If you break up, you will never see each other? Why not say goodbye when you break up?

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

Just the most familiar strangers.

Probably not! But when we meet again, it will feel very different!

I don't know. I broke up and didn't disappear with my girlfriend. It is generally impossible not to see. Same city. We will meet if we are fated.

Why not? After all, they used to be lovers

It's because two people are very unharmonious and unhappy when they are together, and even one party has been greatly hurt and wants to get rid of this predicament from the heart, so breaking up is a deliberate decision, and I don't want to meet in this life, and I definitely don't say goodbye.

Break up without saying goodbye. There is a saying: After breaking up, you can't be friends, because you have hurt each other, you can't be enemies, because you have loved each other, so you have become the most familiar stranger.

After the breakup, I also saw a person's cultivation the most. Xu Zhimo's Yuan and Zhang Youyi served Xu's parents after the divorce until the end. She said

In front of the women he has met in his life, maybe I love him the most. In her career, she staged an inspirational drama. Life closed the door to marriage for her, but opened the window of her career:

She has made great achievements in the financial industry, and the market is extraordinary, and the Yunshang fashion company she founded has become the most high-end and prosperous fashion gathering place in Shanghai. Many years later, she confessed: "I want to thank Xu Zhimo for the divorce, if it weren't for the divorce, I might never have been able to find myself, and I would never have been able to grow."

He liberated me and made me a different person.

Why not say goodbye when you break up? It's because the two of them are very unharmonious when they are together, and one of them is particularly hurt, and he has been sad to the extreme, and he already wants to get out of this predicament in his heart When he decided to break up, he never wanted to see this person again, so he couldn't say it again.

Promise is fate, there will always be goodbye Promise is no fate, meet and don't know each other, don't say anything, because I don't know how the other party responds, if the other party also says goodbye, how do you feel, if the other party ignores you, how do you feel, so I only don't say anything, and I don't say goodbye because I want to leave some leeway. Everyone's situation is different, and those who can say goodbye well are generally both parties who have the idea of breaking up.

Since we've broken up, it doesn't matter if we say goodbye or not. If the woman says goodbye to your mistake, because she is unwilling to give up, she desperately grasps this excuse. Don't say anything, because you don't know how the other person will respond, and if the other person also says goodbye, how do you feel?

How do you feel if the other person ignores you? So I had to say nothing.

Why don't you say goodbye when you break up, maybe you still have some feelings for each other, you don't want to be separated, and you want to have a chance to meet again in the future, so if you break up and don't say goodbye, that's what it means, right? There may be a side hustle in the future. Let's get it.

Why not say goodbye when you break up? Because say goodbye. It's that there is still each other in my heart. Breaking up is hard. Since they broke up. Just don't say goodbye. I think so.

First of all, breaking up is a deliberate decision, and since it is broken, it is heartbreaking. I don't want to see each other in my life, and I definitely won't say goodbye.

Since they have all broken up, why do you have to say goodbye, and what can you say when you say goodbye, most of the breakups are often more embarrassing to meet again, and it is better not to meet.

If a woman doesn't say goodbye when she breaks up, it means that the woman has decided to break up with a man, and she is very resolute, and she doesn't want the two to have a chance to see each other at all. Generally, women are very serious about their feelings. But when you really decide to break up, it's also the most decisive.

Because a breakup is over, it's no different from a stranger, there's no need to say goodbye, all you want is to never see you again.

Breaking up is to break up and break your heart before parting, why say goodbye?

There is no need to meet for a breakup for the following reasons:

1. It will be awkward to meet when you break up, and people who have had a love experience know that since they broke up, they will naturally feel awkward when they meet, even if they meet, what else can they do? When you are in love, you can kiss me and me, go shopping, eat, travel, etc., so do you have to write a summary and read it in front of each other when you break up and meet? The other party may not necessarily listen to it, so every second of the breakup is embarrassing and tormenting, and it is not simple to change it as if you put the good times of the previous love meeting in your heart, and regard it as a good memory of your life and feelings.

