The second child is a boy again, will you regret not having one?

My two sons, regretting that it is useless to give birth, they are born, every day is a chicken, every day can make me angry, when tutoring homework, I am so angry that I almost died on the spot, if I have a choice, I will not get married and will not have children.

Regardless of whether the second child is a boy or not, as long as the baby can come to us, it is a kind of fate. Whether it is a boy or a girl, we should take good care of the baby and love the baby well.

It depends on what the individual thinks, and some people will regret it, because the pressure on the parents of the two boys will be very high in the future.

At present, I am pregnant with my second child, and I don't regret it after I don't know it, and I won't know until half a year after I was born.

There are no regrets at the moment. No reason to regret:

The economic conditions of the man's family are acceptable, the husband's family only has one son, there are 2 sisters on it, the mother-in-law has not worked all her life, there is no problem that she has not retired, and Dabao is a daughter and a mother-in-law brought to more than 2 years old, hoping that the second child will be born just one child to go to kindergarten.

I bought a house in 19 years, solved the problem of my children going to public school, and moved my household registration when the house was handed over.

Bought a car in 17 years, and it was easy to go out.

Before getting married, my husband planned to have 2 children, the first child at the age of 24 and the second child at the age of 27.

A daughter, in-laws, and family members love their children very much, and there is no problem of preference for sons, and they will not worry about their daughters being neglected.

The baby is born, sleep the whole night after confinement, and it is very easy to take the baby during maternity leave. The daughter is lively and cute, and she is likable, even if the second child is still a daughter, her husband also likes it.

The second child is more worried.

1.The standard of living has dropped, and I can't go out to eat, drink and have fun.

2.The education of 2 children is stressful.

After giving birth to a second child, I won't regret it after replying.

My dear, why do you think like this, as the saying goes, people are blessed, but it is true that having children has a great impact on women.

In fact, there are many benefits to having a second child1, double the happiness, and when you get home from work, the two babies don't care what they are doing, they all run to the door and call their mother. 2, the two babies are really worry-free when they play by themselves. But at this stage, it's easier to fight and bother a little.

A friend of mine has two babies who are three years old, and the second child is in elementary school, so it is obviously more harmonious. This also needs to be guided by parents. 3, with the blessing of the experience of the boss, the second child basically closes his eyes.

My second child is also easier to bring. 4. All the things of the child can be used to the fullest, after all, it can be passed from the eldest to the second, and it is not easy for things to be all bearded and tailed. Especially toys.

Hehe 5, when you enlighten the boss, the second child will also be enlightened next to him. I'll teach the eldest something, and after a while the second one starts babbling. 6. The house is lively, this is obvious.

It is inherently wrong to impose a rigid rule on how many children each person should have, and it violates the laws of nature. The animal kingdom has never been the same number of offspring for every individual, but for the healthy and capable to have more children, and the unhealthy and incapable have fewer children. Let those who like children and have the ability to raise children have more children, and let those who don't like children and have poor ability have fewer or no children, so that our society will be more and more full of loving and capable people.

Upstairs everyone said that the child was cute, and it was time to stop.

The second child is super regretful, in all senses, money, time, and energy are overwhelmingly insufficient compared with the original, and the quality of life has plummeted.

Raising children, in addition, there is no other meaning in life, personal pursuits, dreams, this kind of thing, all abandoned.

The anonymous person upstairs, according to you, let alone having children, marriage is your grave, you have no hope at all, like a salted fish.

I'm a man, I haven't had a chance to regret it, I want the second child, the daughter-in-law listens to the father-in-law, the father-in-law doesn't agree, and the daughter-in-law doesn't agree. The guidance has been useless for a long time, what can I do? It also gives me a taste of regret...

Our dick is very cute. After giving birth to a second child, I feel that some of the things that the boss missed have been found back, and the person is young again.

I'm male. I have the desire to have a second child, but I have no desire to have a third child.

I don't regret having a second child, and now I don't regret the country's call for a second child.

Great, I'm old and rare to have a second child, everyone is about to give birth.

After giving birth to the second child, the impact on the eldest is too great, and he will never have a second child at a time.

No, the second child is well-behaved and cute, how can you regret it.

I can't afford to build the first and second floors... Directly to the benefits of the third floor, the pavilion in the sky...

Now many families already have a second child, even if they don't, they are planning to have a second child, and many of my friends around me are also second-child families, and I am too. If you want to ask whether you regret having a second child or not having a second child, I think it all varies from person to person, and you can't know until you encounter some actual situations.

Do you regret having a second child or regret not having a second child? For example, I am now a second child, and when I feel that the child is very difficult to carry, or the child is disobedient, I will regret having a second child. Sometimes when the child is very well-behaved and considerate to me, I don't regret having a second child.

For example, those families who did not have a second child may be very happy with a family of three now, but when the children are older and go out to work, and the two elderly people stay at home by themselves, they may regret not having a second child, and they will think "It would be nice to have more children, and I would not be so lonely".

So, do you want a second child?

In fact, everything has to be decided according to the specific situation of your family. After all, having a child is a time-consuming, energy-consuming, and money-consuming thing. Once the child is born, it is impossible to "return", and when it is difficult to raise a child, you can only grit your teeth and hold on.

