Love is beautiful and desirable, but we don t advocate early love. What are your thoughts on this?

"Puppy love" is a ridiculous concept in itself. What does it mean to be "early"? What age is "not early"?

Girls are pregnant with spring, it is human nature for young men to fall in love, and it is very normal to have a strange impression of a certain opposite sex in adolescence, besides, "early love" is mostly first love, it is very pure, does not contain any magazines, and is not as dirty as adults think, this emotion will wait until we want to talk about marriage and then consider it, there will be a lot of "utilitarian", then, there are not many innocent love components.

Therefore, children's early love behavior should be properly tolerated and understood, as long as they are educated to grasp the proportions, do not affect learning, learning first, feelings second, it is completely fine.

Adults should empathize, and even be able to protect the extremely precious "first love" in today's materialistic modern society with children.

It depends on how to face up to early love, if it is not too radical, usually two people treat each other politely, which may be able to promote their usual study or life.

Too small for us. I don't understand what true love is. Premature early love will hurt, so let's wait to grow up. Now just do what you have to do.

As long as you are in love, it hurts, and people are too young to stand it, so early love is still not advocated.

In the words of a child: What's not to do? In my words: it's not really advocated, but let it be!

There's nothing wrong with puppy love.

I don't think it's good to be in love. It will affect learning.

What about early love! Isn't there anything you can't do?

Children's early love is a problem that plagues many parentsIn fact, there is also a positive meaning in the early love of teenagers. So what are the benefits of early love for children?

1.Enhance your child's desire to learn

A high school student once said to his little girlfriend: I have to study hard so that I can take better care of you. This shows that children feel that as long as their learning improves, they can give a better future to the opposite sex they like.

Therefore, with puppy love, children will have greater motivation to learn.

2.Improve social skills

Puppy love is a process that requires children to come into contact with the opposite sex and win the favor of the other person. At this stage, the child will invisibly learn how to communicate well with the opposite sex. Many people blush when they see the opposite sex after graduating from college.

In fact, it is also related to the fact that you have not learned how to deal with the opposite sex at this stage.

3.Cultivate a sense of responsibility

If a person has no affection for others, then it is difficult for him to take responsibility for himself. Only after realizing that it is their responsibility to defend their home and country can soldiers risk their lives to go to the battlefield. In the same way, children can only accumulate their sense of responsibility if they have love and affection for others.

4.Learn to be considerate of others

Today's only children are generally self-centered. In love, they have to think about each other and learn how to communicate with others in the stumbles of their relationship. When encountering conflicts, how to understand others and solve difficulties.

Mutual understanding in love is also a process of gradually learning to be considerate. I believe that after this early love, children will gradually understand the difficulties of their parents, and will do something to make their parents feel warm.

Adolescent early love is a normal event that children will encounter when they reach a certain stage of development. Parents must see the positive meaning behind adolescent early love, reasonable guidance, and believe that through early love, children will be more motivated to learn, more social, more responsible, and more considerate of parents.

My view of puppy love is not advocated, but it is not too obstructive either. Because there are two sides to everything, early love may also make two people work together for the future, early love is not all wasted studies, and there are many cases where two people encourage each other together, support each other, and get admitted to a better university together.

It can improve the emotional intelligence of young lovers. People who are in early love are in the budding period of adolescence, they are eager to know everything about the opposite sex, and through early love can enrich their emotional life and meet their psychological needs, and avoid overly suppressed emotions.

Sexual maturity, puppy love is the adolescent Colmont is playing tricks, and for the first time he realizes that people are originally divided into men and women, and he is curious about the opposite sex.