Is it okay to marry someone you don t love, and can you marry someone you don t love?

Although I myself am also happy and planning to get married in the future, I must say that when you fall in love, you have to find someone you like, but marriage may not be. It's better to find a reliable and good person to get married, if he has a good character, is good to you, and other conditions are good, that's it. If you have a stable married life, then it is easy to get along with each other.

How many of the older generation were married to the ones they liked? But they are also living well, on the contrary, our generation, too much pursuit of love, found that marriage is the end of love, because the expectations are too high, after marriage is unhappy. Marriage, or bland is true.

Marriage is not based on appearance and height, if you have a common language, you will have enough firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future, and you have to accommodate each other, from your words, you don't take the initiative to maintain this relationship, but the most suitable is not sent by God, but you work hard to operate. You can accommodate him, talk about what he is interested in, and he can also talk about what you are interested in for you, if you have the heart, this is not a problem, there is always a process of slow running-in. The people around them are right, because they are originally a more objective perspective, and it is very beneficial to listen to the people around them before thinking about things.

And do you now know what you wanted when you were younger? Want that casual person? Can you find a casual person when you get married?

I feel that you are not very rational, a little willful, and a little emotional, so when you meet an honest person now, you will be a little confused, but perhaps, you should have an honest person next to you to remind you to be down-to-earth. In short, you have to think clearly, don't think about it because your family is urging you, but don't think about it irrationally because you don't like it. It took a few days to think clearly, not to be urged by my family, and to know what I should do.

Yes, love is the foundation, but it's too cruel right now.

No, you'll regret it in the end.

I wouldn't choose to marry someone I don't love. Because all people know that love is definitely based on two people liking each other, and if there is no love, then there is no way for you to go on. In fact, in life, everyone will have a lot of contradictions when they get along, but because you love him and you care about him, you are willing to tolerate him and change for him.

But if there is no love between the two of you, you don't want to settle with him at all, and no matter what happens, you will feel very annoyed. So how can you spend the rest of your life with him under the shadow of such a situation? A person's life is very long, he has decades of time, if you have to face a person you don't love for decades, then what do you think is the meaning of such a marriage, such a life?

Personally, I don't think that even if we don't get married, we can't just choose someone we don't love, or choose to get married in order to cope with the people in the family.

I wouldn't have made such a choice anyway, and I felt that if I couldn't find someone I loved, then I'd rather be single. Because I think this kind of day may make me live a little more comfortable, so that I don't have to face Changna every day with someone I don't feel, then I will really feel very broken, and there is no way to stay with him at all.

And after getting married, you still have to have children, if you don't love him, how can you willingly give birth to a child for him? You have to think about it, a child grows up in a family without love, he has no father, and his mother does not love each other, do you think such a child can grow up physically and mentally healthy? I don't think so, so we can't do anything like that for the sake of our children or for ourselves.

You can not love, you can not get married, but you must not be able to compromise, and you must be responsible for yourself.

In real life, although most marriages are the result of mutual affection, there are also some marriages that are not based on mutual affection for various reasons. But it doesn't mean that a marriage with two feelings will be happy, and a marriage that is not happy with each other will not be happy, and happiness is relative. I don't choose to marry someone I don't like.

The first is because there is no emotional foundation. In the eyes of many people, the premise of marriage is to choose a person you like, if you marry someone you don't like, there is no emotional foundation; Second, it is prone to contradictions. Although it is normal for there to be some conflicts between husband and wife in marriage, a marriage with an emotional foundation is definitely less than a marriage without an emotional foundation, so it is best not to marry someone you don't like; Finally, marriages are prone to breakdown.

If a person can marry someone he likes, his marriage is relatively stable, and if he marries someone he doesn't like, the possibility of marriage breakdown is very high.

1. There is no emotional foundation. Marriage needs an emotional foundation, for everyone, marriage is not a child's play, it needs to be taken seriously, so marrying someone you don't like is completely unemotional, and such a marriage is very unstable.

Second, it is easy to produce contradictions. If you can marry someone you like, once there is a conflict in your life, it will be resolved quickly, but if you marry someone you don't like, not only is it easy to have a conflict, but once the contradiction arises, it is also difficult to resolve, which is a great hidden danger for marriage.

3. Marriages are prone to breakdown. Although it is said that marriage is not necessarily perfect if you marry someone you like, but in comparison, a marriage with someone you like is indeed more stable and long-lasting than a marriage with someone you don't like, and marrying someone you don't like is very likely to break down.

People who don't love can get married, but Liang Tan will definitely be happy if he doesn't have a backbone. Due to various reasons, although the two Sakurai people who don't love each other are married, they are only husband and wife in name, but their hearts are helpless and even painful.