Whether to have a second child or not can be considered from the following aspects

1.If one of the spouses does not want a second child, and the other wants a second child, then after the birth of the second child, it is easy to have contradictions when encountering some things, and there are often words like "Look, let you not have a second child, you don't listen, and now you regret it".

2.If the wife is at home full-time with the children, then if she has the time and energy to have a second child, this is the best; If you feel that you are already struggling to bring a big treasure, if you have more children, it may lead to a decline in the quality of life, and you should consider carefully if you want a second child.

3.It takes a lot of money to raise a child, if raising a child costs most of the salary of the husband and wife, and raising another child may make the whole family's economy strained, then you have to think carefully about how to raise the second child after birth, and whether the quality of life of Dabao will be discounted. If the family is financially advantaged and it is not a problem to raise a few more children, then you can consider having a second child.

4.Before having a second child, try to discuss it with the sensible Dabao, not to ask for the child's opinion, but to listen to the child's thoughts. If the child doesn't like his mother to have another one, then as a parent, he should guide the child well, so that the child understands the meaning of having a younger sibling, and can't say no.

If Dabao is relatively small and has not yet been able to digest these problems, then there is no need to ask.

My daughter's junior high school classmate is an only child, and she sees that my daughter has a younger sister who also wants it very much, and often asks her mother to have another one. However, her mother said that the conditions at home did not allow it, so she couldn't ask for it, and the child was more understanding and understood the difficulties of her parents. Another classmate's parents are very funny, the husband and wife want to have a second child, but Dabao does not agree, and the husband and wife dare not ask for it.

I don't regret having a second child, I'm really happy and I'm tired, my husband will pick up the eldest and go home to tutor homework after work from nine to five nights, and the second child will cry when I'm hungry and want to sleep, and my mother-in-law will pay for it!! Life is inevitably unpredictable, but I am very content, and everything lies in having a husband who loves me.

I just gave birth to a child, I can't say whether I regret it or not, I suffer every day, and I don't understand why there are so many people who want a second child! There are even three children.

I regret having a second child. Because it takes too much for a woman to have a second child, she needs to have a certain economic strength in the family, otherwise the two children will have a hard time.

Don't think about this for the sake of having a second child itself, but from the perspective of whether you want to have a second child or not, whether you have this condition, etc., after all, this is not a trivial matter.

If you don't have a second child, you will regret it, because when your child grows up, you will find that your child is very lonely.

I told my husband that if I want to have a second child, I will divorce, because the child is raised alone, and I have to make money, cook and do laundry, and my mother-in-law still finds fault every day.

I regret having a second child. Because after giving birth to my second child, I was very stressful, and I needed to earn a lot of money to support my two children, and I regretted it.

Having money, having time, having a husband and mother-in-law with love, and having a body of oneself, all three are not a problem! Otherwise, think again!

The economic conditions are good enough, someone has a baby, and they don't regret it, otherwise they will regret it at least to a certain extent.

Twenty years ago, I regretted not having a second child! Now I definitely regret having a second child!

For ordinary families, they regret their lives, and they regret not having children

There are good and bad things to regret when you are born and regret not to be born.

If you regret having a second child, you will definitely regret it.

1.He began to be very kind to me, and I felt that there was a lot of bride price love, and I thought that I was luckier than ordinary girls to meet love. Unexpectedly, after giving birth, his attitude towards me plummeted.

If the message used to be back in seconds, even if he was busy, he had a response, now he is not at home, his attitude is cold, he sent a message on the first day and returned the next day, I think the child is too noisy, our husband and wife have already divided the room, the child sleeps with me, he said to ensure sleep otherwise it will affect work.

My mother has been picking on me a few times, but not long after I gave birth, my physical and psychological state is really bad, I feel like this every day, I feel depressed after giving birth, and the whole person is about to collapse. ’

2.The child is a girl, and his family is not happy. said that I had to have a second child, but I didn't want to.

He said that he had discussed it with his family and had decided that if I didn't want to, I would divorce him, and he would look for it again, and this girl would let me take it away, but he didn't want it. What do you do with me? Fertility tools.

Isn't his daughter his? How can you be so ruthless. ’

3."My husband called his ex-girlfriend 20w behind my back. I found out later when I used the money, and I consulted a lawyer later, and finally got the money back.

He didn't say a word to me that night, and then went to bed holding the quilt and crying that he still loved his ex. But what about me? I'm his wife!

I work hard every day for this family, and I am not even willing to buy a new dress all year round, and I finally save the money behind my back and I will give it, so I will be an outsider to guard against it. Didn't he love me? The time he cried, my heart chilled.

If you don't want to hear it, you want to get a divorce. ”

4."Between me and him, he's in charge of money. Once, my father had to pay for an operation, and he and I wanted him to live or die and not give it to me.

I had a big quarrel and found that I had a deposit of 40w before, but I didn't expect that it was only 2w now. What about the rest of the money? He said that he used it for his brother to marry a daughter-in-law, which was his brother's obligation.

You don't have to talk to me about that. I couldn't get angry. I said that my dad had to find a way to borrow his money, and asked him to find a way or borrow it from friends and relatives, and he thought it was my business.

In the end, my best friend lent me money to borrow urgent needs, really, men can't be trusted. I'm really ready for a divorce.

I will regret having a second child, now the society is too difficult, having too many children and bad education will ruin the child.