I don t know if we re going to have a future

Personally, I don't feel that the two of you are suitable because your love is not equal He is both in college and is still suspicious like a primary school student What you have to coax and tease You are looking for a mature man who can stand up to the sky and shoulder responsibilities Not a little boy The possibility of him changing is also very small Because his age is there Easy to change The temperament is difficult to change Even if he is willing to change It is a long process Are you willing to take him for so many years? If he's always been the same, aren't you wasting your youth and feelings? Love is a major event related to the happiness of your life, you must make a careful decision, I hope it can help you, I wish you happiness.

First love is inexperienced. There are many things that cannot be blamed on him. There are some people whose lives have been smooth sailing since childhood, so they don't understand the other side of life at all.

In fact, whether there is a future or not, the key is only whether you love him or not, since you love him, you are willing to insist for him, as long as both parties have this belief, there will be a tomorrow! He hates you for being in contact with the opposite sex, which shows that he cares about you. (If you don't hate it, it's a problem). After the wind and rain, there will definitely be a good ending!

First of all, you love him very much, so you can put up with him until now, and you also said that he just hasn't suffered, and you can wait for him if you want.

Then you are very ambitious, you want to start a business, you want to communicate with the customer, you think it doesn't matter, but he is not, you have to communicate with him, he can't stand it because he is talking for the first time, he cares about you very much, you can say that he likes you!

What you have to do now is to talk to him, let him go, tell him that you love him, let him believe, that you love him, and that you will not give up on him because of another man. Love is not a bondage, both parties need space, love can last for a long time, whether we can be together requires your joint efforts, I wish you happiness!

Why wait?

Have you ever thought about how many chances you will have to meet a boy who is much better than this person if you do well in your career?

How long can a girl wait?

Whether he is mature or not is not something you are waiting for, but a tempered by the experience of society!

His family is good, it's not his, a good family hurts him, so that he doesn't have to worry about food and clothing, selfish, ignorant, and willful!

Do you think you can wait for him to change this ingrained thing?

If he loves you, he will respect your dreams and your career! Won't let you make this stupid choice between love and career!

The choice is yours, so why wait!

Some men will not mature after living a lifetime, and after marriage, they are irresponsible to the family, and they can't count on him for big and small things in the family, they are lazy, machismo, and conceited!

You can totally look for a mature man instead of waiting for this naïve man to mature!

You are marrying a husband, not a son!

A mature man who can't take responsibility and can't take care of you, pass now, and when he matures, it's better to find a mature person!

If I were you, I would go to exercise with him, even if he didn't understand you, you would go to work together, start a business, have joys and sorrows, and be together He will grow up after a long time Children from poor families are in charge of the family with a little money They are very pampered This is China's current education Patience With your love for him Hehe, I wish you happiness.

I am a psychology teacher.

I faithfully advise you:

Giving up is the true meaning, no matter how much you liked him before, but love is a lifelong thing, you can tolerate it now, when you really have the result, you must not tolerate him.

As a man, I dare to assert that he must not be the kind of person who can take responsibility, his growth cannot be something you can work hard to cultivate, you have to be strong, he is not angry, you can help him, but the more you help him, the more his self-esteem is frustrated, and the greater the distance between you.

So, think about it in the long run, re-choose the right one for you, and time will dilute everything.

I wish you happiness.

Then if there is a career and emotional conflict, when you have to choose, how will you choose, don't run away from this problem! In fact, how to choose is up to you, it is up to you to decide, and at the same time you have to consider whether it is worth choosing, as long as you regret it in your heart, feelings must be trusted and understood, and feelings are also a matter of 2 people, not anyone alone can change!

Be considerate and considerate.

It's good to be naïve, and you can have a unique model of virtue in your feelings.

Childish, virtuous, innocent, easy to get along with, he can make him relax.

Accept all the virtues, including the shortcomings, and you will be able to do it forever.

There is also the fact that he really loves you, and he will not force you to make a difficult choice.

It's not enough to be virtuous, if you love, don't embarrass him (her).

He's not going to change Rich kid is like this I don't think he's suitable for you To be a man behind a woman Will a rich kid I don't think it's possible for you at all.

You believe that he will change because you are too young. There are so many things that are hard to change.

To love someone is to love him now, never to love his future ... Send you this sentence, I have missed a lot by the time I understand it...

Your main problem now is that he doesn't trust you.

What you have to do now is to make him believe in you.

You have to ask yourself, can you do this?

Affection is about two people trusting each other. That's how it lasts!

If you love each other, you are not afraid of difficulties. Don't be afraid of the future, cherish the present.

I don't think he's for you, maybe one day he'll grow up, but can you wait?

It is impossible for him to change, no one can change others, only himself can change himself.

He is unwilling to change, so there is no possibility of change with salt.

You're begging for fish in the edge wood.

There are a few things in life that are easy, how to make your own ideas, and what others say can only be used as a reference at most.

A man who is not responsible is not a man Do you want to live with someone who is not a man for the rest of your life?

Personally, I don't think this relationship will last long.

