If you don t love, can you get married?

I think oh, feelings can be cultivated. If you are a man, maybe you don't use this word in you, but if you are a woman, you can consider this. Because no matter whether you are a very realistic, cold-blooded, or powerful woman, you will change, the premise is that your future married life is happy, then even if you don't love him at the beginning, you will love him very much in the end.

Women are sensual creatures. Maybe it was indifferent and indifferent at first, but there is a person who treats you like this every day, lives with you every day, and you change a little bit according to his habits. If you really get married for the sake of getting married, it's best to find someone who likes you a little more, so that you can live more comfortably when you don't love him, he will give you the space you want, will give you the freedom you want, and will give you selfless care.

Day after day, year after year, do you think you won't be moved? Won't you be soft-hearted? There is also a prerequisite for yourself, you have to be good to him, whether it is superficial or sincere, you have to make him feel that he is the most correct to choose you.

He is the happiest to choose you! Then such a marriage will be perfect in the future! Maybe you find it difficult, but you can try.

Because I am a very realistic woman, I am the kind of person who can get married for the sake of marriage, so I have thought about this question a long time ago, in fact, every woman is still married and has children in the end, so why not find a man who is good to yourself? Find someone you can control him, not the one he controls you! In this way, your future life will be very happy and content!

It's not that there are no examples like this, there are many around me. So you have to think carefully about how to find it and how to do it!

It's better not to knot. You don't love him, but you have to face him every day. Don't you think it's torture.

Yes, sometimes for the sake of reality.

Marriage is the sublimation of love, and marriage can only be produced when there is mutual trust and understanding between each other! When you live together, you have to maintain this love, marriage is a responsibility, let two people who love each other take care of each other together, care for each other, and face everything in life together!

If you can really choose, choose what you don't love, and it will be much better.

Hello, I can't accept marrying someone I don't like. Two people who have no feelings will have more conflicts when they are together, and there will be a lack of opportunities for communication, which will more likely lead to two people breaking up. One of the outcomes of marrying someone you don't like is that your heart is like ashes, but you look calm on the outside.

If you have no feelings for this person before entering the marriage, then you can still do it in a short period of time, and it will be difficult to withstand the long-term run-in test. You have to get along with this person day and night, and deal with the details of tea, rice, oil and salt together, you can't get used to his three views, and you can't have any love from the bottom of your heart, and after a few years, you already want to escape.

Adults should not underestimate the importance of marriage, in a person's life, marriage is enough to change the existence of fate. When you want to walk in, think carefully. Impulsiveness or excessive beauty is not an attitude towards marriage.

The rest of your life is long, so long that you can't tolerate people you don't like around, don't overestimate your endurance, and don't take the difficulties of marriage too lightly. When there is no suitable partner, you might as well only promise yourself, don't settle, and take good care of yourself until you are old.

Good luck.

I wouldn't choose someone I don't like to marry. If you marry someone you don't like, you will live like a year, and you will feel that your daily life will be very depressing, and you will not be happy if you have no future. Many people, especially in rural families, are married without feelings, like me, before marriage very much hate each other, but after marriage began to persuade themselves to try to find happiness, the optimistic attitude to life in the heart, try to surprise each other, let him feel your lively, considerate, gentle, optimistic and so on good character, two people or take children when they are okay to walk or go on an outing nearby, the character of each couple is opposite, a gentle has a rough, A stubborn person has a sleekness, so Gao Shiheng, who is often face-to-face, is also a way of communication that can promote feelings.

Furthermore, you should never feel that you are old, you should live with the mentality of being young, and you should dress up very youthfully, so that your natural mood will change, try to change your boring life, and don't let your boring life paralyze yourself.

Marrying a spouse who is not your ideal will create some unsatisfactory things. Especially the run-in period after the newlywed. It is not easy for two husbands and wives to grow old, and the two people have different personalities, interests, hobbies, education levels, and family and social backgrounds, and it is inevitable that bumps and even conflicts will occur.

How can we go through life hand in hand, only mutual respect and love, mutual understanding. After getting married, you might as well turn a blind eye to some small things in life, and let the conflict pass. In fact, everyone has a shining point, depending on how you find it and how you appreciate it. Bear.

If you don't love, you can get married, you can get married for money, and you can get married for your children.

If you put it a few years forward, it is estimated that you will not hesitate, maybe age is really a hurdle, for people who are not strong enough.

The more blind dates there are, the more I feel that if you want to like and be suitable, you must be prepared to be strong psychologically prepared to wait forever, and being inappropriate again and again will only wear out people's normal psychological defenses, and become helpless and compromised.

But if you really compromise, can you really compromise?

The two sides are right, the conditions are comparable, and there are no bad habits found at present, it seems to be a suitable candidate for marriage.

But I clearly know that I don't like it, regardless of the conditions, it's diametrically opposed to the type I like, it seems a little naïve, stubborn, and a little greasy in talking and doing things.

I have also tried, chatted tactfully, chatted directly, what I liked, what I didn't like, and even gave a clear standard answer, every time it was good, and then it didn't even take a while, the next conversation, it would still appear, "I don't know if I should say it", "If it's not suitable, don't say it" or say "But I really can't help it".

It's all trivial things, after all, it's still in the ambiguous love stage, and there won't be any big things, but it's these trivial wastes, in this relationship, I won't be moved, I won't remember, I don't want to go to an appointment, I don't want to chat.

Sometimes I think, it's a little annoying, so why bother. I still don't dare, and what I will face after that may not even be suitable, let alone the three views of my personality, I dare not gamble, and I don't have the courage and courage not to get married.

Because I clearly know that I don't dare, I can only suppress, endure, try to change the other party to make myself acceptable, and I know not to try to change anyone, but I do this kind of useless thing. The other party may also be forbearing, and it doesn't matter if he is covered, so he has been tempted again and again.

Alas, what can marriage bring us, do you still have a good marriage for the sake of marriage, you have to make a choice in the end, what you can do is to bear all the consequences of this choice, adjust yourself, people can't be too greedy, life can't be ten wishful, partners don't have to worry about it.

I wish everyone can meet the right person and like it, and have a happy marriage.

People who don't love get married, just as there are people who don't like to get married and then have to get divorced.

Yes, everyone's situation is different, it's hard to say, sometimes there are other considerations.

It's a bad experience to marry someone I don't love, and I wouldn't choose to marry someone I don't love. Because all people know that love is definitely based on two people liking each other, and if there is no love, then there is no way for you to go on. In fact, in a ruined life, everyone will have a lot of contradictions when they get along, but because you love him and you care about him, you are willing to tolerate him and change for him.

But if there is no love between the two of you, you don't want to settle with him at all, and no matter what happens, you will feel very annoyed. So in such a situation, how can you spend the rest of your life with him? A person's life is very long, he has decades of time, if you have to face a person who does not love Biyu for decades, then what do you think is the meaning of such a marriage, such a life?

Personally, I don't think that even if we don't get married, we can't just choose someone we don't love, or choose to get married in order to cope with the people in the family.

I wouldn't have made such a choice anyway, and I felt that if I couldn't find someone I loved, then I'd rather be single. Because I think this kind of day may make me live a little more comfortable, so that I don't have to face a person I don't feel every day, then I will really feel very broken, and there is no way to stay with him at all.

And after getting married, you still have to have children, if you don't love him, how can you willingly give birth to a child for him? If you think about it, if a child grows up in a loveless family, and his father and mother do not love each other, do you think such a child can grow up physically and mentally healthy? I don't think so, so we can't do anything like that for the sake of our children or for ourselves.

You can not love, you can not get married, but you must not be able to compromise, and you must be responsible for yourself.