Second, if you want to meet in a long-distance relationship, the other party is not necessarily willing to meet you, no matter what the result is, you are already humbled The subject asked this question, the answer has been preset in your heart, you want to meet, but have you thought about it, is the other party willing to meet you? If this is just your wishful thinking, the other party is unwilling to meet you, and you are humble, even if the other party agrees to meet you, it is at your request, it is the other party's charity that agrees to meet you, or humbled yourself, the process of asking to meet is also quite difficult, so whether the other party agrees to meet you or not, your image must have plummeted, and you have humbled your personality.

Third, since you have broken up, whether it is a different place or a local, it is just a kind of love, you should think about how to end and settle this relationship, and think about how to face the future relationship Whether you are in a long-distance relationship or a love that is tired of being together every day in reality, as long as you break up, this relationship will be declared over, if there is no room for maneuver, then since the result is a predictable end, then don't add any more blockages to yourself, calm down and sort out your emotions, How to calmly let go of this relationship, let yourself say goodbye to this relationship completely, summarize the role you play in this relationship, what shortcomings you have in what you do, how to improve your next relationship, what shortcomings the other party can't tolerate, the next time you look for a partner, you should directly exclude this kind of person, and finally sort out your own state, prepare well for the next possible relationship, don't repeat the mistakes of the past The problems that arise in the relationship now, this is also a kind of summary lesson!

You can't continue to be friends after a breakup, because no matter whether the other party is happy or sad, you can't treat it with a normal heart. Anyone who wants to be friends after a breakup still has illusions about this relationship, hoping that the old feelings will be rekindled in the future.

But breaking up is not a person's thing, and wanting to be together again is not a person's thing. Wanting to be friends after a breakup was a wrong idea from the beginning.

And there is no need to continue to be friends after the breakup, since the breakup must be inappropriate for two people, continuing to be friends will be particularly embarrassing in many ways, and they will leave some fantasies about the relationship, and it is inevitable that there will be some entanglements.

It's better not to contact, don't bother each other, let go of that relationship, start a new life, new feelings, and meet many people in life, and you will always meet the right person.

Extended information: After breaking up, you should try to go outside as much as possible, don't think about each other often, and come out slowly.

1. Don't give up on yourself.

After the breakup, you must be optimistic, face everything in reality, you can't complain about others, close yourself, think that it's all your own problems, wash your face with tears every day, tell others about your pain, discomfort, grievances, how much you miss him, and then become more and more decadent, let down others' concern for you, and negatively face your future life.

If you are like this, you will only make the other party look down on you. You have to face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, wipe away your tears and move forward in style. No one can live without anyone, and I will live better after leaving Hail, and I have to say this to myself often.

2. Don't see each other again after a breakup.

Don't meet again if you break up, meeting will only sting each other's hearts, because you used to love each other, you used to hurt each other, and when you meet, it will only remind each other of those unpleasant memories, after the breakup, there is no benefit in meeting, not friends, not lovers, in what capacity did you meet.

When you break up, turn around gracefully and leave, don't think about meeting under any pretext, because you're about to start a new life of your own.

Hello Hello is a pleasure to serve you, "can't say goodbye" does not necessarily mean to break up, it may just be a feeling that arises because you are reluctant to leave the other party or can't express your emotions. Before breaking up, many people will say goodbye words such as "goodbye" or "good luck" to express their respect for the other person and end the relationship. And the situation of "can't say goodbye" may be because the emotions at that time were too envious and too excited or depressed, and they couldn't accurately express their feelings.

If there are problems in the relationship, it is recommended that both parties should communicate honestly, communicate carefully, find the differences, and seek appropriate solutions. If it can't be properly resolved, consider whether to break up, and the decision to break up should also be made after the communication is clear, and the decision to let go of the posture decision. Whether it is before or after the breakup, both parties should give each other enough respect and care, so that they can better deal with each other's emotional problems.