust your habits, and you will find that it is not so difficult to be decisive.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06My life begins with you, but it doesn't mean it ends with you.
It was you who opened the colorful world of my life. Maybe we don't weigh the same in each other's worlds.
But whichever is more important, there is always a proof of existence!
I think a lot about how important a person's place is in your heart.
Why do you have to forget it? It's good to remember. Even if you don't get in touch, even if your feelings change, you won't change what you exist, and you really live in each other's worlds.
It can't be changed, but it's what I yearn for.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I want to believe that I can't be wrong ...
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Anonymous users2024-02-04We often see examples of this in the way of learning English:
While some people are still struggling with what words to memorize in the book, many people have memorized dozens or even hundreds of words.
While some people are still struggling with what software to use to listen to, many people have already started to listen to several listening articles.
By the time some people plan to start doing this task, some have already done it.
Why do some people hesitate to do things?
Because they are afraid of making decisions, afraid of taking responsibility, afraid of the pain of failure.
The gap between people and people is often this, those excellent people will always quickly determine their goals, and then focus on doing a certain thing, quickly complete their tasks, and always let themselves walk ahead of others!
We should learn from those excellent people, be more resolute and decisive in doing things, and be less hesitant to do things, so that we can become better together!
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Anonymous users2024-02-031. Drawing lots, the simplest and crudest way to make decisions when drawing lots, is not only to save yourself the process of thinking, but to have the answer you expect when you open the note. In many cases, you don't have to be very sensible, you don't need to think a lot, just follow your heart.
2. Consult the opinions of people you trust, many times you can't decide what to do, you can consult the opinions of those you trust, such as parents, friends, teachers, classmates, etc., you can synthesize their suggestions and choices in your own heart.
3. Make a decisive decision, when you want to do something, you can follow the initial idea in your heart to do it, do not need to hesitate too much, of course, if it involves money, security, work, etc., it is recommended to consider carefully.
4. Thinking about whether things are meaningful, the most annoying thing about people who hesitate is to waste time. A way to judge is to first think about whether it makes sense to do it, and if it doesn't make sense, then whether you have a lot of enthusiasm for it, if these two things don't match, then you don't need to continue to struggle.
5. Establish your own goals and set a big life goal for yourself, for example, if I want to take the civil service exam, then I can develop towards this goal, and some other things that are not very related to this or are not particularly helpful Betta chose to give up. However, the premise is to be very sure of your life intentions and goals.
6. In small things, in small things such as what to eat, the hesitation to play is not particularly big, because this is a common problem for many people.
It depends on your psychological quality and self-regulation, and it should hate you for you. In this way, he will continue to find your various mistakes to amplify and attack you, protecting yourself is your first thing, if it is a particularly excessive thing, it is necessary to fight back, and forbearance will only promote arrogance.
There are some simple things that can often be done.
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Impulsively, of course, you need to control yourself a little more. For example, speak more slowly to reduce the likelihood of saying the wrong thing. If you find yourself feeling impulsive, try to cushion it with other behaviors, such as smiling, taking a deep breath, and coughing dryly, ......Usually read more books on how to behave in the world (it makes you understand that impulsiveness is not a good thing); Listen softly** (it allows you to maintain a relaxed and soothing mood on a regular basis); Learning to play chess (it can make you think twice) may slowly get rid of your impulsive emotions.
That's a lack of calcium, so let's make up for some calcium, eat more spinach, bone broth or something, and at that time, if you have leg cramps, you'll be fine if you stand up, and if you're cramping, just use your hands to pick your toes open.