I'll just say one thing: family background is not what you want.

Future. Perhaps, we can always be with each other, junior high school, high school, college, graduation, this fragment of life, I can spend it with you, but....Even if the sky is falling now, the words that have been and will always be only a moment of smoke.

Perhaps, you don't understand my good intentions, and I don't understand your words, but...Indeed, after being separated for a while, I have been estranged a lot, and every time I ask why I don't reply to the message, what I get is full of reasons and facts, and I won't want you to listen to me all the time, but there will always be that touch in my heart. Whenever I walk out of the classroom after class, I pretend that it is nothing more than you, and I can't bear to look at you sideways, for fear of attracting your attention.

You may think that this is nothing to be afraid of, but all I care about is your reputation, and I have thought about giving up, free and easy, but I have never been able to let go of you in my heart.

No matter how fresh the flowers are, they will be corrupted, not to mention the unchanging me and the changing you.

If you don't have the power to predict the future, why do you have to make an oath to the mountains and seas? I still remember the promise under the cherry blossom tree, but I'm afraid I have forgotten you for a long time.

I don't want this to be just wishful thinking on my part, all I want is to spend this time with you.

I'm afraid, I'm afraid to turn my head and walk forward firmly, and when I turn around, you're no longer where you are.

I'm afraid, I'm afraid that those verbal agreements in the past have really become verbal agreements.

I hope you still remember the meaning of some times and some times, understand that a period of separation is for a certain time to meet, and I hope that this experience is called elegant and vulgar appreciation, rather than self-appreciation.

Right now. It is my honor and your luck to be able to accompany you on this special day, and I write this letter for you again, I only hope that this year, next year, every year, I will have you.

I won't expect your promises, I just want you to be happy for the rest of your life, get through this time, and at that time, it will be the real relief, and I hope that at that time, the evening breeze will blow through you and me again.

Just like the poem I once wrote for you, "Time flies, love lasts forever, live up to your youth", and at the same time, I wish that we can "tick the light rain and never stop, just as you and I move forward together", I hope that in my absence, you can take care of yourself.

Don't read it, it's all right.

I don't know what will happen in the future? ”

Is this something to fear or something to be thankful for?

If you're not careful, you can't throw out two questions, but it's actually one.

On the one hand, we hate life at the end of our sight, and on the other hand, we are afraid of the uncertainty of the future.

It seems like an unanswered question.

When you love someone, you swear a vow for a lifetime, but there are really so many people who will be excited to maintain the alliance of the year one day in the future.

What exactly can we do?

Living in the moment? Planning for the future? Living in between.

However, it is already difficult to live in the present, and planning for the future is always disappointing in expectations, is it the best way to live in between?

If you think about it, it seems that yes, we plan the future and let our present live in the present towards our own plans.

It's winding, but it seems that such a life is relatively clear, and it is possible to avoid disappointment.

However, it is also the hardest!

But is life a step by step against the wind in difficulties and suffering?

There are many, many things that we can't do and can't do, but we're still alive. What we thought we couldn't get through that year, now think about how it came about?

I came by myself.

We always think too much and do too little, we are good at exaggerating the bitter and being cautious about the sweet.

Isn't that tiring?

Obviously, when you are bitter, you can find something that can make you sweet.

Try to look for them, and you'll find a lot of them. Lose side.

Send you a word, if you really receive this sentence, the vitality of your life will really open, that sentence is: I never know what will happen in the future.

The main way your brain controls you is by telling you what to expect before the dust rolls, so prepare in advance. The brain is like a manhole cover, covering you and allowing you to live at the bottom of your well, and the best way, or the only way, for you to break the manhole cover of the brain, is to tell yourself: I never know what will happen in the future!

I don't know!

Because I don't know, only the present moment is the only place I want to perceive, and I don't know the future!

The core settings of the brain are always based on what is known. The brain will only judge what you should do based on what is known, and the truth is that the future is always unknown. So normal thinking, normal inner thinking should be:

I never knew what the future would hold! In this way, you can make your life really dance, dance, and dance in the moment

Just like I take morning classes, every morning class I take, I never know what I want to bring, and I am with you in such a realm. Yes, when you never know what will happen in the future, your heart in the present is alive, and it really begins to have a place to be perceived and dealt with in the present.

Generally speaking, when we encounter something, the mind is not moving, the brain is crazy, because the brain is thinking about what to do? What will he think of me after I say this? It's over, and it has a big impact on our future!

So in fact, when a regular person deals with things, the mind, such as the water, the brain, is manic. This is where the cart is turned upside down, where dreams are turned upside down.

Quit the human desire to control the future, activate your present life, and let the future automatically manifest itself in your current dance. If the present is good and alive, then the future must be good and alive. The present is dead, negative, and powerless, then in the future, no matter what you do, your future is just a different look, and the heart is still dead.

The numbers on the books are changing, the ancient humans didn't even know the money, to the back of the money, one hundred taels, two hundred taels, to the big fiber now has a million, two million, the numbers on the book are constantly changing, but what about the heart, is the heart good?